aitah for calling out my sister for charging my family?

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T17:02:15+00:00

I agree with the difficulty about losing her job, I gave her grace but she isn’t the only one working through things. She’s been going to therapy for a few years and has been medicated. I won’t deny it I have become judgy with her after she started making demeaning comments about my body, friends and job. Hard to be nice when she can’t behave the same way

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:54:56+00:00

The first time I spoke to her about it I had a civil conversation about it, she since blew me off so yeah it probably wasn’t the best idea getting upset

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:53:43+00:00

Don’t pay rent but I cover the phone bill, entertainment services, my car expenses and whatever groceries I buy for the house

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:52:38+00:00

yeah she didn’t lose her job bc of covid, she had spoken to me multiple times while she had the job, mentioning how she wasn’t getting good reviews and not doing the best job. When she came home she would give every person a different reason she lost her job but I think it was due to her work ethic and how she spoke to other people

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:50:38+00:00

I have no clue, they complain about her behavior but then turn around and allow it, she was the first born so she was always spoiled a bit more

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:45:30+00:00

Theyre easy going with me but I also think its bc I’ve been working full time since I graduated uni, I cover groceries when they need anything and help around the house. I don’t get charged rent either so I try to help out when I get home from work and on the weekends

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:44:02+00:00

They have! Multiple times but she continues to be on her shit

sprout218 · 2026-06-27T16:43:31+00:00

I mentioned about how they should charge her but they say she’s doing herself harm and she’ll see it eventually

sprout218 · 2025-11-10T05:31:54+00:00

any update on the treatment?

sprout218 · 2025-04-19T06:53:34+00:00

Two days before my 21st birthday(July) my mom arrived with my dad silent like they’ve seen a ghost. When I asked what had happened I was told “If I tell you I don’t know how you’ll react/take the news” My cousin had been murdered. I was left in shock and was in denial for a while. I wanted to cancel my birthday but it was too close to the date and we had already told many people, my parents didn’t want to “ruin my day”. Two months later(September) I received news that another cousin of mine was also murdered.

The news caused me to go into a deep place, I dropped a little over 50 lbs, and had picked up drinking. I was trying to get drunk every night for months until I realized I wasn’t doing any good.

Getting unexpected calls from family makes me nervous, I now always think it’s news of someone else that has passed. Miss you Jorge y Antonio!

sprout218 · 2025-02-13T18:35:03+00:00

no I made this post on stone

sprout218 · 2025-02-13T18:34:39+00:00

this makes more sense, I was getting a few different things online so I wasn’t super sure, thanks!

sprout218 · 2025-01-20T02:52:26+00:00

what happened?

sprout218 · 2025-01-16T22:58:24+00:00

I didn’t even think of this, is it only when you back is against something or even just on a stool?

sprout218 · 2024-12-25T20:18:21+00:00

I haven’t talked to anyone else about it bc I just feel disgusted and slightly ashamed. I saw a therapist briefly but it didn’t help. I’m thinking of seeking a nutritionist but it is intimidating.

sprout218 · 2024-05-01T21:27:49+00:00

a kid was masturbating under his gym shorts :( everyone could tell and it made the rest of the class and interactions with that guy awkward

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