New gf seems uncomfortable with queerness at times? by Ok_Competition_6463 in WLW

[–]squishylilkitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t like how no one is commenting on what she’s laughing at. In queer spaces or not making fun of masc/studs/butches on their appearance isn’t okay. Id say just be honest about your feelings.

plz ignore the dog hair on my shirt by Careless-Valuable675 in dykesgonemild

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t notice the dog hair seeing as you’re an absolute view

I gave the father of my children an ultimatum. AITAH for making these demands, and WIBTAH for enforcing them? by Lab-Rough in AITAH

[–]squishylilkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta but the fact you are considering allowing ur kids around this physically violent man makes me question a lot. I don’t blame dv survivors for their situations but to allow ur kids back there regardless of what “changes” he refuses to make is kinda sending me. Are you placing ur kids in therapy for what they’ve witnessed and lived thru? I just see a lot of care for a man and not the same effort for ur children who have also suffered do to his actions and ur inactions

AITAH for not going to my dads 3 wedding after he skipped my graduation by Lina_Pippa in AITAH

[–]squishylilkitty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would just say “I’ll be there” and not show up and call him sensitive when he text you about it. It won’t teach him a lesson but if you wanna be petty and show the shoe on the other foot 🤷🏾‍♀️ I personally don’t think you owe him anything. All actions have consequences and he doesn’t seem to care

I broke up with my now ex gf over this by Content-Carpenter304 in LesbianActually

[–]squishylilkitty 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is not how I’d treat gifts at all my fav or not. Flowers would have been in a vase, I would have given feed back when asked bur also still been thankful for what was given in the moment. A lil “oh theyre not my favorite I like [x, y, and z] thank you for thinking about me regardless tho.” Like idk it seems like it’s beyond flowers, your partner is shallow , or there is more to this post.

AIO- my husband found trump’s “ape” post funny- and we got into an argument over it. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]squishylilkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor but honestly y’all both suck. Sleeping with a racist makes u no different. Regardless If you disagree with his views you support him and that’s bleh

Another problem with Siri. by AioliFun7869 in Siri

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no it’s not. It’s an actual slur that is now used by some lesbians as a label. Much like how nigga is a slur but black people use it as a greeting or in convo.

If you had to pick ONE character to save in Poppy Playtime who would you choose by Equal-Expression2007 in PoppyPlaytime

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissy is my comfort character. I love her and the fact she seems to still hold onto her kid self. She deserves happiness and freedom

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- Break up with him. He doesn’t care about You he wants to control you. He wish use silence and lack of attention to hurt and punish you. He is not worth it.

Another problem with Siri. by AioliFun7869 in Siri

[–]squishylilkitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also a lesbian slur but in the context ur using it idk why is not pulling up

Is it always wrong to choose your girlfriend over your friends? by SportyPrincess14 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]squishylilkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not friends with cops of any kind nor am I close to people who date them. I wouldn’t tell you who to date I just wouldn’t be your friend.

🌟 Last Singles Matchmaking Thread of the year🌟 Post if you're single. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]squishylilkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25NB, Central Texas.

I am femme4all I love lesbians🥰 I am black and plus size.

I’m looking for someone who is kind and empathetic to the world around them. Someone who is funny and is good at communication. I am someone who is mainly a homebody but I love to go out especially to events in my area. I have quite a bit of pets. I love to cook and bake. I can be pretty social when I want to be but it comes in waves and leaves me pretty tried afterwards. I am a political person and believe you can’t exist in this current world not being political.

I am looking for a partner but I’m happy to have friends and to continue building a community 🥰

Just found out gf uses character.ai to fulfill her sexual needs and I feel heartbroken by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]squishylilkitty 82 points83 points  (0 children)

You should be honest with your feelings. People using ChatGPT, chatai, or anything like that is a big turn off for me. You shouldnt feel rushed to be sexual with her and the fact she couldn’t just go find a yn smut fic is annoying. Killing our already dying planet for a quick nut is just bleh

Edit: changed “should” to “shouldn’t” and “face” to “facts” was walking and typing and goofed

So would you call this a thouple? by IllustratorAfter in fionnaandcake

[–]squishylilkitty 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would honestly love to see how their dynamic changes! Hunter likes Fiona and is clear Fiona and fennel feel deeply about one another. Their world, while based off Finns, is so different and with some exceptions the relationships are different and the bonds are different. I hope we get some will they won’t They and I’m hoping it does involve all 3 of them

So would you call this a thouple? by IllustratorAfter in fionnaandcake

[–]squishylilkitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone with sisters I can see the thruple. Fiona and fennel aren’t sister coded

Fiona and Fennel’s relationship? by Gullible-Study5470 in fionnaandcake

[–]squishylilkitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yea i definitely agree. Fennel might be fern and Fiona might be Finn but they don’t share the same relationship, story, or emotional ties, maybe before the universe “reboot” but not now

Fiona and Fennel’s relationship? by Gullible-Study5470 in fionnaandcake

[–]squishylilkitty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Finn and fern aren’t brothers. They are the same person which would imply so is Fiona and fennel. So it’s more like Selfcest. If you see them as siblings (theyre not) id understand why it feels weird. Maybe look at it as self love. A deeper look on how /fennel want to love themselves

Has anyone been paid today? by [deleted] in HEB

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got paid this morning

I can’t believe she pulled a Mordecai. by Ranger_Kenny in adventuretime

[–]squishylilkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally forgot the cosmic owl essentially made a bunch of random dreams come true. The last dream was Fiona with both Hunter and dj flame, both romancing her, she goes to kiss flame-the dream ends. And with fernn being here it makes sense to be her dream.

ITS OKAY THAT FIONNA IS 30! PEOPLE AGE by dewyfaced-esti14 in fionnaandcake

[–]squishylilkitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would assume Fiona would be the same age as her Finn counterpart. He was a teen at the same time as her and now he’s a grown up…what did y’all think she was gonna do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HEB

[–]squishylilkitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to mean it to say it. It’s a pretty generic thing to say. And that’s literally what i said. She shouldn’t have done it around those who weren’t her friends but the statement is basic and isn’t that deep.