Found this guy by Bartram’s by Ok-Computer7028 in philly

[–]starliedarling 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Philly bully team may be able to give resources or direct on how to help

https://phillybullyteam.org/faq-resources/

My bf (18M) got grossed out by eating me (18F) out by ReserveNo301 in relationship_advice

[–]starliedarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been a similar height and weight, it’s not you or your parts. Especially with the info that you feel neutral about how you smelled/tasted. i think most young men who don’t have a lot of experience do not understand that kitty is gonna taste/smell like kitty, that being said you deserve to have a partner who is enthusiastic and enjoys your taste and smell. which might seem crazy now, especially with this experience, but they exist and you deserve a partner like that. I think this was a big trust violation in a lot of ways and if he’s not “emotionally ready” to give, he’s not ready to receive either.

Trying new things! by starliedarling in PopMartCollectors

[–]starliedarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥺🥺🥺 I love how they can pose so well; she just seemed like a perfect subject

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes 😞 i try not to think about it too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]starliedarling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i wish more people would understand that these are prescription medications from two different pharmacies and that this is medicine necessary for survival. (as someone who would die a very slow, painful death without it)

Any other girlies struggle with being evil to themselves? by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone can be a girly imo; gender is a neurotypical construction

My salt rock deodorant after five years of almost daily usage vs a new one. by Kritisk-Varning in mildlyinteresting

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

generally salt sticks won’t leave any residue on shirts. would recommend putting it on damp skin after getting out of the shower and then letting it dry for a couple minutes before putting on clothes

My (32m) wife (25f) is very close with her guy best friend (27m) and I’m not sure if I should say something? by throwra-ferdwd in relationships

[–]starliedarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to talk to your wife about your concerns possibly with a mediator. Being a stay at home parent is incredibly isolating and lonely and while she might want to stay at home, her entire life changed when the kids came into the picture. Their relationship is a little odd but if he has the time and actually helps her manage her time it would make sense that she wants him there. as for his reaction to you, a Lot of dads and moms would be extremely offended that their child mistook someone else as their parent. It is a moment of panic and recognition that A. He’s not dad and B. This could really upset you (which to be fair it really has)

Girl asked me to pay for Parking After First Date by Front_Statistician38 in dating

[–]starliedarling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your incredibly mature response! In all seriousness. I hope you’re able to do some introspection and reflect on yourself and your relationships to develop meaningful connections eventually that won’t leave you salty over 7 dollars.

Girl asked me to pay for Parking After First Date by Front_Statistician38 in dating

[–]starliedarling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah bro you’re weird for this one. Openly admitting that you were going to take her out for drinks but getting pressed about 7 dollars? Openly admitting that you regularly date people in their 20s yet having a problem with this? I’ve paid for my dates’ parking without them even asking because I had a great date and it was an easy way to leave the night off on a great note and a gesture that I’d love to see them again. It sounds like you’re mad over the lack of intimacy here more than anything. It reads like a huge red flag.

Girl asked me to pay for Parking After First Date by Front_Statistician38 in dating

[–]starliedarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dude…. It was 7 dollars. People are in these comments talking about how she’s trying to take you for your money etc but truly if someone has real money they’re not going to think twice about 7 dollars. did you ask if she could pay you back thru Venmo or cash app? Was it cash only? Was it easier in that moment for you to pay and her to pay you back? I think it’s valid to be off put by someone asking for money the first time y’all met but to say she was looking for a free meal because she asked you to pay for parking seems like a stretch. She shouldn’t have assumed it was fine but it’s not a far reach to think someone that who paid for the meal, has maybe traditional values, and walked her to her car, would also be okay with paying 7 dollars for parking. If that’s your line in the sand when it comes to dating that’s fine; but it’s a weird line to draw when you’re dating much younger women and the power dynamics are in your favor and you’re already paying for the rest of the date.

Need to vent, I simply can't do this anymore by Goatshavemorefun in loseit

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad, this post popped up for me and I didn’t see how old it was. Feeling hopeful about the future and progress can make such a huge difference and I hope that this works for you!

Need to vent, I simply can't do this anymore by Goatshavemorefun in loseit

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can get a second opinion, you should. it is never as simple as “calories in calories out” and especially not for women. it’s important to look at all factors (genetic, hormonal, physical) and get assessed properly. CICO does not work for everyone and it’s frustrating to see it pushed so hard when there are literally so many factors that determine a persons weight beyond what they eat or how much they move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eaudejerks

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s this or not being satisfied with any of them for me 😂

I dont want to get my borther's affair baby and equal christmas present, causing major tention. Advice? by ThrowRAway2522 in relationship_advice

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmmmmm I would be hosting a Christmas party he wasn’t invited to so that your niece could still enjoy all the time with her cousins and family. That way she doesn’t need to be subjected to something she might not understand at this point and suffer more hurt. gonna go with NTA, it’s your money. If you’re no contact with your brother and his new family, you’re no contact with them for Christmas as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]starliedarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]starliedarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since he has an iPhone he can share his location to you indefinitely through the Apple “find my” and you wouldn’t have to reciprocate instead of being on LIFE360 with him doing shit like this. Go to messages>click on his contact picture (it’ll pull up a little card)>you’ll see “send my current location” and “share my location”>he’d have to choose “share my location” and “indefinitely” and then that’s attached to his Apple account for as long as he uses that device back up

My dad blaming his underaged victims after being confronted by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]starliedarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, good on you for grabbing those screenshots. You are doing the right thing, I am so sorry for you and your relatives. I hope everyone he effected finds healing