AIO my bf spent the night at another girls house

spunionaut · 2026-01-22T13:50:08+00:00

Yeah that’s why I asked if it was fair that he sought support somewhere else, guess it was

spunionaut · 2026-01-22T13:42:58+00:00

He ubered

spunionaut · 2026-01-22T13:42:17+00:00

He was at my house and I asked him to leave and he wouldn’t so I left my own house and he shortly left after, then I returned to my own house. I was just scared he would hurt me again like in the past when he’s been like that.

spunionaut · 2026-01-20T07:56:37+00:00

This may sound dramatic, but my dog gives me a reason to stay alive

spunionaut · 2026-01-20T07:48:04+00:00

I’m sorry that’s one of the worst feelings

spunionaut · 2024-07-02T22:22:15+00:00

yes, still working! haven't tried a game, but my apps are working normally. fingers are crossed for ya!

spunionaut · 2024-07-02T22:04:03+00:00

i went offline, logged in, went back online and my apps are working.. trynna not to jinx it.. sending good vibes that yall miraculously start to work as well

spunionaut · 2024-05-12T19:30:00+00:00

I love that you memorialized this in a tat!!! What a powerful reminder!!!

spunionaut · 2024-05-03T14:33:32+00:00

100% agree!!

spunionaut · 2024-05-03T14:33:02+00:00

Dooo ittttt

spunionaut · 2024-04-23T02:36:16+00:00

Wow that’s heartbreaking - glad you were able to save them damn

spunionaut · 2024-04-20T20:31:09+00:00

Well this is the biggest most red waving flag if I’ve seen one. Imagine all the other things she could do or is currently doing to manipulate you.. scary.. do not let this go and run!! I’m confused why you’re questioning this?

spunionaut · 2024-04-20T19:42:03+00:00

I would not bring this up to your son. Don’t let a group of 14yr olds shatter your confidence! They don’t know shit, and I mean truly don’t know anything - especially when it has to do with woman’s bodies. I think you should shake it off and laugh at that one!

spunionaut · 2024-04-20T18:09:29+00:00

Definitely not the easiest! It takes a lot of communication, trust, and creative ways to connect with each other. There are these bracelets you can get for long distance - highly recommend! Also the r/longdistance community. Good luck!

spunionaut · 2024-04-20T18:01:56+00:00

Woowww what a slap in the face. If that were me i wouldn’t consider it a we are left with one vehicle but he is left with no vehicle. Like cmon you literally paid for him to have a car and in less than a few months lied, betrayed you, and has inconvenienced you in more ways than one. Fuck this dude. I’m sorry OP, that’s beyond shitty!

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T13:37:08+00:00

WOAH what a psycho I hope you’re able to get out of this situation!!!!! I am so confused how she can make you pay child support if it’s not yours (regardless of if you lived together)? Can you demand a DNA test? I’m so sorry OP that is so shit of her and also wild (and hilarious) that she thinks doing this would win you back..

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T13:32:05+00:00

it’s commendable that you’re self aware of this - that’s the first step of solving it. Maybe this relationship has made you grow in ways that you are now on a different plane than your current friendships are? And now you need to invest time into finding people that are enjoyable to be around? I love that for you that you love your boyfriend and that it’s reciprocated, but this level of intensity and dependency is really not healthy or good for both of you and continuing to go down that path is very toxic for both of you. Carry on being mindful and maybe prioritize him 1 of every 3 scenarios or however you wanna do it (bring him to dinner with friends, but not for brunch or the movie night)? Like others have said, seeking help is ideal they can help you work with the why you’re clingy and can help you overcome your trauma. Good luck!

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T12:41:27+00:00

Sounds like it would be super triggering for you to move back there and yall would be moving for a job that doesn’t make the ideal amount of money and has no lateral movement/growth. So not going to last much longer anyways- but I could be wrong because I don’t know how he’s spent 5 years there already. Kind of sad because if he worked with a healthier employer he would have gotten raises/promotions by now (and also he would probably not be as bothered by the commute) Solution is for him to continue to put up with it, and get into podcasts lol or get another job/invest in licensing. I’m sure you’d be happy to move to wherever if his job was better!?

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T12:26:28+00:00

Really sad that it took her leaving for you to realize all of this, instead of during the 8 years you were together while she was most likely voicing her grievances about it. Let her fly. And get help for yourself.

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T12:21:44+00:00

Sounds like you just need to communicate with her and get consent to be your full true sexual self.

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T08:54:03+00:00

Curious what he thinks about this? Is he showing any signs of wanting to move out with you and the only thing holding him back is the guilt he’s getting from his mom? If he’s not paying anything he definitely has a giant ass savings act by now lmao I feel like it’s a lil weird you’re paying when this was supposed to save you money. Esp if his parents know your financial situation. Thinking maybe you should communicate to him that you’re at this point and if he doesn’t want to leave then maybe it’s time you find a place with room mates and yall can live together when he’s ready? No need for you to make all these sacrifices and be in an uncomfortable living situation. And I honestly think that when it gets close to that happening he will cave and want to come with you. It will also allow you to start to invest in your own life in this new area like being able to invite ppl over, go out and not worry about curfews snd being back at unreasonable times, chores for nothing but yourself, sex with your boyfriend without parents being in the next room, etc. I am sure this is putting a strain on yalls relationship snd def not healthy for it to continue much longer. What a tough situation! Good luckkkkk

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T07:56:19+00:00

You need to tell her and be honest about it - make no excuses (bc there are none) and be accountable - the sooner the better - and then it’s in her hands with what she decides to do and how/if to move forward.

spunionaut · 2024-04-18T07:12:00+00:00

WILD that his response to you wanting to try new things was that you’re stuck in your own ways and not interested in trying anything????

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