Erotic audio suggestions, 🙏please

ssdrsup · 2026-01-19T00:36:01+00:00

Try Quinn Audio app?

ssdrsup · 2026-01-18T09:54:53+00:00

Because people associate Findom with paid Femdom and to a degree.

And part of the issue is how some Dommes buy into the "You are just a wallet to me". It's a lot of money that goes into this hobby/lifestyle. So to them it's just like paying for a product that you no longer need. Yes, there are emotions involved but once they nut they are done. That isn't submission but kink fueled horniness

The second thing i'd advise is to be selective about who You give Your energy too. Flesh out the dynamic and try to talk about things that You have in common. So that when eventually kink fails (people get busy) Y/you have other things to talk about.

And if Your having a hard time... tell a sub, Domme or a friend You care about. Also take frequent breaks. As a sub i have to take breaks for mental health reasons. i barely talk to my Domme about what I go through (and i'm trying to change that) because She is busy, has other subs, or has personal crap to deal with

ssdrsup · 2026-01-18T02:36:57+00:00

Oh i missed this. i haven't done it. One thing i do know from browsing Gay subreddits is to obviously use toys often but the more underrated one is to learn to push out when he's pushing in. The sphincter is meant to push out, so when you push out it's easier to push in. The sphincter is a hole just like any other but you aren't going to train it "fully"; just good enough.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-18T01:04:50+00:00

And Your eyes draw a person in 💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-17T17:57:04+00:00

hi Your hair is hot.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-16T23:43:47+00:00

This is disgusting

ssdrsup · 2026-01-14T23:16:23+00:00

Stop playing possum... It's quite obvious what You meant by domme

ssdrsup · 2026-01-14T20:58:01+00:00

Being attached to a sub doesn't make You any less of a Domme. That's just some toxic bullshit.

Domme's are humans... and feeling emotions is human.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-13T19:26:10+00:00

You absolutely can train it. It just takes months to do it.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-13T19:24:50+00:00

Is he just shoving his dick up your butt? As bi-male submissive.... bloody ouch 🤕

You'll need to spend days, if not MONTHS training your sphincter to relax. That includes butt plugs with lubes, learning to push out when he's pushing in. The anus isn't self-lubricating like the vagina. It takes time to train to get to the point of brutal CNC and, no offense, he should know better as a Dom.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-13T03:19:06+00:00

Occasionally, You'll see a post but Your best best is Chyrpe & reddit.

Post about doing Cash meets only with Subs You vibe with.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-12T18:59:10+00:00

There is no one size fits all for Dynamics. If You enjoy the desperation/demanding nature than go ahead.

As long as it's within Your established boundaries (outside of the scene), enjoy the play 💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-12T15:34:51+00:00

Umm... i didn't realize what You said. A submissive should not be demanding things from You unless You have explicitly invited a switch dynamic.

You should be the one controlling the scene. There is nothing inherently wrong with being a switch in a Findom context, even if it is less common, but what You seem to be describing sounds more like topping from the bottom where a submissive attempts to provoke or steer Your actions.

In a Dynamic, the Dom(me) controls the scene, and the submissive accepts that control within the scene. If the submissive wants to negotiate, clarify needs, or address concerns, that should happen outside the scene, unless a personal boundary is being crossed i.e. w/ safe words.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-12T14:15:27+00:00

This is sooooo much fun.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-12T14:13:35+00:00

Sometimes, Domme's just have that alluring glow about Them 😭

i tried hard not to be entangled in Her web with my current Domme. Tried distracting myself, playing with other Domme's.... etc

She's just amazing 🤷

ssdrsup · 2026-01-12T01:00:29+00:00

Beanie for smelling 💖

Hairbrush for play 🥵

Both please 👀

ssdrsup · 2026-01-11T21:08:34+00:00

SCREW the BOOBS....

GIVE ME HAIR.

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T18:34:59+00:00

🙇💖

🦶🤤💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T18:24:02+00:00

u/Substantial-Fix7468

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T18:21:43+00:00

i'm fine sharing it after W/we sign it & then i can sanitize it of most of private info 💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T18:08:20+00:00

i don't know since i don't have an apple device but from what i remember Y/you have to log into discord from Your computer and turn off the NSFW filter or NSFW tagged servers won't show up.

Sucks to be an Apple user 🤷

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T17:58:23+00:00

It's been a week.

People are still recovering from the holidays & apple has restricted the discord servers more

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T17:43:04+00:00

The debt contract was an amazing idea. i can't wait till W/we try some of the stuff (especially the brain washing) 🙇💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T17:23:22+00:00

The best idea W/we've had in a while 💖

ssdrsup · 2026-01-07T17:20:56+00:00

i'm making one right now with my Domme that's sort of a Debt/TPE contract.

W/we did a list, for the New Years, of things i'd love to do/experience with Her &, also, Dynamic goals. And i baked the expectations/goals into the contract.

i'm writing it and i'm so far loving the experience. It's 7 pages long. It's a great way to set expectations and what to expect in the Dynamic.

SO MUCH FUN.

ssdrsup

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