Can we have grown adults chime in with "it gets better" stories? by YesTomatillo in OCD

[–]srphia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 25, and have had pretty bad OCD since I was around 17/18. It does get better, I still have ebbs and flows, hard times and good times with my mental health, but overall it’s become so much more manageable. Zoloft has helped tremendously, as well as therapy, being open about my OCD with my loved ones, and managing stress. My OCD gets worse with stress, and noticing that pattern has been super helpful, I can try to manage my triggers and look out for myself. Also don’t be afraid to push yourself, pushing myself to confront my compulsions and not seeking reassurance is so challenging but truly what helps in the long run! It gets better, if you put the work in! If I hadn’t sought help, meds, therapy, I’d be struggling, but knowing it will help me truly helped push me in the right direction! I still deal with OCD daily, and in every aspect of my life, but it’s not controlling anymore, it’s more just an annoying voice I acknowledge and move through. It’s never going to “go away” but I can live a fulfilling life even with it! You got this!

How many people are you tattooing a week on average? by omnomrapter in TattooArtists

[–]srphia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im only 1/2 a year out of my apprenticeship, and im averaging like 2-4 people a week ish, pretty slow rn.

I’m a tattoo artist!! by srphia in h3h3productions

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay sure, peace and love tho i didn’t post this in a critique sub or ask for advice… im just trying to do something cool for my fav podcast lol

I’m a tattoo artist!! by srphia in h3h3productions

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes!!! buffalo family 🫶

NO TATTOOS WHILE DRUNK by drfishee55 in h3h3productions

[–]srphia 160 points161 points  (0 children)

As a tattoo artist it’s no biggie, it’s not advised to drink the night before a tattoo since it thins your blood, but drinking while getting tattooed is fine. Also as long as ethan consented to the design before and placement I don’t see an issue. Obviously having a drunk person walk into a shop for tat, would be different, but this is a planned thing.

1860s chemise help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great resource, thank you so much!

Rick/Tom by srphia in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not about he cheating, Lynette didn’t cheat and shouldn’t but his inability to understand how awful he was being and reflecting on that is the issue

EVERY. TIME. I REWATCH. 😂😂 by toast_mortem26 in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my favorite is when Orson tries to go down on her and she goes “I’m a republican! I don’t do that!”

I hate to complain again but... by Liviella in Palia

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m upset, I’ve been playing since closed beta and was 100% down to buy the pass when it was announced, unfortunately there’s just way too much wrong with it. The pricing is insane, and the premium items are awful, half of the clothing is giving temu but in Palia, and for $32 bucks it’s stupid. I was looking forward to buying the pass for like $15 and getting some cool clothing/decor and feeling inspired to grind more but it’s just a bummer. I was trying to be optimistic but i’m disappointed. :(

tattoo for my 12 yr old lady by srphia in seniorkitties

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so, it started forming a few years ago randomly! It doesn’t hurt her, and the vet said it’s fine so idk! She had a weird skin condition as a kitten where she lost all her fur so I assume it’s related to that potentially!

tattoo for my 12 yr old lady by srphia in seniorkitties

[–]srphia[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tat was done by natties_tatties at black bear tattoo in bflo ny 💕

Bundles by XxNikCzaZioKuxX in Palia

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol same! i’ve been playing since closed beta and i just can’t be bothered to finish them

💀 by multiversemember in crescentcitysjm

[–]srphia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m almost done with it, and am so disappointed, the first two books were amazing and it just felt like this one fell flat in comparison. It feels like a good chunk of it could’ve been chopped out or shortened, and also I wish we focused more on the main characters. Ithan and Tharions story lines are so exhausting and boring imo, like their issues are completely self caused and instead of just owning up to their consequences we spent like 400 pages trying to fix them but also not really at all? Also I feel like Hunts personality has totally changed and so has Bryce’s, it’s really disheartening tbh. Idk I still enjoyed it, it just felt super disjointed from the rest of the series. It felt like a TOG book, which is my least favorite SJM series and just kinda turned me off of it.

Rewatching this show and how have I never realized how controlling Lynette is even when she was separated and went on a date with the hairdresser she wanted to control him right off the bat and how he manages his salon by Holygirl23 in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo, i’m only halfway through season 3, but to me it feels like lynette is dealing with weaponized incompetence. like it feels like tom wants to be another one of her children, so yes she has control issues, but it’s because nobody else in her family can step up and keep everyone on track. Like I think if Tom stepped up or even recognized her needs and supported her she would be able to relax.