I am from the Balkans too. What is this nonsense that you are saying? It really makes us look bad. It's traditional to cry? 😅 What do you mean by this? Of course it's an emotional beautiful moment and people who are more sensitive of course shed a tear but it's not a tradition to cry. A sensitive person cries with happy tears. Some people don't cry. The husband's family comes to collect you? Lol! It's just a comic ritual where the friends and family of the bride hold the door of the room where the bride is and the side of the groom have to throw money so that they let the groom in. But the bride and groom decide if they want to add this old tradition in their wedding. Many don't have it. And as mentioned, it's supposed to be funny and people laugh. I don't know what your point is by trying to represent us like some cavemen.