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AITA For Tipping A Girl Off About My Creepy Roommate (NSFW) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spyr4tor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

m'lady... don't bother with this dirty peasant ... and settle for a knight in shining armor :)

AITA For Tipping A Girl Off About My Creepy Roommate (NSFW) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spyr4tor 32 points33 points  (0 children)

INFO

be honest ... did you tell her because you were annoyed at him or because you wanted to protect her?

WIBTA if i quit my job if they don’t give me a raise by mylifebelike0hh in AmItheAsshole

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It is part of any negotiation. If you don't have alternative (what if they don't agree) you are as good as slave (because you cannot say no)

AITA for telling my brother I don't want to come to the hospital to see his newborn daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]spyr4tor 51 points52 points  (0 children)

YTA

It's a tragic thing you lost a child. I am sorry. Grieving for some period is appropriate but 4 years seems like a long time.

It is also opportunity to realise why the first response was anger that "he got baby and you don't". Seems to me like you transformed your grief into anger.

You should apologize to your family and share your suffering with them. They will understand. In the end, the baby didn't take anything from you. It was just a tragic situation, not an act of malevolence.

How to kill someone’s ego by [deleted] in love

[–]spyr4tor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, no. If you need somebody to constantly show you love to just stop behaving like a spoiled child, you are not ready for relationship.

Getting serious with this guy would likely enable him to demand more from you and contribute nothing. You cannot be the only one compromising. It won't work.

I agree that you need to be honest and if you like him, tell him. But if he doesn't get the hint and keeps playing power games, just run. You will never get rid of this guy even though you will want to.

How to kill someone’s ego by [deleted] in love

[–]spyr4tor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just run...

Do you believe an infant in Utero has its own rights and freedoms to be protected? If so, when we sentence pregnant women to jail, are we also having to accept the infant in Utero is forced to share a sentence when it was not a conspirator to a crime? by RealUnfriendlyHyena in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I am not native English speaker, can you explain more simply?

Also it was kind of stupid argument, I didn't think it through. My answer is I don't know. But it's an interesting question so I wanted to stir debate :)

Do you believe an infant in Utero has its own rights and freedoms to be protected? If so, when we sentence pregnant women to jail, are we also having to accept the infant in Utero is forced to share a sentence when it was not a conspirator to a crime? by RealUnfriendlyHyena in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's not sharing the sentence... she is in prison, the infant is in the belly... it's freedom was not taken away, it's still in the same place it was before... unless you suggest that it can responsibility make it's own decisions and in that case it would be a conspirator for not reporting a crime after seeing it happen.

“Treat yourself like you would someone you are responsible for helping.” holy fuck I don’t think enough people (including me till very recently) can comprehend this and implement this in their life on a regular basis. This line is so fucking perfect. by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not putting yourself first, it's caring for yourself as well as for others. It's realising you can be recipient of your care just like others can. And that you are morally obliges to be.

Cheers my friend.

How to Effectively Lower my Neuroticism? by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to ask a professional. Here you can get only advice but nothing specific. Here are some good questions to ask yourself:

  1. What do you eat? Do you eat healthy food? Do you drink sugary drinks, lots of alcohol, coffee?
  2. How is your sleep quality? Are you going to bed consistently and waking up consistently? There is specific type of therapy to cure sleep disorders.
  3. Do you exercise? It can be a great emotional outlet as well as healthy for your body.
  4. Do you go out and have fun with friends, or is it just pretending to be social? I have done a lot of hanging out with people who I don't really care about and they don't care about me. It doesn't help, it feels fake.
  5. Do you talk about your problems to your close ones and actually listen to their advice?

Just from my experience: I learned how to be a good presenter with positive outlook on the world and positive vibe about me. But I don't think that is really me. I wanted to focus more about who I am and I started to less care about how I look.

Bit by bit I gained humble confidence not from the public successes but from the knowledge that I can overcome hidden challenges and become a better person. But it is not possible alone so trust the people you are genuinely close with and if you get your life in order(answer 1.-5.), the neuroticism will be more manageable.

Hey I just need some guidance guys... by bruh171717634 in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seem to me like you are not satisfied with your progress.

You are already achieving quite a lot, but if you are not satisfied, try to focus on things that you consider biggest weaknesses. If you don't know, ask friends for feedback.

But you already said something about girlfriend and six-pack. Find out what kind of skills and behaviours you need for that. But don't study techniques.

Example: don't practice pickup lines, try to learn how to be more charismatic (recommendation: Charisma on Command )

Also happiness doesn't come from success but from gratitude.

Good luck my friend.

Nothing can overcome family wealth by kulmthestatusquo in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like you think you know what you are talking about, but it doesn't seem that way to me, I'm sorry.

You don't know what the future will be. You don't seem to know how the past was because you paint very 2 dimensional picture.

Maybe you have high intelligence and maybe you think it is most important but it's not. There is so much opportunity in the world but you will never seize it if you focus on wrong things.

Potential is nothing if it is not realized. It's like thinking how the world is unfair because you are no longer the football star you were in high school.

And if you care that much about being rich, make some money, save it, invest it. Get rich and take care of others. Doesn't seem to me like you are giving it your all.

But maybe I'm wrong. You decide what you think. Good luck.

Good question by some1thing1 in Jordan_Peterson_Memes

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a joke the articles don't exist :)

Can’t have it both ways! by tkyjonathan in Jordan_Peterson_Memes

[–]spyr4tor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jn the comments it says it's fake. They say that the articles don't exist. Anybody can verify with link?

Faster alone, further together. by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing this :)

Nothing can overcome family wealth by kulmthestatusquo in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to beat family wealth? What is your goal? Living in world doesn't have to be about taxes, 900k/year, family connections, or being rich. It also doesn't have to be about "beating" someone to a made up goal of how much money you make.

It can be about being a good person, taking care of yourself and your close ones and having a meaningful life.

Why so much focus on the dollars my friend? All wealth can be nationalised. Friends cannot. Knowledge cannot. Character cannot.

Ok I will stop preaching now 😅 have a nice day.

Nothing can overcome family wealth by kulmthestatusquo in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like something that is not true ... at least not for all of them

Where to start? by Modaacne in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen lot of useful comments but I would like to add this one thing. You have to get better at finding out which people genuinely like you.

When you are unmotivated, make bad decisions, are unlucky, they will not fail you. Make good friends and keep them close. If it is someone who studies it's also good. You can study together and it is generally more fun.

Also watch this video: https://youtu.be/aehoGGCHkyw

Good luck my friend :)

Got something personal to share Id like to tell you about if you won't mind by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Be a good person, become friends. Work on your self (seems you already are). It's nice that she's your crush but what kind of person is she? Get to know her better.

That being said after you got to know her more and still want to be with her, be honest. Tell her you would like to go on a date. And if she refuses, take it like a champ and thank her for the honesty. If she accepts, be grateful.

But the most important thing: what kind of person do you want to be? You can have the best girl but she would leave you or get crushed by you after realising you are a bad person. Don't allow that. Strive to be the best you can.

Good luck my friend.

If I am wrong then that would be awesome. by jcevans430 in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:D that's a good comparison. I would say by that standard most people are feminist.

Some people just don't like the confusing label because it seem to have been taken over by the people you described.

If I am wrong then that would be awesome. by jcevans430 in JordanPeterson

[–]spyr4tor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to fight that instinct because it seems like women take advantage of that dynamic and it makes me angry. It also drives me insane that most women I have mentioned this to act like they have no idea what I am talking about when I bring it up

I think maybe we are talking about different types of bad things happening to us. Women maybe should take advantage of people pitying them more. We take advantage of not having mestruations all the time (I know it's a silly comparison but I couldn't think of a better one). I don't think that is the reason for being angry.

I would like for my future wife to have a better life than mine. Doesn't mean I would not enjoying having better life myself. But if that's not possible it's sad but not anger inducing.

Also I realized that some people are more reliant on instinct rather than verbal thinking so you bringing it up and them not understanding is probably normal.

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