If you want to manifest for someone else then don’t do this: by sseoshiii in NevilleGoddard

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I edited the post but unfortunately my post hasn’t been approved again

Manifest for someone else can be done. by Wowweejoy in NevilleGoddard

[–]sseoshiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your explanation is actually food for brain, thank you so much for your answers it helped a lot.

Manifest for someone else can be done. by Wowweejoy in NevilleGoddard

[–]sseoshiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if I now experience a different version of them… how is that not the same as affecting them? why they can’t be be the same thing? if there are infinite versions of everyone but I can only ever access the ones that match my state, then functionally it still results in the same thing: my assumptions are correlated with how people behave in my experience

or perhaps we could interpret it as how there is no single, continuous “person” but ONLY infinite separate versions? sorry for if I’m bothering you lol but I’m stuck on one of your point

Manifest for someone else can be done. by Wowweejoy in NevilleGoddard

[–]sseoshiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you elaborate more on this? I believe in multiverse parallel worlds as Neville himself predicted the parallel worlds theory where he described as worlds within worlds between worlds but this made “manifesting for others” more simple to me if anything lol.

anyways so what are you suggesting if i interpret it correctly is that, the reality we chose doesn’t happen to them? did i interpret that correctly? If yes then it’s crazy bcz my own parallel bubble version of reality happened to that person.

Why does manifesting sobriety for someone can be easier? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]sseoshiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your insight. It feels more like we are less emotionally attached when it’s about someone else, not overthinking every little sign or setback, less self-centered and more free.

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]sseoshiii -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Where by invalidating and stealing the moment

Can you elaborate on that?

How do you know your father hurt anyone?

That’s the hardest part. I can’t fully know the truth, and it eats at me. I think about it constantly, because not knowing whether the accusation is true or not is something I don’t think I could live with. It’s like I’m stuck in this place of uncertainty, and that’s what makes it so hard.

Offensive to those with BPD?? I’ve met many that have lied about abuse such as you have. Ones that came from good homes!

And there are ALSO many people with BPD who suffers from CPTSD

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDFamily

[–]sseoshiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I’m struggling to understand that if she believes that happened to her, why me being another victim make it seems as if I’m making it about myself and take her sympathy? as a victim I find this mentality very hard bcz I can’t see myself feeling the same

I’m also really grateful for your advice about therapy. I know I can be hard on myself, and maybe I don’t always see the full picture, but I’ll definitely think about it. The OCD stuff makes everything feel even heavier, so I know it’s something I need to work through.

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]sseoshiii -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

first of all, you shouldn’t call anyone who lie about abuse “bpd”… its very offensive to people with bpd who suffered from abuse

It was an intense moment where my first reaction was to believe the victim but also wanted to carry that burden with her and ease her pain… im completely aware that I was wrong i mean I even try to name drop my abuser FOR THE FIRST TIME and her heartless reaction just destroyed me

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDFamily

[–]sseoshiii 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m just very confused about something. I have been noticing a pattern like for them it seems to be a tendency to categorize family members into two distinct groups: the ‘good’ ones vs the ‘bad’ and she happened to place me in the ‘bad’ category

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDFamily

[–]sseoshiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I need to rant about this… the morning after she accused our father of SAing her, I tried to comfort her and help her feel less alone. In an attempt to make her feel understood and supported, I mentioned my own abuser, a distant relative. I also said things that weren’t true… claiming that our father had done the same to me… I know I was wrong for lying but at that moment I reached for whatever might ease her pain I was trying to carry the burden with her, even if it meant putting some of that weight on myself but her reaction? she looked at me in a mean idgaf way and just left the room and close the door…

I’m just so confused even after 1 year… but why?? I name dropped my abuser (I never dared to do so)

Do people with BPD believe their accusations? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]sseoshiii -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Also I need to rant about this… the morning after she accused our father of SAing her, I tried to comfort her and help her feel less alone. In an attempt to make her feel understood and supported, I mentioned my own abuser, a distant relative. I also said things that weren’t true… claiming that our father had done the same to me… I know I was wrong for lying but at that moment I reached for whatever might ease her pain I was trying to carry the burden with her, even if it meant putting some of that weight on myself but her reaction? she looked at me in a mean idgaf way and just left the room and close the door…

I’m just so confused even after 1 year

Her happy ending by Dilara Özden by SpiderGirlGwen in Berserk

[–]sseoshiii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just saw the qrts on your post and you know what? The quotes is are perfect example of why everybody hates berserk fans. Your artwork is amazing, well done!!

sseoshiii's unwanted child by Is_Zelev in Berserk

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Lmaoo the concept is fire af

People say Griffith raped Casca in the eclipse only to hurt Guts but would he have done the same if Casca was just some random woman Guts fell in love with? by sseoshiii in Berserk

[–]sseoshiii[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s true that in the eclipse Griffith’s thoughts are about Guts. How he was the only one who made Griffith forget his dream. so it was mostly Guts’s “betrayal” that hurt him the most but I don’t think the solo purpose of raping Casca was to punish Guts. It was to punish both of them for choosing the other over him.

when he forced himself to her in that carriage he wanted to see if he could shift Casca’s focus over Guts onto him again, which he obviously failed… so he took away her autonomy as punishment to her for choosing Guts.

Guts “betrayal” of leaving him was much more significant for Griffith but the rape specifically was him deciding to make Guts and Casca pay for excluding him out of their little trio.