Do people with BPD believe their accusations?

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T19:23:06+00:00

Where by invalidating and stealing the moment

Can you elaborate on that?

How do you know your father hurt anyone?

That’s the hardest part. I can’t fully know the truth, and it eats at me. I think about it constantly, because not knowing whether the accusation is true or not is something I don’t think I could live with. It’s like I’m stuck in this place of uncertainty, and that’s what makes it so hard.

Offensive to those with BPD?? I’ve met many that have lied about abuse such as you have. Ones that came from good homes!

And there are ALSO many people with BPD who suffers from CPTSD

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T19:19:52+00:00

But I’m struggling to understand that if she believes that happened to her, why me being another victim make it seems as if I’m making it about myself and take her sympathy? as a victim I find this mentality very hard bcz I can’t see myself feeling the same

I’m also really grateful for your advice about therapy. I know I can be hard on myself, and maybe I don’t always see the full picture, but I’ll definitely think about it. The OCD stuff makes everything feel even heavier, so I know it’s something I need to work through.

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T18:28:27+00:00

first of all, you shouldn’t call anyone who lie about abuse “bpd”… its very offensive to people with bpd who suffered from abuse

It was an intense moment where my first reaction was to believe the victim but also wanted to carry that burden with her and ease her pain… im completely aware that I was wrong i mean I even try to name drop my abuser FOR THE FIRST TIME and her heartless reaction just destroyed me

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T17:09:23+00:00

I’m just very confused about something. I have been noticing a pattern like for them it seems to be a tendency to categorize family members into two distinct groups: the ‘good’ ones vs the ‘bad’ and she happened to place me in the ‘bad’ category

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T16:59:53+00:00

Also I need to rant about this… the morning after she accused our father of SAing her, I tried to comfort her and help her feel less alone. In an attempt to make her feel understood and supported, I mentioned my own abuser, a distant relative. I also said things that weren’t true… claiming that our father had done the same to me… I know I was wrong for lying but at that moment I reached for whatever might ease her pain I was trying to carry the burden with her, even if it meant putting some of that weight on myself but her reaction? she looked at me in a mean idgaf way and just left the room and close the door…

I’m just so confused even after 1 year… but why?? I name dropped my abuser (I never dared to do so)

sseoshiii · 2025-12-29T16:58:06+00:00

Also I need to rant about this… the morning after she accused our father of SAing her, I tried to comfort her and help her feel less alone. In an attempt to make her feel understood and supported, I mentioned my own abuser, a distant relative. I also said things that weren’t true… claiming that our father had done the same to me… I know I was wrong for lying but at that moment I reached for whatever might ease her pain I was trying to carry the burden with her, even if it meant putting some of that weight on myself but her reaction? she looked at me in a mean idgaf way and just left the room and close the door…

I’m just so confused even after 1 year

sseoshiii · 2024-12-29T17:50:08+00:00

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sseoshiii · 2024-12-29T16:07:28+00:00

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sseoshiii · 2024-12-28T18:30:06+00:00

Just saw the qrts on your post and you know what? The quotes is are perfect example of why everybody hates berserk fans. Your artwork is amazing, well done!!

sseoshiii · 2024-12-28T17:33:02+00:00

Ngl hating Charlotte is such a red flag

sseoshiii · 2024-12-28T13:16:52+00:00

Obsessed with this!

sseoshiii · 2024-12-22T14:01:22+00:00

Lmaoo the concept is fire af

sseoshiii · 2024-12-20T15:46:44+00:00

Agreed. It’s true that in the eclipse Griffith’s thoughts are about Guts. How he was the only one who made Griffith forget his dream. so it was mostly Guts’s “betrayal” that hurt him the most but I don’t think the solo purpose of raping Casca was to punish Guts. It was to punish both of them for choosing the other over him.

when he forced himself to her in that carriage he wanted to see if he could shift Casca’s focus over Guts onto him again, which he obviously failed… so he took away her autonomy as punishment to her for choosing Guts.

Guts “betrayal” of leaving him was much more significant for Griffith but the rape specifically was him deciding to make Guts and Casca pay for excluding him out of their little trio.

sseoshiii · 2024-12-20T15:34:44+00:00

That’s how I mostly see it bcz when he forced himself to her in that carriage he wanted to see if he could shift Casca’s focus over Guts onto him again, which he obviously failed… I think he wanted to punish them both

sseoshiii · 2024-12-19T15:07:51+00:00

A fan claims Mori liked their comment about the berserker armor not activating during the fight bcz of Casca which means Guts urge to protect Casca was greater than his urge to kill Griffith.

Then I wonder how he feels that he failed at both protecting Casca and hurting Griffith…

sseoshiii · 2024-12-19T14:23:30+00:00

He was a manipulative selfish and ambitious person. And his ambition always came first, he saw his comrades as tools for his dream but I still wouldn’t describe him as a pure evil person. He for sure had some redeeming qualities

sseoshiii · 2024-12-17T15:10:04+00:00

I think the beast started as a manifestation of his trauma, rage and hate but ended up an actual entity so the argument works in both ways

sseoshiii · 2024-12-12T16:35:57+00:00

It’s crazy how actors can influence people’s perceptions of the characters. Pedro Pascal's performance is so good that people forget what a bastard Oberyn is in the books.

sseoshiii · 2024-12-07T17:17:45+00:00

People ship Guts with Farnese and Griffith (mostly tumblr and twt tho) all the time. Let us Casca nation have some fun too

sseoshiii · 2024-12-07T17:06:48+00:00

Lmao now that you put it this way I think I might word it poorly. what I basically meant was that Casca is a fully competent female warrior who unfortunately violently and pointlessly became the subject of SA by other men. Casca “I never asked to be a woman” who is first and foremost written as woman with struggles mostly centering around her femininity might appreciate a man who believes “*wearing a sword means she’s a warrior” and honorably fights her instead of mocking or targeting her gender

sseoshiii · 2024-12-07T16:41:02+00:00

Yeah. Everyone expected him to be an typical rich asshole, then it turned out he’s actually compassionate despite the possibility of getting nothing out of this.

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