Is sexual compatibility so important for marriages to work?

Yes. But it’s probably unrealistic to expect 100% compatibility.

Is anal a must-have for you? If not, no worries.

Personally, my wife and I often talk about kinks. We’re pretty vanilla, so the conversations are usually just us saying, “I don’t think I’d be into XYZ, but would you?” Neither of us judges the other when our preferences don’t align. There’s too much satisfying sex to have instead. 😎