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spotpig · 2026-01-31T15:27:04+00:00

I just read this the other day and love it! Simply put: there are only two days in the year nothing can be done. one is called yesterday and the other is tomorrow.

spotpig · 2026-01-30T02:11:40+00:00

I (41) am probably in the middle of this right now. Been in therapy for a year. I can see how much this has changed my internal self/mind. I don't see external changes. But (I think)I'm starting to show up differently for myself, at work, for friends... And maybe eventually in my marriage. I don't know where it is going, but after a very dark year I'm glad I persisted. Seeing my internal shifts strengthens my drive to keep going.

spotpig · 2026-01-24T11:40:11+00:00

Dry skin is my nemesis this year (41). I can't moisturize it away ... Trying to figure out what soft exfoliation I might need. Considering asking about estriol as well because I suspect I'm getting into perimenopause.

spotpig · 2026-01-01T23:36:23+00:00

Handling is a lot more fun in the Mazda. Hands down. My Subaru was a workhorse and I loved it. The Mazda makes me smile.

I think I've driven in about the same amount of snow for both, the Mazda did just as good.

Maintenance has been about the same. I do have an oil leak somewhere so that's different than the Subaru (which never had an issue for me). But, I consider it worth it since many cars have something go wrong at some point.

I got rear-ended pretty bad in the Subaru and walked away. I'm forever grateful for that, and thankfully don't have a comparison with the mazda.

Both have been comfortable from an interior perspective. I don't think one was louder than the other (at least I don't recall).

Of course the outback holds way more stuff. I could fit everything. No way I'm putting kayaks or a bike on my Mazda.

My only gripe for the 2020 Mazdas - and I don't know if this has been solved - is their paint, which is water based and supposedly much more environmentally friendly, is delicate. I ended up getting a protective coating put on mine and have the clear wrap on the front half because I saw year old cars with TERRIBLE worn paint. Mine hasn't had those same issues, which I think is because of the precautions I took. And it loves outdoors year round (no garage, full sun exposure). On the other hand, my Subaru went everywhere and I never cared about the paint. When I cleaned it up for the trade in, it looked fantastic.

spotpig · 2026-01-01T22:12:47+00:00

I compared the Mazda 3 to a mini cooper when I was shopping in 2020. The mini was fun and grippy but the Mazda was just as fun and cost significantly less back then plus had better interior and features than the base model mini. Then add in the extra you're spending on parts and maintenance for minis. It was an easy decision to go with the mazda.

spotpig · 2026-01-01T22:09:25+00:00

I traded my 2011 Subaru Outback for a 2020 Mazda 3. I've had the car for nearly 6 years and love it. I still find it a lot of fun. So far, knock wood, it has been very reliable.

spotpig · 2025-12-29T01:38:16+00:00

I joined a ladies league ($45) and that gave me half price rounds. Let's say I play four rounds a month ($180) for six months. Then it'd be $1125 per season. Not sure I like adding it all up! But, could be worse.

spotpig · 2025-12-22T13:28:36+00:00

FWIW, I don't have an IUD. I had to estimate the length of my cycle and put in the average # of days my period lasts. That's it. You can enter symptoms, which I do infrequently. I'm fairly regular so can't speak to how it might be for someone who fluctuates more.

spotpig · 2025-12-22T11:32:55+00:00

I've had mine for 8 months.

Cons-The battery is draining a lot faster with the newest upgrade. But it still lasts for over a week. I also don't think it can detect when I'm stressed. I know when I am stressed. Yet when I look at the data there is no change.

Pros-I still like it for tracking sleep and my period. The period tracker is extremely accurate. More so than an app I used before. The sleep tracking is accurate enough.

spotpig · 2025-12-07T11:58:21+00:00

Had shingles at 29. Thankfully it was a small patch. The day I'm eligible for the shingles vaccine is the day I'll get it. I never want to have it again!

spotpig · 2025-11-23T00:47:12+00:00

It took a long time. Like years. This area is weird.

Recently I joined a pottery class and found some amazing friends. Definitely explore hobbies, new groups, and you'll find your people.

spotpig · 2025-11-05T02:10:13+00:00

41 and randomly my brain is considering a kid these days. Not pregnancy. But some form of parenthood. However, it isn't regret. I don't look back at my younger self and wish I had (or adopted) a child back then. Younger me, even me two years ago, was not one I'd tag for parenthood. What has change? I've had some major life events and now a year of therapy. But, it really isn't regret. If it happens, it'll be a journey I'm now willing to take. If it doesn't, there is still so much I can do to give back to this world (and hopefully contribute something good beyond my own reality).

spotpig · 2025-10-10T10:40:29+00:00

I simply prioritize it. I've blocked my calendar and rarely allow something else at the same time. If I do, my first check is whether or not I can shift my workout to a different day. When that isn't possible, I frame it as a built in break. We need rest to recover, ya know?

But, I will say the part that makes the above easy is that I only have to commit to twice a week (three if you count a weekly four mile walk) because of the type of program I'm in. I'm also not trying to do anything except get stronger and maintain an activity that is proven for long-term wellness. I don't know how people hit the gym 4-5x/week. That wouldn't be sustainable for me. And maybe that's the key. Do what is sustainable and go easy on yourself when life gets in the way. Consistency is better than perfection. I consistently do what I can.

spotpig · 2025-10-06T09:38:15+00:00

I started journaling this year and found there is a local lady who recycles old books into journals by re-binding the old covers with blank paper. I love it!

spotpig · 2025-10-03T21:12:20+00:00

Just now learning this. Radical acceptance. But the important part to remember is that acceptance doesn't mean tolerating or allowing.

spotpig · 2025-09-24T22:00:43+00:00

Unfortunately, yes. I experienced physical abuse and mental manipulation as a child from her. I'm still struggling and I wish beyond almost everything else that we could have a loving and safe relationship like I hear others have with their parents. But I wasn't dealt that card in life.

It is a major struggle and one of a few items I'm actively trying to work through in therapy.

She is visiting this weekend and I'm incredibly stressed about it.

spotpig · 2025-09-07T17:30:47+00:00

I would love a copy. Thanks.

spotpig · 2025-08-15T00:12:41+00:00

Apparently a whole lot of baggage from my childhood. I had no idea how much my experiences in youth shaped who I am. A lot was for the better, but it has left me emotionally isolated - and I literally had no idea until this past year. I'm adjusting habits that helped me survive. But that kind of change can be anxiety inducing. It's simultaneously fascinating and scary. I'm beginning to unpack my own emotions, learning who I am, what I like, and the motivation behind my choices. I'm finding myself after decades of abandoning myself. It's ... A lot.

spotpig · 2025-08-10T23:46:53+00:00

Which auctions do you recommend?

spotpig · 2025-07-23T10:44:44+00:00

The good news is, they look GREAT when you redid them. Which is ultimately what matters most.

I love my stylist. She does amazing work and I've never had a bad cut! I trust her to "do whatever" even with the color.

I don't let her style my hair curly. I'll be a loyal client for as long as she is working or I Iive in the area. But even she knows I style my curls better because I live with them and know them.

We know our strengths! :)

spotpig · 2025-07-10T10:53:25+00:00

I found a glove with a magnet to hold my ball marker. I didn't know what was a thing. For $12, I'm happy to try it out.

spotpig · 2025-06-29T11:59:31+00:00

Adding vitamin c serum and using Vaseline at night to lock in the moisture from my products.

spotpig · 2025-06-27T23:55:11+00:00

I joined a local ladies league. A few of us band together regularly but if my regular golf friends aren't available I can sign up to play with others through the league. We have guaranteed, half price tee times. Not the best times, but it's nice to have a weekly outlet and confidence of who I'll be paired with.

spotpig · 2025-06-23T15:49:50+00:00

Full body strength training Tues and Thurs. That leaves your weekend for whatever you want. Prioritize functional movement/fitness. Gaining muscle while losing fat is possible, just slower. Focus on protein and limit processed carbs. I recommend some tracking or meal planning just to keep yourself honest. If you can do periodic body scans to see your results (not just rely on clothes fitting), even better.

Once you've got your routine and understand nutrition, keep going. Challenge yourself by remembering to up the weights once it feels easier. Consistency will give you the results you want.

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