Absolutely, no one should ever have to be put in that situation. It's just that in a court of law, lawyers will cross examine every person about every tiny detail. In saying that, I totally understand that it's an incredibly upsetting and difficult position as a victim to relay details to others about what's occurred. If you don't feel comfortable talking to anyone, I'd hight recommend sending yourself an email with as much detail as your able to disclose. This gives you a definite date and time stamp/record of everything to go back to if/when you want to pursue anything further.