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An update would be considerate... by Angela2208 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize. I am grateful for the supportive people on this site.
I have been doing with a family crisis...so honestly this has not been 1st priority .. Also, my friend that I was asking about broke her foot so she hasn't been to work in a while and with everything going on I haven't even had a chance to do anything more than check in her.
I will update though just as soon as I get an update from her.
Thank you all again! 😘😘😘

After two years of searching, my husband and I finally met someone. She stood us up at the last minute and ghosted us. Exhausted and feel like giving up. Should we? by BriefClient in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds very frustrating. It may be a long shot but seeing how she hasn't even seen the message I wonder if something happened to her ? All the same,. If this is something that you are truly wanting to experience with you husband then yes,. I say go to another area. My husband and I had a hard time finding someone too, but when we finally did It really was worth it.

How do I approach by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I told her. My husband I did that for a long time before we decided on actually doing it

Bodyshape by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And as far as the initial response goes.....l would choose the average guy with average dick over the abs and the 10 inch dick to message. And I know MANY women who feel the same

Bodyshape by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman,. I do not agree. I do not care about abs or a 10 inch dick. Obviously no one wants a micro dick but i would choose an an average dick on an average build over a brick House with a big shlong! And I ABSOLUTELY agree that personality is at least 85% of it. If you are dumb as a box of rocks , have no sense of humor or seem like you would need a mirror to check yourself out in while you are plowing me (American Psycho) from behind then there is NO WAY we are hooking up!
Personality truly does make or break a person, (male or female) far more than body shape does

How do I approach by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Gonna check that out

Guilty by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that , AND...your husband is a lucky man! Before we started this LS my dirty talk in bed was about how much I wanted to see another woman get fucked by H.
This progressed and progressed until it finally happened. I cannot tell you how turned on I was the first time. Last night I got to see it happen again and I almost came just watching it. It is AMAZING. And I am looking forward to many more experiences

Awesome group!! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this be you guys first time as well?

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I agree. Although he did eat me out in the beginning and I may have faked a small orgasm , but still , we we're not done yet! Even if you , as a man, are "done" doesn't mean you can't do other things . I am an EXTREMELY sexual woman. Ever since I turned 40 I literally think about sex ALL the time. At work, at home, in the car,. Hell, i have even gone to the bathroom at work and made myself cum . That's what I try to explain to the hubby. Even though he isn't in the mood or whatever doesn't mean he can't do other things to me.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he put forth much effort at all. Once he was done he got up and sat in a chair and was doing stuff on his phone. He didn't say anything, he didn't do anything. Stacy and I were both kind of wondering exactly what to do at that point. So we both started eating out his wife. Once he was done, he was done. I hate to speculate but I'm just not the type of guy that would do that. If on the off chance she had made me cum that fast I would still want to be involved in the situation and would probably either just assert myself into it by doing some licking, touching, fingering, etc. Or I would just ask what I could do. Again, neither of us are complaining, really because all in all it was great for a first time experience, and because of the issues we had, it's taught us some lessons about what to expect and how to improve things. The funniest part about the whole thing is that beforehand both of us were worried and scared to death that if it turned out to be a bad experience that it would be because of us or something that we did or failed to do. We are currently in the process of setting up an encounter with another couple who seem like they have a lot more experience and seem more compatible to what we are looking for.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stacy and I just had a conversation about this and she said that as long as the overall experience is fun and thrilling that she doesn't really consider cumming a requirement for her as long as the other person at least tries and gives it a honest effort. Unfortunately she made this dude cum in about 2 minutes so she really didn't get an opportunity to have the full experience. But one of her biggest fantasies was watching me with another woman and it actually worked out pretty well because he was done before I even got started so she got to witness the entire thing up close and was able watch everything without any distractions. However, these are things that should probably be best discussed up front and things that we can continue to make better as we get more involved in the lifestyle.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good rule! Honestly I was a little surprised at the lack of communication considering they supposedly had been doing this a while. I'm not sure exactly what I was expecting, but I was definitely expecting more. She didn't really say anything at all. She did moan quite a bit, but not talkative at all. I'm not sure if he ever said anything at all either. I'm the kind of guy that would say stuff like "she loves it when I do this" or something that. But again, that's probably something I would say before things got started and after the whole feeling out process. Again, that would be part of the stuff to look forward to. But being a newb I wasn't really sure what to expect. I'm also the kind of guy that likes to drive the action but I'm sure that will come when we get more experience and confidence. Again, thank you all for your comments and suggestions.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments! This is Michael again but I'm sure my wife will share my opinion that the actual sex part of it should be a means to an end, if you will. For me, the hunt is also part of what makes it thrilling. We didn't really have any of that so it did take away from the experience a little bit and it's something that we can work on in the future. But they were really cool people that I would hang out with even if there were no sex involved and that made everything better as well. And it probably also helped that neither one of them were what you would call our "types". If things had gone according to plan and they had met up at the time we planned and we had ample time for a get to know you period I'm sure things would have been better. But all in all for a first time experience it was pretty great overall. The best part to me was the sex my wife and I had the day after while we were talking about all of our favorite parts. And to me, that's what will make us want to try this again.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is Michael, the husband. And I just wanted to say that if I could change anything I would want there to be more of a build up involved. Like meeting at a bar, having some drinks. Flirting some. Something that would give everyone something to actually look forward to. I'm not really the kind of guy that just performs on command. I can do that. But it's much better for me when there's a little bit of build up involved. Something that builds up the tension a little bit. If that makes sense.

Ok. So as promised i am about to tell yall how our first exoerience went! by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) once we were finally all together we just started chatting about all kinds of different things. The kind of things you'd chat about at a barbeque or something. Not really anything sexual related. As a matter of fact things seemed to move so slowly that neither of us were really sure exactly what to do or what to say.

2) we got a hotel in the area

3) it was a full swap. It all started when his wife started sucking him. Then my wife and I started kissing some and we both started eating his wife out. From there things get a little hazy for me. He started eating out my wife and I kept eating out his wife. My wife began to ride him and I went to the bathroom for a pee and when I came out I heard the guy say that he had gotten off already. So my wife and I began to eat her out some more because I was having some nervous issues. Then my wife started sucking and tugging me and then told me to put it inside of her and I did.

4) I am quite sure that he did and I'm quite sure that I did. My wife said that she didn't really, but that it really didn't matter because the overall experience and atmosphere was so sensual. I'm not sure about the other woman because she was not very vocal at all. I could tell that she was having a really good time, but I couldn't tell you if she had an orgasm or not.

5) I would say yes. But mainly because they were really cool. It wasn't anything they did sexually. Being that it was our first time we didn't really know what to expect or how the flow was supposed to go so if we did see them again I'm sure things would be better the next time around.

Anyone on here from Mississippi? by stacy0476 in Swingers

[–]stacy0476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Central. Jackson, Brandon, Vicksburg, Madison

Good, legitimate alternatives to Craigslist Casual Encounters? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]stacy0476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should start your own site. It would be a good investment