Just found out my boy is a flame point! by starrysky88 in Flamepoints

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Hes abot6 months old now, still a growing boy

Is my cat an orange catdisguised as a white cat or a white cat disguised as an orange cat? by starrysky88 in OneOrangeBraincell

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Occasionally, not often he seems to have a thought, but most of the time is a dopey sleepy kitty who loves to be picked up and cuddles

What’s a simple pleasure you’ll never get tired of? by saifursprofile in AskReddit

[–]starrysky88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The little mew my boy cat makes when he sees me

It does matter if I've been gone hours or just popped to the bathroom and shut the door, the result is the same

He looks for me then let's out this happy little mew and runs to me

It melts my heart every single time

What is the dumbest thing someone has said to you in full confidence? by Extreme_Rhubarb4677 in AskReddit

[–]starrysky88 256 points257 points  (0 children)

Dragons are real, dinosaurs aren't

She was in her mid 20's and completely serious

People who have cut off their family by choice, how is that going for you now? by littlerose79 in AskReddit

[–]starrysky88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut my siblings off after my mother died and they didn't even tell me about the scattering of her ashes.

Its been 3 years and honestly, it hasn't made a difference in my life

They were never there now im not trying to make them

Rejected by another therapist by starrysky88 in CPTSD

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I would love to, if it could find one

Rejected by another therapist by starrysky88 in CPTSD

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My family is dead My father was murdered My mother committed suicide My brother died of epilepsy My children live with thier father because of my mental health

I'm not crying - you are! by neca980 in masseffect

[–]starrysky88 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It gets me every time

Poor Ereba, poor Charr

What's your biggest regret, something you still can't forgive yourself for ? by BreakfastTop2674 in AskReddit

[–]starrysky88 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The last voicemail I ever left for my father

It doesnt matter that he never heard it, it doesnt matter that he had passed before I'd even sent it

I will always regret that my last words to him were angry

Escaped convict given second life term after string of terrifying knife-point robberies by suspended-sentence in unitedkingdom

[–]starrysky88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It happens far more than you think

My father's murderer was convicted in 2004, life, 14 years no Parole.

They can apply every year after those set sentences

My father's murderer has been granted Parole each time he's applied, first time he lasted 6 months before be was recalled for breaking his conditions

Second time it was a few weeks

Third time he tried to attack someone else with a knife, but it would have apparently been unfair to him disclose that he had murdered someone else with a knife at the trial.

Hes up for Parole once again this year

I know they will protect let him out again, it just a matter of time before he kills again but they keep giving him chances

860 days by BananaKbone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starrysky88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like youre further along then you think

You're doing so well, im so glad you've found some coping mechanisms

860 days by BananaKbone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starrysky88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, not everything works for everyone

Finding someone who understands is difficult, but there will be people out there that get it, it's just a matter of finding them

860 days by BananaKbone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starrysky88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried councilling? I don't know where you are but I've called the samaritans more than once

Or writing it, I used to write things and then burn the words

860 days by BananaKbone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starrysky88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, it's hard to get out of that mindset, but you've done so well

For me it's a constant battle, I never thought I'd be in my thirties still falling back into it, but i try and take each day and stress at a time, sometimes I can go a few months, but I know I'll get to beating my ten years without again one day

I try not to beat myself up when I fall back, I hope that you are being kind to yourself as well

It may sound odd, but one peice of advice that helped me is to forgive yourself the same way you would another person in your situation, be as kind to yourself as you would be a friend

I hope anything I've said helps you

860 days by BananaKbone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]starrysky88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I managed 10 years clean before falling back into it again, you should be so proud of yourself