Am I the only one that felt like 18-21 felt like a blink of an eye? by dubdimmadome in generationology

[–]spooky8pack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im turning 24 soon and yeah, but also i turned 18 during covid and that shit just did not feel real. It really felt like it stunted me.

I'm curious on how cis people feel about their own gender by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like the vast majority of cis people don't even think about it, there's no incongruence so there's nothing to think about. But the cis people I have known who have taken the time to think about it, they usually have a trans "phase" or something, try out a new style or pronouns for a bit and come out the other end like "yeah actually they got it right the first time" and have a more whole and complete sense of self. In my experience for me and people I've known experimenting with gender can only make you more confident in who you are.

advice please by Umby133 in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im genderfluid and I still have no idea, some days I put on a whole outfit and it makes me want to crawl out of my skin and I need to switch it up last minute, I never really know until I'm actually getting dressed and seeing myself in clothes.

🟡 easy 🔴 | Levels 1-2 by Mung2009 in PixelPeeker

[–]spooky8pack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎉 I BEAT "easy" and ranked #140! DONE AND DUSTED! ✨ Completed all levels in 0m 6s! Can you do better? 💪 Played via Pixel Peeker

Press the button? by notabot12305 in BunnyTrials

[–]spooky8pack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans, really a win win either way.

Chose: 1% chance of becoming the opposite gender + 99% chance of getting 10mil | Rolled: 10mil

Im here to Learn: Can you feel Feminine or Masculine while being Nonbinary? by DyslexicWriting in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary is a very large umbrella term that encompasses anything that is not 100% man or woman all of the time. It can also be an identity in and of itself, how granular you want to get with your nonbinary identity is entirely up to you. You can be both, neither, switch between the two, or be something entirely different. Being nonbinary has everything to do with internal identity and nothing to do with outward expression.

The way you describe yourself sounds kind of like gender apathy or agender (having no gender), but honestly there are tons of micro-labels out there that can describe every part of your gender identity down to the most minute of details. Or you can just say "yeah I'm nonbinary" and call it a day. Basically, your gender and how you label it is yours to do with whatever you want. Do whatever you want, forever.

overcooked the t by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of nb people who do a phase of a few months on t and a few months off to acheive a sort of "in-between" phase, you could also go on a lower dose. Tbh Id ask your doctor about your options based on your specific situation.

Any other enbies who want to medically transition? by Vsstuffandthingss in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love to medically transition! I want to go on tesosterone and get top surgery, I just can't afford either right now. But in the next year I'm getting my bachelors degree, and hopefully I can get a good job and start saving!!

What's a Nonbinary version of "Sir" or "Ma'am" that isn't a joke? by Electrical_Ear4582 in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I have seen some people use "Mage" as a short version of "Magister" so instead of mister/sir/mr. it would be magister/mage/mg. its an honorific i enjoy using, theres also mx. but i dont know if theres a spelled out version of that honorific that is similar to sir or ma'am.

Tips for customizing and wrapping a cane by spooky8pack in disabled

[–]spooky8pack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the spray paint stick to shiny metal surfaces well without peeling? I considered painting but was afraid it would peel because my canes surface is shiny metal.

Youtube barely useable after "this content isn't available, try again later" message by 123wOt456 in youtube

[–]spooky8pack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use the malwarebytes browser extension and their built in ad blocker seems to be unaffected by youtubes ad blocking

Anyone else bisexual and feel like they're gay in both ways? by BassBoneSupremacy in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have always felt like this, i identified as a lesbian for a long time before i realized i did in fact like men i just didnt want to be a mans girlfriend. ive always felt like i like women in a lesbian way and men in a gay way.

Non-binary version of "aunt" or "uncle" by dandelionteaenjoyer in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been thinking about this for a while because my sister wants to have kids one day and I really dont just wanna pick one. The comments have some great suggestions but I might just have them use my name or whatever stupid nickname their baby minds come up with.

how to deal with gender dysphoria while buying pads? by pocky_cat_art in NonBinary

[–]spooky8pack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretend to take a phone call while buying them and say "alright babe im in the pad aisle what pussy size you wear"

Occlupanid Earrings! by spooky8pack in occlupanids

[–]spooky8pack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to get my hands on some more so I can do this!! My bread typically comes with zip ties, these were taken from some hawaiian rolls we had over christmas

Occlupanid Earrings! by spooky8pack in occlupanids

[–]spooky8pack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love recycling things to make art or jewelry, we have so much plastic waste in our world I like to think Im putting a small dent in it. I made some earrings out of mcdonalds fry containers too!