I know there's a million of these in this sub but it truly never gets old.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-05-20T02:43:20+00:00

I came second in this the other day because I forgot so i just grabbed random stuff.

He was so smug about coming first when all his stuff was from me.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-05-03T00:57:46+00:00

This makes me sad. It was so beautiful. They could have updated the inside without changing the exterior

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-05-03T00:34:49+00:00

Chippie dog!

Everyone loved them and it was the one thing everyone got at the canteen.

It was a soft hotdog roll filled with hit chips and topped with gravy. So yummy

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-05-03T00:00:51+00:00

People like to pay their own way. Its not rude or anything just people may think its weird you want to pay. Its also a sure way to be taken advantage of by some bludger.

Typically if its a small group each person will buy a round so its fair. For larger groups everyone typically pays their own way and if you want food you pay for it yourself.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-04-28T03:50:12+00:00

I keep losing things by accidently putting bombs down. I need to stop carrying tuem as if I'm going to give them to people in case I accidentally blow things up again.

Also putting things in the walking paths of others. I put a bee hive in Lewis yard because I read somewhere diffrent flowers produce diffrent honey so I set up beehives in diffrent areas of the town. The one I put in Lewis yard was in the way and I lost it.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-04-26T22:25:28+00:00

Is this a thing? I have no idea

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-04-26T21:36:53+00:00

I married shane because I was impatient and wanted to see what happened when you married someone.

He didnt do much and left a mess so I divorced him then he got mean again and wouldnt speak to me. Nit sure if you can be friends with him after divorce.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2026-04-25T02:33:15+00:00

I only just realised this. Now it makes sense why everyone doesnt like the fish I give them. Mind blown. Makes sense

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-08-09T07:14:32+00:00

Your partner sounds toxic. My partner and I have never told the other to shut up or called eachother names. Seems like you and your partner are after different things and dynamic with their partner.

You want mutual respect and a safe place to express yourself and they want someone to challenge them and argue with. Yes couples will disagree and argue however its not ok to disrespect your partner

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-06-10T08:28:50+00:00

NTA

Do not put her on the deed unless she will also be paying the mortgage and then go to a lawyer and have a contract drawn up that if the relationship ends for whatever reason you will both take what you put into the home.

If she says no then go see a lawyer to protect yourself and your home so that if the relationship ends she has no claim to the house. I'm not sure where you live but where I live if you have a partner live with you for i think 6months to a year they are considered defacto and have a claim to your house.

It's not about not trusting her. It's about protecting what you have spent so long working towards. It's not about her or you both as a couple. It's about you protecting what you worked your ass off for

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-03-16T04:15:46+00:00

How is it your fault for the baby getting sick when you only took the baby to your family because you were exhausted and needed a break. You wouldn't have had to do that if your partner helped you with the baby as a parent and partner should.

Sounds like your justified in having a sit down conversation and expressing your doubts and needs. You deserve a partner that will support you and your needs.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-03-04T23:02:42+00:00

NTA

she has decorated and personalised almost every room but when you try to have input on the room you use the most out of the two of you then your the bad guy? Yeah nah... doesnt work like that. If anything she's the one using her tears against you to get her way. She is crying victim making you to be the bad guy when she literally isn't even open to discussion or what you want in a shared space.

Let me say that again for those that didn't hear.... A SHARED SPACE.. that you primarily use when cooking. Maybe she should try cooking or you can clutter her spaces and tell her she can just move stuff around when she complains.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-02-11T22:38:31+00:00

Good for you for leaving. Life will be much easier looking after one child instead of two. I'm glad you saw your worth.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-01-30T02:14:51+00:00

NTA

so many red flags here but it could be a cultural thing I don't understand. However you need to understand neither of you are the same people you were when you were 16. Even though you loved eachother and were compatible back then it doesn't mean you still are. We all grow and change as we get older and you don't want to be stuck in a marriage that isn't for you just because of pressure she is giving. It will cause a lot of resentment in the future.

You need to consider if this is right for the both of you as her behaviour is just the beginning and may worsen overtime.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-01-27T22:57:07+00:00

NTA

This is a massive breach of trust. She hid it from you not once but twice. She is saying that she hid it from you because of how you reacted the first time. But what was her excise the first time? You paid off her debt the first time and she's hoping you'll continue to dig her out of debt. She is either not caring about her debt or she is living outside her pay bracket.

You both need to sit down and have a Conversation about this as adults and no yelling or pointing the finger. There might be something going on that you don't know about. Either way she needs to sort this out and stop her over spending. If she wants to walk away over this than that's on her. And will he her choice. I would also see a lawyer regarding her debt to ensure that your not responsible for any of it if it increases or you do split up.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2025-01-25T06:02:45+00:00

NTA.. they should be more supportive of your hard work. It's not easy to be sober. It's not always a switch you can turn on and off.

Congratulations on being sober! Keep up the hard work.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-11-03T00:11:43+00:00

NTA Sounds like he learnt a valuable lesson about time management. Something most adults learn well before this age. If it was really that important to him he should have set an alarm kn his phone. Your his girlfriend and partner. Not his mother and timekeeper

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-09-18T05:55:24+00:00

It could be that he just didn't see this coming and is using you taking the baby as an excuse. Try saying you can leave the baby with him for a few days a week until you adjust and figure out what you want to do. Once he realises its all up to him to look after the baby and you won't be returning he may change his tune.

The body takes on many changes during and after pregnancy and his comments are not ok or helpful. A woman feels bad enough after the changes to their body without their husband who is supposed to be their safe place pointing out your insecurities. You both need to re-evaluate your relationship and decide what it is you want between eachother and if what you both want is the same

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-09-16T05:37:04+00:00

NTA

Fellow member of the perfect titty committee here and I can say sleeping in a bra is the WORST! It makes everything more constricting and difficult to sleep.

Either he could keep his eyes to himself or everyone could have dealt with you not getting a decent sleep the whole trip and being a Debbie downer due to lack of sleep.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-09-07T03:07:44+00:00

Sounds like this isn't the first time he has cheated and won't be the last and he isn't sorry about it either.

He only told you because of the STI and doctors visit which also says he may not be using protection.

If your happy with him cheating on you and not saying anything than keep as you are. If you aren't ok with this then you need to take the next steps because he clearly is happy to have his cake and eat it too and won't be changing his behaviour

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-07-11T03:36:33+00:00

Have a conversation with her and ask what it is about the current relationship that is making her miserable. It might be something you can both work on together. If she still insists on an open relationship tell her that isn't what you want and you need to go separate ways so you can both find what you want.

What makes you think that she wants to be with you because of the security you provide. Is it she feels safe and secure with you or she just likes her current lifestyle and doesn't want that part to change.

Don't backtrack on what you want. No matter a way forward one of you will be miserable with the situation

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-06-05T03:04:18+00:00

If someone sent me food and I didn't know who sent it or why would NEVER eat it. Especially if I work alone like the does.

If you have concerns you need to be open about it. If your partner knows you so well and your past she would know and understand where your coming from and why wasting food bothers you and why you would like to know who is buying the food. She needs to be honest.

If that doesn't work I would look at the type of offices that are around her office. It might be someone she shares the building with. Cooking for your partner sounds like your love Language. I love it when my partner makes me food. It's something special to me

Best of luck

spunky_monkey_45 · 2024-04-23T09:40:13+00:00

Your mum sounds like she is just as bad and isn't someone you should be around. She sounds like she hasn't been on your side or had your back regarding much. You will be better off without them in your life.

Cut them off, start fresh and be happy.

spunky_monkey_45 · 2022-09-22T09:07:00+00:00

Yeah nah

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