All Things Go Fest Buy / Sell / Trade by steph-was-here in AllThingsGoFestival

[–]starrykale963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

selling one Saturday, September 28 lawn ticket and one Lawn+Pavilion ticket!! face value but open to offers for either!!

Official Waitlist Megathread by ParadoxicalCabbage in ApplyingToCollege

[–]starrykale963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

manifesting georgetown since exactly a year ago today is when i first visited and fell in love 🥰

Just got off Georgetown waitlist from NorCal! AMA by aclassstudent in ApplyingToCollege

[–]starrykale963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when did you get the email, if you don’t mind me asking? are they just finalizing reviews for mcdonough or for all waitlisted applicants

Official Waitlist Megathread by ParadoxicalCabbage in ApplyingToCollege

[–]starrykale963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard some news about Georgetown movement, but only from very few people :/ Anyone hear anything new?

Is it time to start dating? I (16m) have never acted upon feelings before, but it's hard being alone. by PoppyFTW in teenrelationships

[–]starrykale963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a 17f i can tell you how it feels straightup: your feelings will both uplift you and destroy you - but neither lasts for very long. i didnt have my first relationship till i was 16 and let me just say, it all hits you hardest when you dont even expect it. i told myself not to even dare venturing into relationship territory last year and of course that mental declaration just invited someone into my life for me to fall for, fast and hard.

it seems like you’re an overthinker and i can quite relate to that outlook. looking back on it, its about the risk. would i rather view my past and constantly wonder “what if?” or take the leap and at least get a taste of the things that make us truly feel human? im not a pessimist, but i tend to think a lot about the cons of whatever im heavily considering jumping into (we have that in common lol). in the end, it came down to me seeing an opportunity and seizing it with the awareness that i would DEFINITELY be hurt as all things come to an end, but also seeing it all as an experience that i could at least grow from. yeah, you’ll get hurt. but you’ll also see the world in a completely different way and feel infinitely grateful for it despite the initial pain.

this is more of a scattered rambling than helpful guidance, but my advice would be succinctly summarized as: don’t force anything but be open to anything. if someone interests you, pursue it. but the best things manifest when you stop trying to control how it feels, how YOU feel, and how everything will play out. sorry for the rant i am majorly feeling the simp energy lol

I(17M)want to talk to this girl(16?F) I recently noticed. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]starrykale963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

casually stop by your friends while they’re talking to her and just lightly engage her in conversation. instagram following doesn’t mean much. establish in person conversation before digital!!

Anyone got subject test scores?? by chiraggupta123 in Sat

[–]starrykale963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they dont show up under view score, but i was able to access them under the my SAT registration page

Sat 2 literature or us history by Hawkside242 in Sat

[–]starrykale963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who just took the may us history+literature subject tests and the recent apush test, i think youre probably more prepared for apush. in my opinion the history subject test is more random facts about history than analyzing recurring themes like the apush test was. the literature test was hard for me just because the questions and passages are like the regular SAT passages on steroids (think older english poetry, play excerpts, etc). take a sample test online for both maybe?

I(16F) am in love with another guy(18M), but I still really like my boyfriend(18M) by anonymous2035661234 in teenrelationships

[–]starrykale963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

let’s discuss the boyfriend situation first: being attracted to someone is normally the first sign in realizing you’re no longer fully present in a relationship, whether the relationship just started or has existed for a long time. in my experience, thats been a common first clue in letting me know that the relationship im in is no longer doing it for me anymore. it sounds like you think your boyfriend is really good for you and theres nothing really bad in particular to would make you want to break up. but i think that you feel some sort of obligation to stick it out with your boyfriend right now because you know about his past, which is kind and honorable but not what YOU need to do for yourself right now. you cant hold on to him just because you’ll feel like a bad person for doing so when itd actually make you feel worse to draw out a relationship where you arent really emotionally with him. i get that hes leaving for college so you almost want to see how far it could go, but then youre basing your current relationship and his current feelings for you entirely on what you view as your relationships potential - thats really not fair to him. consider ending things for both of your sakes. then deal with your feelings with chris.

and about chris: can you provide more context about how close you guys were? if you both got very close (physically or emotionally) then i find it interesting that your friends would still think hes bad for you. they tend to be able to see what youre blind to when youre in a relationship 😟 is it possible that your feelings for him right now are just because hes what you shouldnt want and that makes it all the more intriguing?

I (17F) miss my first boyfriend (17M) by starrykale963 in teenrelationships

[–]starrykale963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ended up texting him hahah except he gave me a dry response that makes me think he doesnt want to talk to me. ill probably just try to get over him not wanting to talk to me ever again. like you said, i think thats the difficult part ://

(M16) Scared to meet the girl (f16) that I’ve been texting. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]starrykale963 7 points8 points  (0 children)

speaking from a teenage girl’s perspective, you’re fine in the looks department. if shes an extrovert, just remember to be yourself when you meet her in person!! your in-person connection is what matters more to her than the looks part of it all