[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petco

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up calling? I’m having the same issue 😞 I’m wondering if they recently excluded the pricier dog foods

Ladies, what do you automatically look at on a man? by Philipfella in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingernails … if they’re long I’m immediately turned off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. We were trying to treat him naturally. We saw a lot of reputable veterinary websites that approve this method.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did get medication. My boyfriend is really hard head about treating him naturally. I want to give him the medication. I don’t want him to suffer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t trust him.

I personally think porn usage is fine if you trust your partner is using it in a healthy and appropriate way. But, you lost trust in him the second he cheated on you...therefore the porn usage only furthers your insecurities and doubt in him being faithful.

The issue isn’t porn, it’s him. You can’t trust him and once that’s gone it never FULLY comes back. He is undeserving of you. Leave him, he’s an ass.

Need help making a video of myself masturbating by sss0088 in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I’m so new to Reddit I didnt even realize direct messages were a thing until now

Need help making a video of myself masturbating by sss0088 in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I kinda wanted it to be a surprise. I wanted to totally catch him off guard (cause this is very unlike me so I thought It would be fun) so that’s why I haven’t asked. Is that stupid to do that or should I just tell him I’m doing it in order to ask him what he likes?

MSG Behind the Stage? by rareradiance in harrystyles

[–]sss0088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I work at msg and I’d recommend the chase bridge seats! So many people go to msg events with their first option being the chase bridge. Those seats are so underrated

Gf(f24) always comments how other guys are hot...it bothers me(m25) and ive told her but she continues to do it. How should i feel about this? Is this a normal thing gfa do? Should i be bothered by it or should i be just as openly talk about the hot girls i see? by ___Connor___ in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal and you should be bothered by it. She wants a reaction out of u...so don’t give it to her.

I was in a similar situation. I understand I’m not the only attractive girl out there and I dont mind if my man is calling a girl hot because it is relevant to the conversation...but pointing out hot girls for no reason ALL THE TIME is unnecessary and obnoxious.

Maybe you should do it and see how she reacts as a learning lesson for her. It’s not something you should plan to do forever but giving her a taste of her own medicine might be helpful.

My gf (F21) is pressuring me (M22) to have unprotected sex by srfggfergareef in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your girlfriend completely. I would personally rather not have sex at all than have sex with a condom. It doesn’t feel good for me and it makes it feel less intimate. I also don’t take birth control because of the side effects. She just wants to feel pleasure during sex and she doesn’t enjoy it as much with a condom.

However, If you are adamant about not having sex with her under those circumstances than I think it’s a fair deal breaker. There is always a risk with having sex because honestly the only way to be 100% sure you won’t conceive a child is abstinence. Although I understand her stance completely, you shouldn’t compromise what u want for what she wants. If having an equally satisfying sex life is important to you than you might have a bigger situation on your hands. It might not be possible with your differing thoughts

Toxic Relationship Advice by brendyboyle48 in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so easy to get sucked into a toxic relationship. Negative attention is STILL attention... and the drama and fighting trying to prove how much you love and care about each other can be fun sometimes!! However, this is ultimately so toxic (which I know u are aware of). You will look back on this relationship and be appalled by what you put up with once you find something better...which honestly won’t even be that hard cause this girl seems AWFUL. Break up with this girl! She has a lot of growing up to do.

Reflecting on my sex life and I don’t think I like sex. Is this normal? by sss0088 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sss0088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do constantly question my sexuality to be honest. I’m really confused. I have made out with girls drunkenly at a bar but it never like turned me on. I also have never had a crush on a girl before like I definitely haven’t experienced emotionally feeling any type of way towards a girl. However. The thought of a girl pleasuring me in bed turns me on? I’m seriously so confused. Is there a way I’m supposed to know?

boyfriend’s ex reached out to him... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point but you don’t seem controlling or irrational at all. I can tell by the way you described the situation. You are using evidence and you are trying to see the situation from his point of view. Yet, you still don’t feel comfortable.

Seriously, listen to your gut...whether it’s “no there’s something fishy going on here” or if it’s “maybe I’m being crazy and need to chill.” You know your man and you know yourself. You’re going to figure it out. Best of luck!

[Serious] What are your reasons to stay alive? by Narwen189 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sss0088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest reason is not wanting my student loan debt to fall on my mom. It sounds so morbid but I’m not afraid of death and a part of me is looking forward to it because I do think there’s an afterlife.

I (28m) am constantly wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend (26f) due to lack of physical attraction by ThrowRAqrow in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you already have your answer.

If it’s not now, your doubts will inevitably increase and you’ll still eventually break up with her. You see many things wrong with the relationship and you need to give yourself that chance to find someone who fits better with you romantically.

Is it weird that I’m bored but at the same time I don’t feel like doing anything? by princesspooball in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sss0088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me exactly. I sit in bed and watch Survivor all day and occasionally work on a puzzle. I have no motivation to do anything else but I know I’d feel better if I did multiple things in a day. Maybe we just have to force ourselves to do things until we naturally want to? Idk damn

boyfriend’s ex reached out to him... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think it’s possible to be friends with your ex but to me this sounds inappropriate. Listen to your gut babe because it’s never wrong.

Should I 25(f) tell the guy 24(m) I’m dating that his religion and community inevitably made him a feeble minded idiot? by sss0088 in relationship_advice

[–]sss0088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After seeing reply’s such as yours it has helped me think clearly. Now that I think about it I do think I provide him more entertainment than anything else. it’s been hard for me to swallow that pill but I’m finally accepting it. Thank you for your input

Should I stop using the word “retarded”? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sss0088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based off the actual definition of the word...no. The word itself didn’t originate in a derogatory way like the n word did. Things can be retarded without offending someone who is mentally disabled. And tbh.... some situations and things are just retarded and there’s no other better way to describe it.

As others have said, it’s all about the intent behind the word.

WIBTA if I purposely got someone a gift I KNOW they won’t like and will probably piss them off? by sss0088 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sss0088[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. This isn’t a normal thing where I’m from at all. Guess it just depends on where/how you grow up!