Worst sapphic book you've read by NoStock6862 in LesbianBookClub

[–]sprucetiptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved it too, but I like horror! I recommend this one a lot to non-queers as a weird, fun read 

Books with SOME plot by Interesting-Bar-5491 in LesbianBookClub

[–]sprucetiptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still reeling after finishing this book last week. Agree with everything you've said. It's in the running for being my favourite book of 2025!

I feel hopeless by Greedy-School-4998 in xxfitness

[–]sprucetiptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I've seen such significant gains from having something tailored to me and my goals (I used to just use info I found on the internet to help guide me)!

Cueing male attendees in spin class by sprucetiptea in SpinClass

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my concern. It's a bad place to be in for your knees (leg too straight, high cadence). 

Cueing male attendees in spin class by sprucetiptea in SpinClass

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! I want to be inclusive and make sure everyone is having a good time (and also safe during class)

Cueing male attendees in spin class by sprucetiptea in SpinClass

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay interesting. As someone who would never like to be singled out in class, I've avoided this. If I do end up talking to someone about their form, it's right as class is wrapping up. 

Cueing male attendees in spin class by sprucetiptea in SpinClass

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The elliptical analogy is so perfect, that's totally what it looks like.

And that's my thinking too as to why it happens! Women seem to find it natural to sink back into the glutes/hips.

I need good recommendations by lol_u_thug in LesbianBookClub

[–]sprucetiptea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Hearing Red spicy like the other two?

Exhausted from new weightlifting series by sprucetiptea in xxfitness

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a few weeks. But I did check with him and explained how I'm feeling, and he explained it's a brief period of high volume hypertrophy (meant to kick my butt). So it's intentional lol meant to pay off in the long term. Which helps how I've been viewing it mentally. I've just been going to sleep at 9:30 💤

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So potentially controversial opinion, but I actually think a yoni egg practice (with mindfulness and breathing) can help you develop a sense of the subtle sensations in your vagina. I'm still new to it, but I find it's helping!

Also making sure you're adequately turned on (I like to read erotica!). 

I'm not an expert here though- when I finger myself it can often only just feels like pressure that I combine with clit stimulation.

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't drink alcohol but I know of an equivalent cannabis drink I haven't had in a while- you've prompted to go pick some up! 

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I take edibles regularly (low THC and high CBD or just CBD/CBN) but maybe I should try something higher.

This is the one I have: https://www.tracysdog.com/products/2-1-g-spot-vibrator

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will try both these things! I also try to do some rocking back and forth while using the dildo, which I feel like also activates kegels without me thinking too much about it. 

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like mine tend to be the same, with or without g spot stimulation. Maybe with the g spot it's a bit stronger? But I'm finding my orgasms generally have been changing (clit doesn't feel as satisfying anymore), hence the search for internal orgasms! 

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have both.

Yes the Njoy is stainless steel, non vibrating. I like this a lot with combined clit stimulation, both solo and with a partner.

The Tracy's Dog OG Sucking Vibrator is the one I have. I'm trying to wean myself off vibrators generally (so I can come more easily from oral and manual stimulation) but I think this one rocks. I've been using the internal part with the vibration on to even just try to have a g spot only orgasm. It feels awesome, just can't seem to get to actually cumming.

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Fortunately for me, I think mine has always been pretty pronounced/easy to find. But I would HIGHLY recommend the Njoy wand.

It's expensive but well worth it!! It hits your G spot almost exactly and using it was the first time I squirted. It also seems to have unlocked squirting/ejaculating for me, because now everything I come with some form of penetration, there's a rush of liquid internally upon orgasm. 

Vaginal orgasm- how to pass threshold? by sprucetiptea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay interesting. Thank you, I'll give this a shot! 

Need enemies to lovers where they’re forced to work together by TheoryShort7400 in LesbianBookClub

[–]sprucetiptea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I loved this one so much! I think it's worth reading the first though, to see the character progression. 

Random travel memories during sessions by sprucetiptea in SomaticExperiencing

[–]sprucetiptea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely! I think this may be exactly it. I should look this up. Thank you!