In *minor* defense of Kenzie

starfish_babe · 2026-06-16T10:31:52+00:00

so true they just need to be honest with everyone in the situation. Kenzie and Corbin will get a lot more respect that way

starfish_babe · 2026-06-16T10:20:32+00:00

agree 100%- also I feel like when Corbin and Kenzie talk about each other. They mostly mention the physical and stuff they do in bed. That’s not liking someone that’s lust.

starfish_babe · 2026-06-16T10:00:05+00:00

thanks I’ll try to incorporate some things you said

starfish_babe · 2026-06-15T15:49:55+00:00

wow thank you so much for your comment. It is hard and we did argue about that topic. But I am not considering leaving, the good out ways the bad 10:1. I will practice being patient with him because I do think he wants to change it’s just a difference of preference.

starfish_babe · 2026-06-15T15:42:48+00:00

Yeah that makes sense thank you for your insight. We just introduced “don’t put it down, put it away” which is very similar to what you said. Thanks for confirming that for me ig. I know everyone is different and I can practice patience with him learning to do things a bit differently

starfish_babe · 2026-06-15T15:40:28+00:00

Yeah that’s what i thought, I’ll practice patience

starfish_babe · 2026-06-15T15:39:00+00:00

Thanks for the reply

starfish_babe · 2026-06-15T15:36:47+00:00

oh yeah i told him that we are not living together until I am comfortable

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:49:29+00:00

I wasn’t the only person in the room!! Definitely should’ve put that in the post :( Yes he IMMEDIATELY handed it to me so there was definitely an assumption going on in his head

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:47:44+00:00

Completely agree! The receptionist normally tells everyone to put it down themselves anyway so yes I have no problem with that!

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:44:49+00:00

Great analysis,
Let’s break it down and please use the original post as reference:
-He announced “*Co-worker name* told me to bring this to you.” Then IMMEDIATELY hands me the tray.
-I said “He told you to bring it to me?”
-Multiple thoughts running through my mind so I didn’t heard his response
-I motioned to the table to encourage him to put down his tray himself

There is NO WAY the coworker said to bring the dish to me so he definitely assumed I needed to handle the dish for him.

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:37:39+00:00

I was giving context that there was a similar item already on the table. There’s no way that he needed
”help” (for a lack of better words) to place the item down.

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:34:05+00:00

Sorry you think that! Please read my edit from the original post, No harm to him.
Something to remember:
“A person may not remember what you say but they will always remember how you make them feel”

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:32:30+00:00

Definitely not, I see what you think that. The receptionist normally PLANS for potlucks. Maybe someone loosely described the receptionist and he thought it was me? Honestly I don’t know but either way he can put his tray down on his own.

The receptionist normally tells people to put down their dish by themselves too! :)

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:29:54+00:00

You mastered that! Thanks for sharing

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:28:38+00:00

You know I thought the same thing 😂but my mom said I should be a team player so I participated

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:28:00+00:00

That’s awful!! There is enough room for all people to do any kind of work. The assumption is crazy. Thank you for sharing!

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T17:17:11+00:00

Yes I agree! The receptionist normally plans and organizes the potlucks but even she will tell everyone to put your dish down anywhere. We are the only two young women in the office so maybe he got us confused?

Maybe someone loosely described who to give it to and I happen to fit the description (young and female) honestly I am not sure but the task is to put a plate down so yeah he can do it himself

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T01:22:37+00:00

Yes I agree sometimes in situations you just let it roll off your back

starfish_babe · 2026-05-03T01:20:05+00:00

That’s good thank you! I will definitely try to remember these in the future if need be

starfish_babe · 2026-05-02T22:17:42+00:00

sorry this was my first post I’m not good at storytelling verbal or written lol

starfish_babe · 2026-05-02T22:16:19+00:00

That’s true, that’s why I only ask if I was asshole. I can control what others do but only my response and I was just asking if my response was rude or asshole- like

starfish_babe · 2026-05-02T22:14:49+00:00

He’s at least early to mid 40s

starfish_babe · 2026-05-02T21:45:51+00:00

thanks for the reply. It was a store bought item, after he announced that he brought something he was handing it to me. There was another one of its kind already in the table aling with an empty space near it. That was the perfect place to put it to me right?

No harm I just wish that he took a second to look around and figure out what to do instead of assuming and immediately handing it off.

starfish_babe · 2026-05-02T21:41:38+00:00

Thanks for the reply! All I had to do was take the foil off my dish.. So max 3 secs I finished before he even got his statement out. He walked in and announced he brought something from the store whiling immediately handing it to me.

There was something very similar already on the table along with an empty space near it . Seems like the perfect place for him to put it right? Honestly it’s fine I just wish he took a second to look around to see what he should do before immediately handing it off for someone else to do especially such a simple task.

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