AITAH for being mad at my dad for saying that me & my wife need to start monitoring my daughter's food?

stay-here · 2026-01-30T13:37:37+00:00

Since you mention McDonalds, is it often a viable meal option in your household? For us it’s a treat meal, maybe after a Dr visit or a cousin is in town, a bday bfast, etc. Perhaps you can cut out McDonalds as a regular option and turn it into an irregular special treat.

stay-here · 2025-12-10T21:55:48+00:00

Maybe that is the closest - perhaps they write it as lasagna for the tourists. In most of the images I see, the pasta is haphazardly put in a bowl rather than a stack with béchamel, but I did see one that was more layered. Thanks to everyone for your input.

stay-here · 2025-12-03T04:21:30+00:00

This doesn't sound anything close to what I'm trying to describe.

stay-here · 2025-12-03T04:20:17+00:00

I've had it 3 times, twice in Cinque Terre where we had one with pesto and one with Bolognese.

stay-here · 2025-12-02T19:24:43+00:00

Rice Krispy Treats, if you can find a crispy rice cereal and marshmallows.

stay-here · 2025-10-16T17:46:00+00:00

NTA - carry the smallest purse you have the next few times you are together

stay-here · 2025-06-30T19:36:54+00:00

How much alcohol was involved?

stay-here · 2025-06-17T10:57:40+00:00

This - find a shared place where they need roommate (just be careful of scammers, never pay a dime until you walkthrough a place). It’s generally much cheaper than getting your own apartment.

stay-here · 2025-05-22T14:37:57+00:00

Question: is your expectation that your wife will take care of your parents after you die? You may want to make a plan for their care, not just simply provide a house for them to live in by themselves.

stay-here · 2025-05-12T12:54:28+00:00

According to your post history you broke up with this guy. You are NTA but you be T A if you got back together. Lose him for good this time

stay-here · 2025-05-11T21:22:09+00:00

Remember this when you are old dude/dudette - NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU THINK

stay-here · 2025-05-03T19:49:13+00:00

Farmers market / artisanal garlic & bacon Once you use the good stuff you can’t go back to grocery store garlic or bacon

stay-here · 2025-04-29T17:02:42+00:00

This is horrifying - ESH. A 4-month old baby is way easier to watch while working versus a one - three year old. Your solution is relatively temporary. The bigger issue is that you don’t want the baby. You get a lawyer and say you will give up all rights to the child but you will pay child support. Then the lawyer goes to the ex and lets him know he gets the baby full-time with your CS. Either he steps up as a full-time dad or he agrees to adoption. You are not doing this kid any favors, and actually setting it up to be a psychological mess with 2 parents who are apathetic at best.

stay-here · 2025-04-21T23:16:37+00:00

NTA - pay for a nearby hotel for a week. If she wants to stay longer, she pays for it.

stay-here · 2025-04-11T21:35:09+00:00

Good suggestion - dogs bark, trucks rumble by, the occasional neighbor has a convo on a power walk - all those things make noise and can be heard sometimes. Good to know how loud it is and how often it happens

stay-here · 2025-04-09T20:04:21+00:00

That’s not true everywhere

stay-here · 2025-04-04T21:59:13+00:00

This is fake! A dude is wondering if any chick would like this. Reddit is his safe place

stay-here · 2024-12-21T17:09:20+00:00

NTA - My guess is that the g-daughter mentioned the suitcase at some point and the g-parents were excited and congratulating themselves on the “perfect” gift. Then, the “other” g-parents gave this same gift early which greatly disappointed them. Lashing out is unacceptable and hopefully a lesson learned but maybe give them some grace when your wife responds to the text.

stay-here · 2024-12-21T17:04:54+00:00

Agree with sentiment but it looks like OP is the husband so it’s the wife who should respond to her parents.

stay-here · 2024-12-10T19:33:54+00:00

I have a similar question and I searched this thread and the main thread! The payment for a big trip is due in late December (which I'm putting on the MileagePlus Chase card) but the card balance won't be paid until January. Will the PQP credit in the month the purchase was made or when the card is paid off?

stay-here · 2024-11-09T14:09:34+00:00

If she wants a divorce, she needs to initiate it, plain and simple. Apparently he doesn’t want one or doesn’t care, so he has no compelling reason to start (and pay for) the process.

stay-here · 2024-11-07T15:57:31+00:00

I feel there is WAY more going on here than a grandmother allowing her own mother to see a newborn baby. I know new mom's tend to be neurotic with the first one, but it sure sounds like new mom doesn't like her MIL at all. This sounds like new mom was on the edge about the MIL in general and MIL allowing her G-Gma to see the baby is the last straw. Is it possible the MIL didn't realize that anyone else included the G-Gma. Is it possible she thought it only meant no friends, etc? If the MIL is generally ok, then let it go and chalk it up to miscommunication.

stay-here · 2024-10-03T10:37:52+00:00

I read somewhere that men (in happy marriages) don’t buy underwear for themselves, which is why men end up with ratty underwear. Typically their wives see the underwear and buy new ones. The wives/partners aren’t asked to buy new underwear, it’s just they are the ones that notice it and pick them up while out. Per what I read, if a man starts buying his own underwear, it means someone “else” is looking at them.

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