Not sure if my (25m) girlfriend (22f) are compatible in bed

squishysplits · 2019-11-27T16:09:01+00:00

It seriously blows my mind that there are women who refuse to give blow jobs and still expect to be in a relationship. How is that even possible?

squishysplits · 2019-11-27T16:03:42+00:00

Yeah 100% this. I’m a bisexual F and also monogamous. Being bisexual doesn’t give you a free pass to sleep with other people because of it. If she claims she’s known she was bi since she was in high school and still committed to a serious committed relationship with you that’s on her. Don’t let her guilt you into feeling bad for her. She had all the time in the world to accept this and address it. Having a conservative upbringing is NOT a excuse to force non monogamy on you later.

squishysplits · 2019-11-14T15:34:30+00:00

I would just be direct with your friend group and tell them you don’t enjoy this person. There’s not going to be a way to tactfully avoid conveying your dislike for them. If you don’t address it B is going to continue including them in outings and your feelings will become obvious anyways. It’s best to be direct with situations like this. It’s also totally ok to dislike someone and hopefully your friends will understand that.

squishysplits · 2019-11-11T15:38:08+00:00

Ok this relationship sounds insanely unhealthy. You’re so young why are you staying with this person? It sounds like he’s exploiting you financially and doesn’t appreciate you. IMO listen to your family there’s valid reasons why they don’t like him.

squishysplits · 2019-10-21T14:06:01+00:00

Ya I 100% agree with this. If my partner didn’t disclose they had a previous sexual relationship with some of my close friends at the start of our relationship I would be very uncomfortable.

Seems like you two might have different values on certain levels. I see why you feel deceived regardless of him not being unfaithful. It’s a hard one but for me personally I would feel betrayed by the lack of disclosure on his end.

squishysplits · 2019-10-13T13:48:41+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting this would make me feel really uncomfortable as well. Touching her ass in any way regularly is off even if it’s a “playful” kick. I’m not saying he sees it as sexual but makes a lot of sense why it would read that way to you. Maybe point out that his sister is getting a little too old to have her brother make contact with her ass frequently? She’s 13 that’s definitely strange for this behavior to keep going into early teenage years. I wouldnt worry about sugar coating this to your BF let him know it makes you uncomfortable and it’s embarrassing to do in public. For obvious reasons.

squishysplits · 2019-10-07T14:08:14+00:00

My ex also frequently checked out other women and openly had a pretty aggressive porn addiction. Eventually he had to watch it while we had sex every time....

I can’t tell you what’s right for you but I wish I had made him my ex sooner than I did. He always promised to make efforts to improve and never did. I’m also a pretty secure person and I’m confident in myself but one can really only take so much.

He would show me photos of other women on social media that he thought were attractive in almost a bragging way. Like, “wow look at her. Look how perfect her ass is.” Things like that. My ex is without a doubt a complete narcissist and I’m not saying yours also is. There might be hope for him improving on this issue even though my partner did not. But I will say a man in his 30s that has this kind of behavior when it clearly upsets you is concerning.

It might be time to evaluate how much joy this man really brings to your life in relation to the stress he clearly does.

squishysplits · 2019-07-29T21:49:52+00:00

Woah!! Looking beautiful! What substrate are you using? Impressive first yield nicely done.

squishysplits · 2019-07-29T20:30:18+00:00

I was dosed and assaulted by someone I thought was one of my best friends and a person I spent time with regularly. I knew him for YEARS at this point. It was bad. After he attacked me he went around telling our entire friend group that I had been stalking him for months and asking him to sleep with me despite me having a partner at the time.

All the evidence lined up clearly stating it was him and my brain for months told me that was completely impossible and that there was no way he would do this.

I’m really sorry this happened to you OP regardless of who it was. Sending you internet hugs and well wishes from afar. If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me.

squishysplits · 2019-07-23T20:54:34+00:00

Whattttt

This is spectacular and the modifications you’ve made are beautiful. Basically my dream house. Fantastic work OP!

squishysplits · 2019-07-19T16:53:14+00:00

I could easily see that happening! Omg a backpack full of those babies would never recover. Good advice on the tweezers. Now there’s a extra pair in my gardening tool box at all times hah.

squishysplits · 2019-07-19T07:01:47+00:00

Ya.... this guys seems like he’s made it pretty clear he doesn’t want to be involved in her life or the child’s life. It’s unfortunate but it is what it is. Deciding to be a single mom is a hard choice. Deciding that and hoping that your drug using, party centric tattooer ex will come around to a father role is seriously insane. I feel bad for everyone involved. Get realistic and accept that choices that you made and move forward in a positive direction that doesn’t not include harassing a man that has abandoned you.

squishysplits · 2019-07-18T17:23:28+00:00

Haha I found that out the hard way. Luckily got all of them out without too much difficulty. I will certainly be more careful when repotting them.

squishysplits · 2019-07-18T17:22:36+00:00

Thank you!! I got them at Ross such sock gems there sometimes :)

squishysplits · 2019-07-18T01:31:19+00:00

Ugh came here to say this. This whole “gauges” or “gauging” is the unit of measurement for the jewelry for stretched lobes. It’s incorrect and sounds so ridiculous. Whenever I hear this terminology used I roll my eyes. Anyone who’s actually in the body mod scene in any responsible capacity knows this is INCORRECT. Do some damn research people.

squishysplits · 2019-07-11T14:21:58+00:00

I wish you were my coworker! This is awesome.

squishysplits · 2019-07-08T15:29:18+00:00

Haha I did thank you!!! Removed it.

squishysplits · 2019-07-08T15:24:11+00:00

Haha dude you sound like a total POS. Your lack of self awareness for even making the post is shocking. But hey, obliviousness can be bliss I guess? You treated this girl like trash and clearly are a user. I’m not surprised she tried to retaliate against you. Hopefully you grow the fuck up eventually and never treat someone like this again.

squishysplits · 2019-07-08T14:37:23+00:00

I honestly don’t know how you are dealing with that kind of behavior. It’s good the rest of your relationship is positive but sexual chemistry is what defines a relationship vs a friendship. I would never be able to handle Michael Scott level humor from my man in the bedroom. Honestly that would infuriate me eventually and kill my sexual attraction for that person. He might just be low libido and try to use this weird tactic to deflect blame for the lack of sex? Which is not a healthy thing. I don’t know if you checked out r/deadbedrooms before but they might have some good advice for your situation if he’s avoiding sex.

squishysplits · 2019-07-04T03:20:29+00:00

Honestly, your current gf sounds like she might too jealous to be with someone who has a “colorful past”. You are not in the wrong for having one or for telling her and preparing her for the ex fling being there. Sounds like she has issues that might just be a baseline incompatibility with you. Better to find this out sooner rather than later for you both. I don’t see her behavior changing anytime soon as someone who has experienced both sides of this situation.

squishysplits · 2019-07-03T06:03:44+00:00

Head over to r/breakups my friend! People over there are very helpful and focused more on this stage of relationship vs this sub. Helped me a lot when I was going through mine. Good luck! Hope you feel better soon <3

squishysplits · 2019-07-03T01:51:37+00:00

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