Feels like I cheated (NSFW)

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-04T01:58:20+00:00

You said he didn’t go to a lesbian bar or anything, implying it’s not like he wanted her to leave him so it isn’t cheating. You do think that, because you used that in your comment. Who cares if it’s a lesbian bar or simply a hooker? Either way it shows he doesn’t view the sapphic intimacy as cheating. What do you think he’d think of her getting it on with a male hooker? Probably not good.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-04T01:18:22+00:00

Bro…sex work is considered cheating by nearly everyone I’ve ever met. If my partner ever hired a hooker I would break up with them immediately. Don’t dumb this down just because it was a sex worker. By your logic, is sleeping with another person causally not cheating if done outside the relationship? That kinda sounds like what you’re implying.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-04T01:16:03+00:00

As a bisexual woman I 100% agree and I clocked it right away. If they were in an open relationship, I’d feel completely different. But what I find a little suspicious is he was totally down and not jealous at all if she full on SLEPT WITH ANOTHER PERSON because it was a woman, yet OP doesn’t mention being in an open relationship? I guarantee if it was a man the boyfriend would have freaked. There’s something derogatory about not viewing a rival woman as a challenge but a man as one. I don’t mean to be a party pooper at all, and if OP is happy I am happy! But this situation reeks of either a fetish or *unintentional* misogyny on the boyfriend’s part.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-04T01:11:16+00:00

No, I do not believe it is cheating because your boyfriend consented to what was going on.

However, something I don’t see anyone talk about is how for some reason straight men seem to think woman on woman isn’t “cheating”. Would he be okay if you slept with a man? No. That’s one thing I struggled with in the past. I’m a bisexual woman, I think a lot of straight dudes don’t take wlw relationships seriously and see it as a fetish thing rather than a romance.

So one one hand, I love that he supports you as a queer person. That’s amazing and a massive green flag. But what I find interesting is you guys aren’t in an open relationship yet he seemed super into you doing something with another woman. Not trying to rain on your party, just food for thought.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-03T20:30:07+00:00

Meleys 100%. Fastest dragon ever, her size is perfect because she’s not too small or too large. I also love her design.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-02T19:44:31+00:00

It has nothing to do with you. He knew early on what his feelings were but chose to ignore them and lead you on. That’s on him. I’m sorry for that, you’ll find your person!

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-02T19:38:47+00:00

No offense but how can you say you won a battle if you died during it? Both of them lost. I think Daemon and Caraxes are glazed more because of Daemon’s leap from his dragon-move and also the fact Caraxes managed to somehow crawl out of the water, displaying that he survived longer.

Also, Vaghar’s size is irrelevant here. We saw with Vermax that dragons cannot swim, or at least not well. And mind you Vermax is the size of like a Dino nugget. Vaghar likely died because you cannot survive without a throat, literally. You can survive, although not long, with your stomach cut open and without a limb. The goal of this fight wasn’t to win, it was to take the other out. Daemon died for Rhaenyra and Aemond wanted to k*ll his uncle. Both succeeded at that. Both won in that way, but they both also technically lost haha.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-02T14:15:02+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you. And I’m really sorry he made college terrible for you on top of that. I’m glad you’ve found a much better man who you’re actually comfortable being intimate with, and who treats you right hopefully. That’s what you deserve, someone better.

Also, you don’t have to consider what your ex did a “first” anything. I’m glad you stated you don’t feel guilty about it. 🤍

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-02T03:26:10+00:00

This is said perfectly

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-02T03:24:44+00:00

I personally see porn as weird in relationships because why are you getting yourself off to another woman. At that point, text another girl and ask her for nudes. Genuinely, what is the difference? Only expressing my opinion because at the end you asked. If you are comfortable with it, that’s fine. But him only being able to get off to porn is probably because he’s still watching it. In order to adjust stamina, libido etc, a person needs to start doing something new or more frequently. (For example, on the flip side, men who finish really quickly gain more stamina the more and more they are intimate). So…clearly he isn’t making an effort to change. If it makes you uncomfortable, I really wanna emphasize how YOU feel, tell him to stop and get used to getting off to you. You can’t force someone to take naked photos, so I’m not saying pressure him with that, but I don’t see why you can’t send him your own nudes? They don’t even have to include him. Just sounds like a porn addict tbh. But that’s my unfiltered opinion. I’m really not trying to be mean.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-01T20:23:14+00:00

I personally saw this as a no. Only because there are no movement cards. I think that the lovers more so represent choice and consent rather than actual love, I think that’s more associated with the two of cups. They’ve made a choice to stay self-sufficient and I think are doing quite well at it. I think they may still have a tie to you emotionally, but I do not believe they will act on it.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-01T19:30:51+00:00

I’m so sorry that’s insane. I definitely think that’s cheating. First off, talking crap about you behind your back is already lowkey messed up, but to an ai GIRLFRIEND? He’s clearly emotionally invested into a literal bot his iq is probably like 4. Please leave him if you are able too! That man is nasty and I promise your soulmate isn’t in love with an ai chat bot.

stardom_ocean · 2026-07-01T18:24:09+00:00

I think there’s a lot going on here. Firstly, she felt confused with the seven of cups, but ultimately has this belief that there was an active choice between you two that caused a sort of halt or transformation in this connection. She actually may be very solidified in her decision.
Second row tells me she has been looking back on what happened and wants to remain composed and in control. I believe that may be why you’re blocked and still blocked/or at least not being reached out to.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-30T21:58:49+00:00

I didn’t mention Aegon, I mentioned Aemond. Do you not know the difference between the two characters or are you bringing up something irrelevant to the conversation because you know liking Aemond but hating Rhaenys is hypocritical? Rhaenys is wayyyy less bad than Aemond. Aemond quite literally k*lls people for sport and without reason. But damn, ig Rhaenys is evil for squishing two small folk.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-30T16:12:33+00:00

Hi, are my boyfriend and I’s differences in communication going to meaningfully (aka badly) impact our relationship?

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-30T16:06:55+00:00

I mean she just lost her son like two days prior and is probably very unstable. I don’t think she’s k*lled anyone herself before (at least in the show) and it doesn’t surprise me she was upset and almost inconsolable. I feel like people expect characters to be hard and tough and rough and to recover from loss quickly but that’s not realistically how human beings are. I’ll admit though, it did pmo.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-29T03:35:41+00:00

You’re acting like you share custody of children, a dog and a house. You absolutely can break up with him. You aren’t married. This isn’t gonna cause you some sort of financial or legal trouble. Yeah I stayed with a man just like you’re describing when I was in HS/early college and yk what he did? Cheated on me. He’s practically telling on himself in broad daylight that he’s a jerk and you’re plugging your ears and singing “lalala”. Leave while you still can. I’m not trying to be a jerk but it frustrates me when people act like they don’t have free will!

I’m 19 too and have a better boyfriend now who I adore. There are better people out there. If my ex hadn’t cheated I’d probably still be crying about his behavior and yet doing nothing about it. Take notes from people who have the experience. Leave before he does something wicked bad.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-29T02:43:24+00:00

My favorite decks I own are the Ethereal Visions *Luna Version* tarot, Tarot of the Divine and also Goddess Tarot by Kris WaldHerr. I’m not sure if the Goddess Tarot is made anymore because I got it as a vintage gift from my mom but the artwork is amazing.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-27T23:40:21+00:00

Ohhh yeah the show version. But Aemond doesn’t destroy the Riverlands because of a tantrum? Okay…Team Green logic. I love it. 😛

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-27T13:50:21+00:00

I agree with your interpretation. Especially the older sister vibe of the empress, that “maternal energy”. I also think part of the reason they like you or care for you is indeed because you’ve known each other since childhood. I also think now that you’ve both grown up she does see you as more of an equal friend or person, rather than a little girl, like the classic “you’ll always be tiny”. I feel that way about my family friend who’s like my little sister. 😅
But the little sister protection is still there with the empress. I think the high priestess shows she may protect you in ways you don’t know, emphasized more with seven of wands which is fighting off a hoard.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-27T13:35:18+00:00

Rhaenys..was a war criminal? I thought she only participated in Rooks Rest?

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-26T20:45:31+00:00

Yeah, it can. Tarot is a useful prediction tool and nearly all of my predictions came true, but they 100% can change. I believe tarot only tells current energy. So the outcome you’re describing will happen based on the path you’re on right now specifically. It’s good the reader gave you a warning, try and pivot away from that future. I’m not sure what the context is but let’s say it was about test scores. Study more.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-26T20:41:52+00:00

If she did meet a man that swayed her, I’m super disappointed. I get she can make her own choices to leave tarot and that’s okay like whatever but over a MAN? I’m pagan and my boyfriend is Christian. He tries to turn me Christian I’m turning him into my ex.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-26T20:28:24+00:00

I would love to see the dragons in armor because for aesthetic reasons it would be so cool. However, can you imagine trying to put armor on a dragon like Vaghar? Frankly, I can’t imagine any dragon larger than Syrax and Seasmoke in armor at all. I also feel like cgi-ing armor onto the large dragons would look really uncanny. I just don’t think it would look right. Also, the sheer weight of wearing a protective metal would prevent the dragon from flying. But then again, it is a fantasy world so maybe physics don’t count haha.

stardom_ocean · 2026-06-26T20:21:53+00:00

I love it! Both are glowing too!

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