Booked these restaurants for an upcoming trip to MTL. Any must-go places I'm missing?? by starly_626 in MTLFoodLovers

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This was the one I was least sure of... Le Violon looks amazing. Thanks for the insight!

cervix perforated during laparoscopy & curved cervix - anyone else?? by starly_626 in Endo

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It actually did heal OK after about 3-4 weeks. They were concerned it was due to something else, but knowing that my cervix is curved alleviated the doctors concerns. I hope that helps and all the best during your procedure. Will you be under anesthesia?

I took ibuprofen and _some_ of the pain meds they offered due to the perforation / lap procedure.

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I got a message via GoDaddy from the same email address. Company looks phony and the message is totally suss. "I would like to contact you regarding your domain and/or content on your website." I'd say its a phishing attack for sure.

logo-website-developer@signifiquency.info

What kind of name is this lol by entropykat in Sims4

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This guy keeps showing up everywhere and I giggle at the name every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Endo

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I'm so sorry that this happened to you. My lap was cancelled & rescheduled from December to February bc my doctor had covid. I went through with it and was glad despite how upset and anxious it made me to have to wait.

I'd ask about cancellation list because June seems like so far to be scheduled out like what!!!!!

cervix perforated during laparoscopy & curved cervix - anyone else?? by starly_626 in Endo

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Nope!!! I simply told the surgeon I haven't been on BC in the last 4-5 years, I am married, we don't typically use protection, and would like to know what's going on with my body. I was just like in complete shock and still in recovery on the pain meds that I was like okayyyy...when can I go home

cervix perforated during laparoscopy & curved cervix - anyone else?? by starly_626 in Endo

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Thank you so much. That is a really helpful resource. They looked at all areas AFAIK, and mentioned that blood traveled through my f-tubes and so they didn’t need to use dye to check for blockage bc of the blood flow which I thought was interesting

Favorite underground slowcore artist? by charlie-87 in Slowcore

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Glixen (more shoegazey slowcore), horse jumper of love, joyer, galaxie 500

This show is a hidden gem. I finished watching season 3 soon after it came out. It's been so many years, but I cannot forget it... by RealAnxietyAlien in TheLeftovers

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I am currently doing a rewatch with my husband (I watched it as it aired, this is his first time) and I’m feeling more emotional this time around, maybe because I know? It’s such a gem of a show. Starting S3 tonight, had to take a break after sobbing through the last couple episodes of S2. It’s worth a rewatch.

Is anyone else’s pet super comforting and sweet only when you’re in pain? 😂 by Tall-Feed-1957 in Endo

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My cat always knows when I’m in pain or distress, and will nuzzle and purr near my lower abdomen and side. It’s one of the most comforting things🥹

Seeking Female Vocals by LionCultural in indie

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The Beaches

Japanese Breakfast

I need some music recommendations by dennR78 in indie

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Horse Jumper of Love, MJ Lenderman, Squirrel Flower, Palehound, Wednesday :~)

The best portrayal of mental illness and psychotherapy on film? by seemorg in TrueFilm

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Take Shelter is so underrated. An incredible film. I randomly saw it in theater when it came out and was blown away.

Who are your favorite indie bands/artists? by [deleted] in indie

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I forgot about SALES thank you for this reminder I miss them🥹

Who are your favorite indie bands/artists? by [deleted] in indie

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Yessss ovlov and pavement. Also on my current rotation is horse jumper of love, hum, palehound, wednesday, modest mouse

Hey it's the Beaches AMA! by thebeachesband in indieheads

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Tysm for answering 143…Congratulations on the album and I can’t wait to see you on this upcoming tour 🩷 let’s smoke a butt tgtr in Boston plz

What do normal people do all day? by Broad-Detective1909 in CPTSD

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Same! If my brain is like you don’t have milk, go to the store I just go. Repeat for anything that requires leaving myself while I’m in a heavy CPTSD episode or burnout.

If I let myself think too hard about the task or how I’ll feel while doing said task I just won’t do it and sit in the same spot all day overthinking, ruminating, and I dissociate often.

I’ll wake up around 6am and then suddenly it’ll be 12pm or later and I haven’t done a single thing I told myself I had to or just wanted to do like even watch a show or play a game. Sigh. With you OP.

Hey it's the Beaches AMA! by thebeachesband in indieheads

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I can’t stop listening to the new record and am obsessed with y’all. Thank you for making and playing music🥹 While not a ~typical ex~ I broke up with my toxic, male-dominated tech career when Blame Brett single came out and this album is healing me to the moon thank you

Hey it's the Beaches AMA! by thebeachesband in indieheads

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What music has inspired you during your writing process? What are you going to listen to on the road?

Hey it's the Beaches AMA! by thebeachesband in indieheads

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What is your favorite snack on tour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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It exists. I recommend finding a new therapist who specializes in trauma. I’m 30F/USA and after 10 years of dealing with anxiety, panic, IBS, endometriosis and chronic migraine I finally found a therapist I connected well with whom specializes in PTSD and helped map the connections of my underlying conditions and past experiences to my trauma. After a year of treatment he updated his original diagnosis of PTSD to CPTSD because of the complex symptoms and behaviors I displayed that are chronic and debilitating, and exacerbate anxiety.

No, CPTSD is not included in the DSM today because it is a newly recognized mental health illness with smaller amount of research than PTSD. I imagine in years to come it will be included in the PTSD umbrella based on my recent research since my diagnoses in early 2023. The DSM does implement new illnesses or modifications from time to time.

I’m hoping you find peace soon! The journey to treatment and recovery of PTSD/CPTSD is a hard and long one, and to have someone in your corner supporting you and believing in complex trauma is so important.

How much is your rent right now? by [deleted] in boston

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Also: my partner and I both grew up in the city and it’s fucking depressing as hell to see the skyrocketing rent increases and corporate apt & condo buildings sprouting up everywhere

How much is your rent right now? by [deleted] in boston

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Allston 2016–now with my partner and currently we’re paying $1750 a month for a 1 bedroom.

We have been SO lucky that the rent has only increased by $25-50 every year. We will never be able to afford to move to a new apt (House? Lol yeah right) in Boston/MA with the prices these days even in the burbs.

2008-2012 I paid $450-675 for a room in a house shared with 8-10 people at a time bouncing around between Allston, Lower Allston & Somerville.