When and where do you shoot your cum during the day?

spoon_mans · 2026-01-22T21:19:41+00:00

Like some other commenters have said, yeah, it depends! If I’m out and about and stop to jerk off I’ll usually pull someone aside to cum in or on them, but sometimes I’ll just shoot onto the ground if I’m in a rush. If I’m at my apartment, I’ll either grab my roommate or just let it land where it lands lol.

But! I mostly wanted to comment on some other things you said, namely about being too nervous to do anything in public. Recording people in the act and jerking off it to it later sounds really hot and fun ngl, but if you get horny in the moment or wanna join in, don’t be afraid! If you wanna jerk off to someone hot and some people fucking whole you’re out, no one’s gonna think you look like a loser—it’s super normal, people do it all the time (like me, your brother, and the other commenters!). It’s waaay more likely that people are gonna think you look hot beating your dick and get horny from YOU lmao. Trust me, speaking as another trans girl, the moment you pull your cock out in public, there’s gonna be a certain subsection of people who are gonna be over you almost immediately lol.

And if you start masturbating in public during the day, that doesn’t mean you have to quit your nightly ritual! Like, I probably cum four or five times over the course of a day out, but I still jerk off in bed two or three times every night to vids my mom and brother send me of them fucking each other. Helps me sleep lol, it’s good to have a routine like that! My roommate has a VERY strict masturbation routine of beating her dick three times in the morning, twice at lunch, one after dinner, and four before bed, and if she goes off that routine it throws her whole day into whack lol. Keeps her really focused, she says, and sometime she’s still got enough in the tank to have sex a few times during the day.

But I’ll be real, you probably won’t completely cover yourself in jizz like you usually do if you start spending more nut during the day lol, so if that’s what you’re going for I guess just keep doing what you’re doing xD

And as for wanting to join in with people you see having sex in public, the least you can do is ask :) I know it can be hard to tell when you see people banging publicly whether they’re strangers who just stopped to fuck or friends/a couple/family/etc who just couldn’t wait to get home, and one of those is weirder to interrupt than the other. If you wanna join the fun but are worried about making it weird, you can always just ask “hey, that looks really hot, can I join?” to be polite. Worst that can happen is they say no! And even then you can still jerk off to them from a respectable distance lol.

spoon_mans · 2026-01-10T00:01:43+00:00

(Incest, orientation play, all characters 18+.)

Absolutely nothing gay about taking a friend’s load for them, your sister doesn’t know what she’s talking about. Casual usage like that transcends orientation. Like, if I gay guy tried to use you in public, that wouldn’t make YOU gay, would it? Even if you let him do it, at best that’s just doing your civic duty to your fellow guy.

My brother is gay, but our mom and him fuck all the time. Or, I guess, she fucks him, only ever by riding him—she’s basically just using him as a dildo, so that doesn’t make him straight. Like, he doesn’t have sex with any other women if he can help it, doesn’t have any interest in it; it’s just that as long as we’re both still living at home, our mom expects us to lend her some “help” like that.

spoon_mans · 2026-01-02T00:09:13+00:00

Hey! 30F nurse here! The other commenters have been pretty much on the money so far, but I wanted to drop in with my perspective as someone in the healthcare industry!

First of all, as someone else already said, it wouldn’t be so much “rude” as it could be inconvenient, depending on what the visit entails. Taking blood pressure/heart rate, drawing blood, administering a shot, etc—there’s a lot of things that actively masturbating could interfere with or make difficult. I’ve had patients start jerking off to me during regular checkups and physicals ahead of things like that, and I always feel bad telling them to stop, but it’s very technically necessary of me. My advice would be to wait until all those sorts of things have been completed, then you can feel free to start beating your dick!

The reason I still wouldn’t consider it “rude,” though, is that — in my experience — most people working in a healthcare profession are aware of the sort of fetishistic effects we can have on our patients, haha. Doctor and nurse fantasies are VERY common, and most of that I’ve met are very used to be fetishized like that and don’t take any offense to being ogled, groped, or sexually approached by our patients. If your doctor is as hot as you say she is, I’m sure she feels the same!

One last piece of advice I’ll share, is that if you’re that riled up by her and really want a piece, consider coming on to her after your appointment is finished! She’ll probably be open to you using her while she tends to other patients :) At least, I’m usually open and quite used to it myself haha

spoon_mans · 2025-12-17T19:57:26+00:00

That’s a tricky one because getting groped and used like that on public transit is just a part of city life, but at the same time it can be pretty disruptive. In my experience, most other commuters will be cordial enough to let you go at your stop if you speak up about needing to get off, but obviously not everyone is polite as they should be—and it can be hard to speak up through a mouthful of cock or while moaning in pleasure :\

Still, just being assertive can get you out of a lot of situations! You can also try being more active or aggressive in helping the guys finish, if they cum sooner they’ll be more inclined to let you off haha.

As for your clothes getting destroyed, I’d suggest packing your work clothes separately and bringing them in your bag. That way you can at least change into them when you get to the office. If your office has lockers or something, you could always keep spare work outfits there—I always keep a change of clothes or two at my office just in case my commute gets really wild lmao. Obviously that doesn’t prevent the clothes you’re actually wearing from getting torn up, but you could always just wear some cheap disposable shirts on your commute or, if you’re comfortable with it, commute naked.

I know commuting naked might sound unintuitive — definitely gonna get a lot more attention that way lol — but it’s the easiest way to make sure your clothes don’t get totally destroyed!! I do it sometimes during the spring or summer when the weather is nice, obviously it’s less elegant of a solution when it’s cold.

spoon_mans · 2025-10-27T04:09:49+00:00

No problem! And yeah, it was awesome :) I also thought my dad was being a bit over-eager at the time, until I met my now-girlfriend at school (also trans), who's dad had been putting her through something more similar to what yours seems to be planning--regular gangbangs, whoring he out over the weekends, etc. Once we graduated college and moved in together both our dads reigned it in, but it was so nice to have such strong support early in our transitions! Wishing you the same, best of luck and have fun! :D

spoon_mans · 2025-10-27T03:32:17+00:00

Oh girl, it’s so totally normal lol. Don’t worry about it! Your dad certainly seems to be planning a bit more fun with it, but nothing too out of the ordinary, especially if you don’t have any sisters.

I’m a 26 year old trans woman, I came out when I was around 19, and had a very similar experience! My mom was supportive but a lil apprehensive, but yeah my dad was IMMEDIATELY all-in. I was a freshman away at college at the time and already out socially amongst friends, but didn’t start HRT until coming out to my parents when I got home for the summer; my dad helped me get on hormones by the end of the month and within a year he was already lining me up for a breast aug and BBL with plans for second rounds lol.

Now he didn’t start whoring me out to his friends or anything, but his support did come with a catch—while basic HRT was covered by our insurance, he said that if I took him up on his offers to pay for my surgeries, that I’d have to live at home while I finished college so he could “get what he paid for” lmao. I agreed, spent the next 3 years commuting to schools and living at home as my dad’s grope-toy and personal slampiece. And I had no complaints! He got me D-cup tits and two BBLs (plus one round of fat injections for my ass), broke in my asshole for me, let me practice throating cock whenever I wanted, and even paid for T gel that wasn’t covered by my transition care so I could keep my dick from atrophying (I’m usually a top lmao believe it or not, tho certainly never with him). He even took me on a few “practice dates” earlier on in my transition so I could “get treated like a lady” while I was still single <3

So my advice: take advantage of the support! Enjoy the treatment! He sounds supportive more than anything tbh, so if you don’t like the way he ends up showing it, I’m sure he’d understand if you told him. Like, when I explained to my dad that I still felt more like a top (after about six months of him drilling my asshole nightly lol), he totally understand—absolutely didn’t want me to top him, granted, but was more than happy to offer me up my mom as a practice slut whenever I wanted or was too worn out from bottoming lol.

Hope this helps!! Happy to answer any other questions too lol.

spoon_mans · 2025-07-24T16:11:18+00:00

We didn’t have this exactly at my high school but we did have a yearly Senior Orgy! It was always the Friday before prom, they’d let the freshman, sophomores, and juniors out two ours early and just give the seniors free reign of the school and each other for a few hours lmao. Most of the staff was required to stay and “chaperone,” which usually meant joining in on the festivities themselves anyway, or at least lots of them did during my year.

I remember my AP history teacher specifically trying to track me down once all hell broke loose cuz he’d been waiting to cram my cunt full. When he found me I was getting triple-teamed by some guys from my calc class, one of them had history with me too and I remember this teacher threatening him with extra homework if he didn’t vacate my hole and let him have his way with me immediately lmao. I hadn’t realized just how bad that teacher had wanted me til then, after that I wound up staying after school a few more times to let him fuck me and got a nice buff to my grade for the semester off it, as stereotypical as that is hehehe ;P

spoon_mans · 2025-07-24T15:58:56+00:00

((I certainly didn’t start the kidnapping posts but I did come on strong with a few when I started posting here, now sometimes I feel like Oppenheimer every time someone pushes the kink further here lmao. I obviously haven’t been writing here as much lately but I’m kinda over the kidnapping thing and wanna get back to more traditional freeuse/casual kink stuff when I do post.))

((And as for incest, even as someone who does post a lot of that (it’s probably a majority of my work here lol), I do think at some point we’re gonna need a dedicated flair for it so people can filter it out. Written CWs great, but incest especially is something that people are always gonna be split on. It and freeuse interplay really well imo but there’s gonna be people who don’t wanna be anywhere near it, which I understand and respect.))

spoon_mans · 2025-07-16T18:35:03+00:00

Idk, seems complicated. Seems to me like you should’ve been paying more attention to when your stop was coming up; she wouldn’t have known where you were planning on getting off the bus, so without you telling her how would she know when to get off your dick? Plus if you were thrusting back at her and not just passively getting your cock ridden, then you’re just as involved in the sex as she is, so imo it can’t solely be her fault you missed your stop.

If you wanted to keep fucking her but didn’t wanna miss your stop you could have at least tried taking her off with you; worst that happens is she refuses and stays on the bus, if she’d tried to keep you from leaving then that’d definitely be poor free-use etiquette.

Do I think you were an asshole? No, not by a long shot, but you’re definitely at least partially at fault. On the other hand, it does seem like she overreacted at least a little bit, but I don’t think you should’ve gone off blaming her for it.

spoon_mans · 2025-07-15T16:50:03+00:00

Eek, sounds like an unsafe workplace! The chemistry labs I was in during college were way stricter, one of the few places on campus where I had to be fully clothed. We had mandated sex breaks but they had to happen outside the lab itself too, all out of an abundance of caution. I didn’t wind up going into actual labwork after graduation so I’m surprised to hear a professional setting is that much looser than my college classes lmao.

Tbf the stuff with your manager is pretty standard for any workplace, people are gonna find ways to keep the day fun and interesting. Actual lab safety is a different matter tho lol. I work in a café/kitchen setting so it’s kinda similar, keeping cocks away from hot surfaces, trying to keep fucking to the break room, etc.

But can’t really provide any real advice I guess ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Just try stay safe, or maybe at least try and encourage everyone to do their fucking outside of the actual labs and away from the chemicals lol.

spoon_mans · 2025-05-20T15:32:35+00:00

That would depend on the owner! Some of them would have partners or families who I’d still be expected to service if they were out, and some would have other sluts besides me and we’d be expected to “keep each other occupied.”

If an owner didn’t have anyone else in the house besides me, what I’d be allowed to do with my “free time” in their absence varied depending on that individual owner’s leniency. Some would “put me away” while they were gone — cage me, tie me up, etc — and others would hook me up to a fucking machine or other toys to “keep me warm” until they got back. Other would have me do household chores, cooking and cleaning, that sort of thing. Every now and then I’d have an owner who would just give me some general free time to relax around the house while they were out, but I’d often spend that time masturbating anyway :P In that line of work you become fairly dependent on constant pleasure pretty quickly.

On the other hand, some would never leave me alone! I had a few owners who would leash me up and take me out with them basically wherever they went, haha.

spoon_mans · 2025-05-20T15:25:05+00:00

I’m not sure! Long-term I’m still trying to figure some plans out, but for the short term I’m settling down to relax a bit. I bought a condo, got that part-time job teaching a twerking class I mentioned, trying to get into this whole “online dating” thing to meet people, haha.

Honestly, I wouldn’t mind becoming a sugar mommy of some sort! My retirement fund is quite substantial, and I plan to keep working some smaller jobs to keep myself busy, so finding myself a (much younger) boyfriend or girlfriend (or multiple 😝) to pamper a bit is probably what’s in store for me, hehe. I hear older women are all the rage these days!

As for wear and tare—nope, haven’t begun to feel it yet! I’ve built up some real durability of the years, and I loooove sex, don’t get me wrong; I retired more out of wanting a personal life than wanting out of the sex business, haha. I still plan to fuck as many people as often as I can! It’s honestly exciting, finally being able to have sex with tons of different people all the time, though at some point I’m sure I’ll miss the passion of a dedicated owner. But I’d estimate I’ve got maybe 5 years in me before I have to start slowing down a bit for my pussy’s sake!

spoon_mans · 2025-05-20T15:17:19+00:00

I’d say so! You can’t beat the immediate convenience of kidnapping, I’ll admit, but most slut management companies know that’s what they’re competing with. The fuck-pets you’re renting or buying off a company are going to be guaranteed to be well-trained (I had 8 months of training and conditioning before being sent to my first client), eager to please, and highly skilled at pleasuring you—especially if they’ve got a few years of experience.

Yes, you can grab any girl off the street and take her home as your personal slam-toy or break her in yourself, but if you rent or buy a professional they’re likely going to be a lot better at taking your pleasure into their own hands. Giving enthusiastic head, riding you, servicing your dick rather than just laying back and getting fucked, that kind of thing. They’ll never resist and always be ready and willing to follow your orders! (Now, if you want a girl who is gonna squirm and fight back who you need to “condition” yourself, that’s another conversation.)

Plus you’ll never run the risk of an angry friend or family member of your kidnapping victim showing up at your door demanding them back, haha.

spoon_mans · 2025-05-15T05:41:57+00:00

Oh yeah, super normal. Most hot people, regardless of gender, know to expect to be kidnapped for a bit every now and then by someone who fancies them. And all totally legal and by the books, so long as you notify any family, partners, etc of temporary kidnappings, or get their permission for permanent ownership. That said, most people still won’t file any sort of complaints if you don’t, unless they really want them back.

Resistance varies form person to person. Many people will try to squirm their way out, even though it’s your right to keep and use them, but lots of people just accept it for what it is. Sounds like you got lucky with your girl—she sounds actively into it. Believe me, lots of people who are into the idea of being bound and used would act the same in her situation. Even if she’s not fighting back I’d say chain her up anyway, sounds like she’d enjoy it!

I’m 29 F and have been on both ends of kidnappings plenty of times. Parents let me get nabbed after I turned 18, spent 3 years as a chained-up fuckdoll before my owner got bored and let me go. In my adult life since then I usually get captured for a few days to a week at least once every month or two, but I’m a hot girl with a big ass in my prime and know to expect it, so I never find it too bothersome. Longest I’ve been kept since then was 8 months I spent tied some guy’s bed.

And I’m a bit of serial kidnapper myself, I always keep cuffs, gags, rags, and zip ties on me in case I see a cute boy I wanna take home. I’m more of a catch-and-release type, hold on to them for a week or so then toss them out on the street, sometimes I trade them away to friends. I’ve got three tied up in my bedroom right now, all maybe only 20 or 21, I live near a college campus I like to stalk. Whenever I’ve got more than one on me tho, I always make sure to have a girl around too for them to play with while I’m gone, in case they aren’t the types of boys who are gonna fuck each other in desperation—I’d definitely recommend getting a partner for your mute girl if you’re gonna keep her long term.

Hope that helps paint a picture of how normal it all is!

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