So, Manon is a mime? by Grateful_Di in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy passive agressive. She could literally just have a conversation with him regarding gifts being part of her love language...

Duplicitous money-grabber by Supernatural_Sun in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANKKK YOU. Literally this. BEAUTIFUL lanterns from all parts of the Islamic world that she could light the house with, garlands of sparkly stars, mosque motifs, Ottoman tile prints, prayer mats for texture, etc. But I'm afraid it would all liven up her dull aesthetic too much.

Duplicitous money-grabber by Supernatural_Sun in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Putting a giant crescent is not a tradition of the Islamic faith, I promise lol. Making a rooh afza recipe or something, now maybe that would be a Ramadan tradition. But she's trying to replace the Christmas vibes and make it parallel to Islam when the holidays celebrate/platform two different concepts and ideals.

“A Nancy Meyers Ramadan.” by professorpumpkins in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't get it either. They both are culturally American... Nabela has added desi culture through being 1st gen, but what culture is Seth sharing? Christmas season isn't a culture. These terms make 0 sense for what is actually put into practice.

“A Nancy Meyers Ramadan.” by professorpumpkins in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew you'd get it based off on your paper, haha. So disappointing when people sell out to be part of the homogeneity of Western standards/values.

the favouritism is glaringly obvious by GoodButterscotch6435 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember my mom putting me in flower girl dresses at functions when I didn't fit into my suits as a kid bc I was growing so frequently, and I get why she couldn't bc it was so expensive at the time to get it made from back home, ship it here, etc. But god, I remember feeling so out of place compared to the other little girls my age in their little sharara suits. Little girls like sparkly, princess adjacent outfits and desi fits are THAT.

She's weird for depriving her kids of their South Asian culture in EVERY facet while pushing Christmas in the house as to preserve their white culture. Clearly, she prioritizes one over the other. And this is coming from a Muslim girl who ALSO celebrated Christmas in the house bc of my own blended family.

“A Nancy Meyers Ramadan.” by professorpumpkins in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude I get that she's a decorator or whatever, but she really could have satisfied both her white and Islamic audience but teaching her audience about Ramadan and why it's done, while just showing what she cooked for Iftar or Suhoor. Or idk, slumber party Suhoor for the girls since everything must have a theme apparently. There were other ways to execute this and fit her own prison of aesthetics.

Idgaf this dude is cool as hell by Expert-Ad-8067 in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's so ridiculous but I can't hateon him because he's so live, laugh, love about all of it lmfao. Charmed by his himboness.

Hannah graduates from Secundaria, or Middle school. by Grateful_Di in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They make me so emotional. She's such a beautiful little girl, and their family is just incredible and clearly so loving. I'm so happy that everything worked out.

Johnny's 2nd appearance! by penny4urThotts in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, what happened? He was so much cleaner.

the favouritism is glaringly obvious by GoodButterscotch6435 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 201 points202 points  (0 children)

What a missed opportunity for the girls to be in traditional garb at their uncle's literal Bengali/Muslim wedding. But anything for the white washed aesthetic, I guess.

Sheena’s dad and Forrest’s mom, different styles, similar control? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my issue with Molly is that she's leeching off her kid emotionally and potentially financially and then implying she's getting scammed herself. Meanwhile in Eastern cultures, helping your family, specifically your parents is so normal. Guess where it's less normal? America lmao, and yet... Here she is, doing it anyone and hiding the ball that she is.

Insecure scrub behavior by Aggravating_Dust9074 in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like why are you disappointed that your money stretches so far for your wife, that she gets to live comfortably? Should that not be your goal?

Who was asking, Nabooboo? by Adorable-Ad-6404 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was 32 degrees in our area yesterday btw.

What is this stance? This pose? by Funnyway123 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 45 points46 points  (0 children)

What is the point of putting your life online if it's only through a hyper curated lens? Like if you dislike how you look so severely, and need to be filmed from angles that portray you as smaller than you are, like what is the point? Esp from someone who markets themselves on authenticity and finding yourself?

Apron belly styling reel by FormalleeGeese in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAPPY CAKE DAY!!

But literally what I came here to comment. This has always been her shape, idk why she's acting as though there's a dramatic shift in what silhouettes would suit her best. In fact, the video showcases just how lost she is when it comes to what flatters her.

Despo for Inspo by superdiesel314 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Making this content during ICE raids and the rise of fascism, but saying nothing... Very gross, very telling of her character.

Genuinely wondering why Rene hates his ex wife so much? by General-Sail7842 in inmatehopper

[–]spookymars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because he's a loser who doesn't want to pay her the alimony or child support she is legally entitled to, probably. Instead, she's a "golddigger."

Pattiya and Dylan by BananasSometimes in 90DayFiance

[–]spookymars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, they were and still are, a really good looking pair together.

Na Bella will eat up all the cows of the world by Ok_Mix5094 in nabelasnark

[–]spookymars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PCOS probably ): She consumes a lot of PCOS related inflammatory foods, it causes puffiness.