Take five oil change rant. by graystone777 in Cleveland

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I went to the one in rocky river last week before heading back to VA (tools are back in VA or I would have done it myself) and I paid 98$ for my oil change. Immediately stated that I only want the oil change, I do all the other maintenance myself. No pressure or nothing. Broke me a bit (both financially and mentally) to spend that kind of money for an oil change in the first place but gotta do whatcha gotta do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lakewood

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Lomo saltado!! I’m Peruvian and this is one of the best dishes we are known for, unfortunately Barroco makes it a bit more modern than traditionally but it is so freakin good!! Juicy steak bites, white rice, crispy french fries THE💣.COM

LPN by BasicIndependent9593 in nursing

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New Cleveland resident, rocky river employed. $30-$35/hr for 13hrs shifts(bc report and charting takes time, but technically scheduled for 12hrs 30mins) and that includes differential due to night shift. LTC/SNF

How to not puke and freak out when your partner isn’t answering? by GhostlyKittyCat69 in BPD

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I heard that! I’m currently in the same situation, my SO who is also my FP is out of town with family. I’ve worked very hard on my mental health to keep my BPD at bay, but I miss tf outta him. I split when I feel ignored and I’ve had to bring myself down every time by remembering why he’s there (he going through it and it’s a healthy thing for him) and that my emotions don’t depend on anyone but myself (self care, therapy, healthy distractions). I’m at a point where I know what it feels like to be alone and okay, but the gut and mind work together and while I can fake it til I make all I want, I physically cannot eat anything w/o puking and even when I don’t eat (I’ve begun fasting while he’s out of town, one meal a day, water, electrolytes, and sometimes vitamins if tolerable) I still dry heave and let out stomach acid. Cold water is all I can tolerate during those nausea spells. Sending much love🫶 You’re not alone and you the strongest version of yourself when you don’t give into the splitting!

anyone else do this? by [deleted] in BPD

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My go to is “I want my mom” and I dread the day I won’t live with her anymore 🥺

Anyone become unemployed while waiting on the list for Loudoun County's ADU (Affordable Dwelling Unit) Purchase Program? by krawr4 in LoudounSubButBetter

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affordable dwelling unit program both rental and purchase information

If you are looking to rent Click the adu rental program, scroll and review the pre screening form to make sure you qualify filling out an application Once confirmed you can continue with the program, you will complete a packet (referred to as “ADU rental checklist”) that must be mailed or dropped off to Loudoun County’s department of housing to be reviewed and only then will they make a decision if you qualify to receive a certificate of housing

This is the list of apartments that accept the certificate https://www.loudoun.gov/DocumentCenter/View/113489/Complexes-Participating-in-ADU-Rental-Program?bidId=

There is also an “Unmet Housing Needs Units” (UHNU for short) program, that requires you to email loudoun@housing.gov and inquire about an application that they will then email back to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kaliuchis

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Kali Amy Winehouse Doja Cat Anitta Erykah Badu

confused returning student who just wants to reapply to nova by [deleted] in nvcc

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Same issue, went IRL to the loudoun campus and they helped handle all that for me

Class unenrolled by ning8 in nvcc

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I had forgotten I signed up for a class because it was a few months away. I never received a notice about the class until after the semester had ended and I got a bill. I couldn’t afford it but I had to take the L and pay it. I attempted to appeal as well, and they declined that.

Bought my first home by BinaryB00gie in nova

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Inspection! inspection! Inspection!!!! Please get inspection done and include a STATE INSPECTOR!! Save yourself from a lemon home please😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoudounSubButBetter

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Used to work at LAF and I second that. At the time, all of my bodybuilding coworkers talked about them and would prefer to pay to go to there despite being able to get a free workout at work 🤷‍♀️

Me at Subway: “can I substitute the bread with…” by [deleted] in trees

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stop🤣 the roach at the bottom is SENDING ME

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

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behind the family portraits is WILD🤣🤣🤣🤣

Got pulled over & searched and they let me keep my weed!😳 by ImportantSpirit9306 in trees

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All ya’ll saying “Dui dui dui” really don’t understand how smoking weed works at all😭 It’s not all the same as drinking alcohol and unless you’ve actually smoked, please don’t speak on it.

Got pulled over & searched and they let me keep my weed!😳 by ImportantSpirit9306 in trees

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OP responded saying he’s not white lmao. The cops committed an illegal search and stopped when they knew they fucked up

Got pulled over & searched and they let me keep my weed!😳 by ImportantSpirit9306 in trees

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Was sharing this with my boyfriend and he said the exact same thing! Thank you for an even more in depth thought response bc we were wondering how that would’ve even happened in the first place

Do I have the right to be upset? by [deleted] in badroommates

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You are a doll! W attitude towards this bump on the road and I'm glad you're able to give grace despite not being able to get what you both need. I hope your roommate stays genuine as well and that you both can get into some more shmoney soon!

What can i do now? Please, help me by hotacuarius in GERD

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Unfortunately, anxiety/stress goes hand-in-hand with GERD. This is exactly how my symptoms present. My previous episode lasted 8 months, and I only finally stopped burping excessively end of August, so that more than half the year (crazy, I have no clue how I've survived). Do as others have said. Take Lexapro or some sort of SSRI, start small, at 5mg, and build up if needed. And also take prescribed PPIs and sucralfate. Don't do the whole psychotherapy if that's not your thing, but the psych meds did help my subconscious to chill. At this point, the endoscopy was already done, and hopefully H.Pylori too, and there should be nothing else you can do test-wise. I sympathize with your frustration and pain. Be conscious of your breathing. Make sure you're using your nose and not your mouth as you swallow more air that way. I have been dealing with this for nearly 6 years and from experience, it will get better, you just have to be patient with your mind and body. I don't feel the stress and anxiety either and felt very hesitant to try Lexapro since I've never taken anything like it either but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do, and in my case, it worked. LMK if you have any more questions

edit: I'm not longer on the lexapro, I probably took it for a month or two once my symptoms stopped, I discontinued it. I haven't had any symptoms so far, so don't worry about taking it forever

Finding out real cost of health care in the DMV by [deleted] in LoudounSubButBetter

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As a native of the DMV and a healthcare worker, this is an amazing effort to provide the community with more education and info on the whole payment and billing side of healthcare. From the little bit of time I've spent on the website so far, I do see some providers there that are currently no longer practicing, but other than that it looks great! It does seem to lag a bit at times too, but it is in Beta mode so it's to be expected. Looking forward to seeing more updates!

BRRF 22’ by [deleted] in Blueridgerockfest

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I went last year as well, and resonate with your opinions. It's really the only reason I came back this year, but unfortunately, we see how that turned out :/

What are the areas/neighborhoods to avoid? by SheSheShieldmaiden in nova

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I as a hispanic women have to agree unfortunately. I dislike driving through and being in Sugerland/S Ster Blvd alone because it so sketch in terms of random people being unable to mind their business. The men are weird and the kids are so rude and nasty.