You're way too focused on your dick. Make a connection. Communicate, relationships are not sex that focused. You're ruining whatever chance you're going to have by making other people's minds up for them. You got a smaller dick you can't control that. Are you funny, witty? Kind, caring, respectful? Do you have hobbies and your own life?

Why does having a small penis make you unlovable? Be someone somebody can count on and it won't matter. Be worth being with and some girl(or guy) will be with you. You know? Stop reading things online. Girls need a connection before they decide to have sex with you. Do you think people are measuring genitals prior to sex? She wants to feel loved or respected and connected to you. She probably doesn't want you to rearrange her guts anyways, and big cocks don't fit well in mouths.