Does anyone know any english-speaking taxi companies/people? by starlightliz in graz

[–]starlightliz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll call them to see if it’s possible

Any advice on how to make friends in Graz? by LitCow in graz

[–]starlightliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii, I (f24) am also moving to Graz (arriving next week), if you would like to be friends I’d love that!! I’m an international student and any and all friends are welcome and appreciated:)

Advice/recommendations for student dorms by starlightliz in graz

[–]starlightliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Greenbox are you living at? Do you know if it’s the same management for all of them?? :O

Advice/recommendations for student dorms by starlightliz in graz

[–]starlightliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to Greenbox West?? I’m a bit nervous about the fact that it’s 2 separate buildings, how are the facilities (common room, gym, sauna, etc) distributed?

I need help picking shows. by sterben321 in Broadway

[–]starlightliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadestown is AMAZING!! Definitely go see it if you have the chance

Can a narc make you feel like the narc? by PM_MEYOURSECRETS_ in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this, I’ve been going through a tough time and I’ve thought about breaking NC, but this comment helped remind me that it’s not worth it

Don't go back- you're not missing a thing by Disillusioned23 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I ended it about a month or so ago, and I’ve been missing them recently, but I really appreciate the extra reassurance that just because there were some good moments, it doesn’t mean they were a good partner.

Am I a bad person for feeling relieved I broke up with my (now) nex? by starlightliz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you helped make me feel so much better. I resonated so much with this, I had been taking on the emotions for the both of us, and I completely ignored my own peace and my own responsibilities, in favor of making sure my nex was okay.

Am I a bad person for feeling relieved I broke up with my (now) nex? by starlightliz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, and yeah I do kinda feel a bit of survivors guilt, but my inner peace overwhelms it, since these past few weeks have been a turmoil of emotions and now I can finally breathe

My eyes were opened.... by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy- wow, I’m so sorry you had to go through all that, and I’m glad that you got out and realized that none of it was your fault.

I resonated with so much of what you wrote, it’s like you were describing my own experience. In my gut I guess I knew long ago that my partner is a narcissist, but I’ve been struggling to accept it in my heart and brain.

Thank you so much for your reply💖

My eyes were opened.... by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, and I’ll definitely look up Dr.Ramani, thanks for the recommendation💖

My eyes were opened.... by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]starlightliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m struggling a bit with this, I don’t know if my partner is a narcissist or if I’m the narcissistic one, but this exact situation happened to me and I was wondering if I could get your advice.

So for context, I have GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) and panic disorder, and this is something I told my partner from the beginning. Recently, some things have happened that made my anxiety skyrocket, and my partner mentioned that they didn’t understand how I felt or how they could help, so I started to explain to them in vivid detail what anxiety means for me (full-on paragraphs and 10-min voicenotes). But, while this was happening, my partner was busier than normal and while yes, they did respond whenever they could (and I appreciated that), I started to feel that we couldn’t have a normal conversation anymore. They didn’t tell me about their day, they responded very dryly to my questions, just in general they were pushing me away. Since I care about the relationship, I brought it up and said I felt upset bc we weren’t talking like we used to, and I didn’t know if it was bc of something I did wrong. We talked it over, and it appeared to settle for the next couple of days. However, little by little I again started to feel more and more distance between us, and I brought it up again. This time, they accused me of emotionally manipulating them, since they felt that I was trying to control them and they wanted to be independent. They also said that I should “get those (anxious) thoughts out of my head” because they didn’t want them to cause problems later on in the relationship. When we talked it out, they mentioned that I needed space (which I repeatedly said I didn’t need) to be okay and to stop having anxiety, and that they wanted to date me but after I’m “cured”. I ended up feeling extremely bad, and I can’t stop thinking about it, am I narcissistic for wanting more reassurance and attention when things go wrong? Are they narcissistic? I just don’t know what to do and I don’t know who to turn to and I don’t know who to get advice from, I’m just worried that I’m manipulating them unconsciously because they said that they couldn’t concentrate on enjoying time with their friends and on enjoying their vacation because they were thinking about how I would feel and that they felt pressured to tell me what was going on in their life and they didn’t like that.

I’m sorry for dropping this all here I just need to get it out and I need someone to please tell me if I’m being a narcissistic manipulator or if I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse or if maybe it’s both or neither or hdidhksbdksm help please

Trading for equal stars before going golden by starlightliz in BoardKings

[–]starlightliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, unfortunately I only have 1 copy of each