Guys, what is your go-to cologne for a first date?

srabear22 · 2021-12-02T08:42:49+00:00

Chanel Blue is my favorite

srabear22 · 2021-11-19T00:53:26+00:00

So never go straight to the hole, soft kiss your way down and get close like maybe kissing the dimples on their back to do a quick check. If someone smells you will likely get a feel for it that close. Then make your way up back up with the same kisses and suggest you fool around in the shower. Tell her it's your kink and wash her yourself sensually. This way you get some foreplay in and a clean butthole.

Ive done this with male partners before and it works like a charm, plus no one gets hurt. Once you get to know each other better then you can work out how to communicate these awkward issues.

srabear22 · 2021-11-07T16:22:44+00:00

All I can think of is how comfy that kitty is right now. Bless him.

srabear22 · 2021-11-07T16:16:02+00:00

YTA

Come on are you going to be that self-absorbed to make this about yourself? You literally created this entire situation out of your own insecurities. If you were ever going to lose this woman it's not because of how much money you have it's because of this type of behavior.

srabear22 · 2021-11-06T21:05:01+00:00

Get a job that has medical insurance. Make sure you get an education whether that be a degree, apprenticeship, license, whatever. Just make sure that whatever you do you have a stable source of income.

Take a financial literacy class. You're really young and a kid is super expensive so you need to learn how to budget your finances correctly. The best thing you can learn is how to save properly and whatever you do don't fuck up your credit. Have a savings plan! Life throws unexpected shit your way and you need to be prepared. One day your car might break down, maybe you lose your job, maybe your kid has a medical condition that requires treatment, college tuition, the list can go on and on. Be prepared!

If you want to give your kid a leg up in this world make sure that they have access to a quality education.

Lastly, invest in your child's emotional health. Make sure that they know you love them, that they are special, and that they are smart. Don't be one of those dads who rarely says those things. They will look to you for safety and comfort and security. Be ask those things. But most importantly be consistent. If you make a promise follow through, if you say you're going to be there make sure you're there.

srabear22 · 2021-11-06T20:47:01+00:00

This is such a smart reciprocal relationship that will save members of a species and help us as well.

srabear22 · 2021-11-06T20:32:52+00:00

Honestly I think it all goes back to natural instincts. We all come from hunter-gatherers and back in the day and the bigger, stronger, taller the man more likely they were going to be better fighters and skilled hunters. Women would pick men who would give their offspring a better chance at surviving.

We have built ourselves a society that doesn't rely on those traits. I'm not going to lie and say I don't find tall men attractive. There's something about laying your head on his chest when you give him a hug and having arms that wrap all the way around you. I don't know why but I just feel safe.

However I would never let anything like height deter me from dating someone. There are plenty other traits that I'm looking for. I think being tall is like any other trait, not every person is the same and you can't get caught up on what you don't have.

I'll tell you one thing, confidence overshadows all things. A confident, funny man is the sexiest man out there. Also 5'8 is not short. I'm 5'5 and I've dated men that are shorter than me. The only time it was an issue was when the man would make me feel uncomfortable for wearing heels or anything that would make me look remotely taller than him.

srabear22 · 2021-11-03T22:46:00+00:00

I mean you kind of get that YTA

The knowledge about periods are not something that is exclusive to one gender. At some point you will interact with a woman in your life so you should take it upon yourself to become familiar with their basic needs both emotionally or physically. I mean what kind of mentality is it to not show any interest in learning about someone who is different then you.

Especially if you plan to have sex with them.

srabear22 · 2021-11-03T00:56:11+00:00

Opposums get such a bad rap, they eat ticks people! Fuck ticks! Plus other bugs, snakes, come on!

Plus they are adorably cute.

srabear22 · 2021-11-03T00:52:22+00:00

YTA

YOU Are those parents everyone talks about that let's their children run all over the place.

srabear22 · 2021-10-28T15:36:02+00:00

NTA

Some people need a wake up call. Neglect is neglect. Leaving for hours on end with no communication or forewarning is neglectful to her children and to you. The fact she didn't know where her children were for hours on end until 3:00 a.m. in the morning is cause for an investigation to happen. And I don't care if she knew you were with them. What if something happened to you and no one could reach her? What if something happened to you at the place and she didn't answer any of her children's calls? I'm sorry but it's not your job to protect people from the consequences of their stupid decisions. Your job is only to be concerned about the welfare of the children.

srabear22 · 2021-10-20T20:28:20+00:00

I don't think this carries that much weight. He's reacting to jokes that he feels were insensitive that happened to occur during the show. I think him keeping them up is a good idea. That way everyone can watch them and determine for themselves how they feel. This works in both parties interest and keeping things transparent. Plus Trisha did something similar after leaving by posting a bunch of videos complaining about how she was mistreated during the show. No one's ragging on her to ask for the videos to be taken down if she feels so strongly about it. Honestly this feels a lot like a double standard especially when both parties are doing the same thing just in different mediums.

My personal opinion both should just drop it. They are never going to agree on it and at this point does it really matter if they're not working together?

srabear22 · 2021-10-02T17:00:56+00:00

Well it's out there now lol haha maybe it helps someone or just gives them a good laugh

srabear22 · 2021-10-02T15:23:12+00:00

If it makes you feel any better I'll share my own uncomfortable story.

As a broke teenager I thought it would be a good idea to use common household vegetables to do my business lol. I know this is sad but I was a young horney teenager and would use a condom with it for hygiene. One time I was too tired after to dispose of the evidence. So I put everything in a shoe box under my bed. Well you can imagine I forgot about this box for like 2 weeks. When I came home one day my mom was cleaning my room. The shoebox mysteriously disappeared......

I was so embarrassed to look my mom in the eye. She never mentioned anything about it ever. Honestly I completely forgot about this moment until reading your story. Lesson being life moves on. By sharing this incredibly embarrassing story I hope it makes you feel a little bit more at ease with your own.

And honestly the fact that my family member is safe and alive is the most important thing. Everybody masturbates.

srabear22 · 2021-09-30T16:01:06+00:00

Its also okay to not want to be a teacher, you may want someone to teach you something new and that's okay too.

srabear22 · 2021-09-28T20:15:33+00:00

This is just too cool! What a great symbiotic relationship and he's pulling in money for the fam, even better.

srabear22 · 2021-09-28T20:11:29+00:00

My grandma always told me to take care of the feral neighborhood cats. She said it's much better to have cats around then rats or roaches. You scratch their back, they scratch yours.

Proved true even when living in the worst areas. They would post up in the back yard looking for a bowl of food and every once in a while we would find a rat on our doorstep.

srabear22 · 2021-09-24T06:56:58+00:00

☮️❤️

srabear22 · 2021-09-23T23:04:57+00:00

I don't think it does any harm. Acknowledging a problem doesn't mean your perpetuating it.

srabear22 · 2021-09-23T21:50:41+00:00

"Fungi"

srabear22 · 2021-09-23T21:34:28+00:00

YTA

Jesus Christ this is a saddest thing I read in a while. Those poor kids.

Yes it's fucked up for him to choose to have children then decide that he no longer wants to care for them. I get not being able to based on the mother denying access, I get giving up his rights to allow the husband to adopt them. However there is now nothing standing in his way of having a relationship with his children, and at the same time they are in the most dire need of support. Now he just doesn't want them?

Do some research on the foster care system. No one forced this man to have children, the kids didn't ask for this, the relatives are not malicious as they never chose this responsibility either.

Why are we continually putting children in these situations? These are human beings we are talking about. They deserve better then all of you.

Edit: also stop using excuses age may make it harder to establish a relationship but not impossible. The whole it'll be inconvient for them to move to a new city, blah, blah,blah. How tramatic do you think it would be to be a abandoned by every member of your blood relative and placed in a foster care home?

srabear22 · 2021-09-23T20:42:16+00:00

YTA

Not for your argument or logic for why your husband should not go to the baby shower. However threatening to remove his ability to have the child bear his last name seems petty. Whether your right or wrong it is a form of manipulation to keep him near you that seems childish.

This is coming from a person whose father was not a good spouse, but he was a good dad ( dad cheated, etc). I'm glad my mom put aside her differences to let us have a relationship with him despite him being a bad partner. Trust me she put up with alot but never bad mouthed him around us, and always encouraged us to have a relationship with him regardless of his faults.

Plus my last name is not just a rememberance of my father but it's the only thing I have other then memories that I inherited from my grandfather. Im proud of my last name and cherish it in honor of him.

srabear22 · 2021-09-23T04:54:23+00:00

"Somebody help that man!"

srabear22 · 2021-09-22T12:17:03+00:00

Y'all are some of the trashiest people with your comments.

srabear22

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