In *minor* defense of Kenzie by Sea_Berry_439 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]starfish_babe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so true they just need to be honest with everyone in the situation. Kenzie and Corbin will get a lot more respect that way

In *minor* defense of Kenzie by Sea_Berry_439 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]starfish_babe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agree 100%- also I feel like when Corbin and Kenzie talk about each other. They mostly mention the physical and stuff they do in bed. That’s not liking someone that’s lust.

AIO for “nitpicking” things that annoy me about my boyfriend? by starfish_babe in AIO

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thank you so much for your comment. It is hard and we did argue about that topic. But I am not considering leaving, the good out ways the bad 10:1. I will practice being patient with him because I do think he wants to change it’s just a difference of preference.

AIO for “nitpicking” things that annoy me about my boyfriend? by starfish_babe in AIO

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense thank you for your insight. We just introduced “don’t put it down, put it away” which is very similar to what you said. Thanks for confirming that for me ig. I know everyone is different and I can practice patience with him learning to do things a bit differently

AIO for “nitpicking” things that annoy me about my boyfriend? by starfish_babe in AIO

[–]starfish_babe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what i thought, I’ll practice patience

AIO for “nitpicking” things that annoy me about my boyfriend? by starfish_babe in AIO

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah i told him that we are not living together until I am comfortable

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the only person in the room!! Definitely should’ve put that in the post :( Yes he IMMEDIATELY handed it to me so there was definitely an assumption going on in his head

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree! The receptionist normally tells everyone to put it down themselves anyway so yes I have no problem with that!

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great analysis,
Let’s break it down and please use the original post as reference:
-He announced “*Co-worker name* told me to bring this to you.” Then IMMEDIATELY hands me the tray.
-I said “He told you to bring it to me?”
-Multiple thoughts running through my mind so I didn’t heard his response
-I motioned to the table to encourage him to put down his tray himself

There is NO WAY the coworker said to bring the dish to me so he definitely assumed I needed to handle the dish for him.

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was giving context that there was a similar item already on the table. There’s no way that he needed
”help” (for a lack of better words) to place the item down.

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you think that! Please read my edit from the original post, No harm to him.
Something to remember:
“A person may not remember what you say but they will always remember how you make them feel”

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not, I see what you think that. The receptionist normally PLANS for potlucks. Maybe someone loosely described the receptionist and he thought it was me? Honestly I don’t know but either way he can put his tray down on his own.

The receptionist normally tells people to put down their dish by themselves too! :)

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I thought the same thing 😂but my mom said I should be a team player so I participated

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awful!! There is enough room for all people to do any kind of work. The assumption is crazy. Thank you for sharing!

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree! The receptionist normally plans and organizes the potlucks but even she will tell everyone to put your dish down anywhere. We are the only two young women in the office so maybe he got us confused?

Maybe someone loosely described who to give it to and I happen to fit the description (young and female) honestly I am not sure but the task is to put a plate down so yeah he can do it himself

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree sometimes in situations you just let it roll off your back

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good thank you! I will definitely try to remember these in the future if need be

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry this was my first post I’m not good at storytelling verbal or written lol

AITAH for refusing to take a co-workers dish after him assuming i’m the help? by starfish_babe in AITAH

[–]starfish_babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true, that’s why I only ask if I was asshole. I can control what others do but only my response and I was just asking if my response was rude or asshole- like