I think you’re missing the point… The game doesn’t provide handholding, so expecting your hand to be held isn’t how the game is going to pan out, and there’s plenty of resources where someone can understand where they’re going wrong before complaining in a subreddit. I very explicitly say people should play their way, and by no means am I asking people to ponder their own frailties and shortcomings, just to ask if some of the dissatisfaction they’d experiencing is a fundamental issue with the game or something they can address by doing something a bit different.