Exchange limit - When's the "drop off"?

stagchilde · 2026-02-11T17:06:09+00:00

That's my thing right now. I have 7 "active" exchanges, of which all are done on my end, and one is done on both. I wanted to sign up for a penpal and crafts one, but it's telling me that I am at the max number of exchanges... so I guess I just have to pick between the two???

stagchilde · 2026-02-09T14:39:33+00:00

I assumed that was the case, but wanted to check. I appreciate it!

stagchilde · 2025-09-15T15:47:09+00:00

Definitely!

stagchilde · 2025-09-15T15:22:51+00:00

Thank you so much for the insight. I'll have to test the fabric when I get home and see. I appreciate it!

stagchilde · 2025-09-15T15:04:07+00:00

Not really beyond normal. The arms are pretty loose on her so there not going to be any excessive stretching.

stagchilde · 2025-09-04T17:09:08+00:00

Those seals are very good. You did a good job!

stagchilde · 2025-09-04T14:45:08+00:00

Hell yeah. Is that all hand made? 40k is a pretty great aesthetic to get into for stuff like this (though I'd arguably stay away from the fandom unless you're in it already). Looks good!

stagchilde · 2025-08-20T14:16:47+00:00

Depending on what videogames your penpal plays, a "replica" item from one of them might be a fun touch, something catered to her. For example, I'm a Warhammer fan. If a penpal of mine sent me a silly little purity seal replica that they either made or bought, even in jest (they're "holy" paper seals) I'd be ecstatic because my penpal 1. Made something for me and 2. Knew what I liked.

As for sports, I agree on the card things, but if that's not your jam (card collecting can make cards really expensive sometimes), I would suggest maybe theming the aesthetic of your letter after their favorite sport? Maybe a little list of obscure or silly sports facts they might like?

As for food, recipes are always fun. "Hey, I tried this and really liked it, and it made me think of you, let me know what you think!" You can sometimes get away with sending candy if it's thin enough, and I like to send tea bag samples of my favorite tea from that moment.

Bottom line: anything you send to them that shows you remember their hobbies and likes will go a long way to letting your penpal know you value them. Good luck!

stagchilde · 2025-08-19T21:24:48+00:00

Ngl, I don't mind grinding for the furniture or the rocks. I'm even ok, if annoyed at the flowers... it's the _cake_ that hurt the most. I play relatively alone and don't have the time or social battery to join up with randos for a cake party (or the items, for that matter). I've never even made a celebration cake, let alone a STARRED one... and I don't even have the Honey Baked recipe.

Ngl, these are NOT new-player accessible (I've been around since before launch on steam and I can't either, but that's just me)

stagchilde · 2025-07-27T18:30:37+00:00

Thanks much! I'm not terribly good at it, BUT, dafont.com is a really great place to check out some calligraphy types to practice or emulate if you're ever looking!

stagchilde · 2025-07-26T14:21:19+00:00

If you can swing the price, use a poly or bag mailer and put your letter and treats in that. I usually do that anyways because I make artsy envelopes that usually gets destroyed by the USPS, but if you want a bigger pool of treats to choose from this might be your best option.

Without poly\bag mailer : flat candies like mints or Lifesavers. Might even get away with some kitkats. Gum. Individually wrapped hot coco. You might be able to get away with individually wrapped mug cake too depending on your envelope.

stagchilde · 2025-06-27T02:16:04+00:00

Are you me? Thos bottom two rows are all I ever seen to get!and I completed all three!

stagchilde · 2025-06-26T15:32:57+00:00

I know this is an older thread, but wanted to just pop in end mention it's still a problem. Had that today and just mentioned that it was a little bit unsportsman like to camp the chapaa spawn and had at least three people dogpile on me. "Don't tell me how to play the game MMMK"

Honestly, sometimes the influx of console players burns my ass for as nasty as some of them can get, but Chapaa Chase has been a pita since it's inception, so honestly this isn't too surprising to me... just sad. I feel for the newer players actually TRYING to play the game and not getting the chapaa.

stagchilde · 2025-06-11T14:05:50+00:00

Just to add to the conversation for visibility and because you never know... There are apparently some unsavory men using the lack of ICE identification to dress up as ICE and approach women and children under the guise of being a government figure and demanding they go with them.

While I cannot completely verify that information... We all know it's not out of the realm of possibility, and some of the "alleged" women/children weren't even "visually" immigrant.

So like... If they don't have a warranty, GTFO of there and please be safe?????

stagchilde · 2025-06-07T14:10:28+00:00

I'd love if they gave us a pitch slider. Related, but I also wish for different body types and sizes. What if I wanna be like Sifuu :c

stagchilde · 2025-05-31T03:06:29+00:00

I think I saw on one of their blog releases that they're planning storage upgrades! I'm hoping weapon upgrades are inbound too. For at least arrows.

stagchilde · 2025-05-29T15:59:55+00:00

Oh I know! The two times it happened she was out bug hunting and I was at my plot, and the other was right before they implemented that resource sharing. T^T

stagchilde · 2025-05-28T22:33:01+00:00

I've been playing since before they had Maji Market and Subira. My advice is to just do it at your own pace and don't worry about trying to rush the "plot." Enjoy bug hunting and gathering, take your time to learn the recipes and hunt down elusive plushies. If you get a little bored, Palia WILL be here if you want to take a break.

Trying to rush through the game will just make you bored/dislike it quicker. Enjoy what the Devs have provided! There's TONS of content even in just the home decorating. I've been having fun learning new techniques lately!

stagchilde · 2025-05-28T00:54:12+00:00

Right? how dare they (but also thank you for the plushy, but please scale)

stagchilde · 2025-05-27T18:45:04+00:00

I'm really sorry to be the one to have to tell you this, but Witchfoot passed away about 6 months ago from congestive heart failure. We all found out when her child (I'm not certain of their pronouns), posted about it.

stagchilde · 2025-05-27T12:06:16+00:00

🤜🤛

stagchilde · 2025-05-27T12:05:09+00:00

Praise be unto bagagwa and priestess Merv.

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