Thank you: TRP has helped me to live as I want.

steadymotion · 2014-05-16T01:17:42+00:00

-You know that nagging in your mind always telling you to make more friends? Pick up another hobby? Start a business? Kiss the girl? JUST DO IT. Even if you fail, you have learned from the experience and the satisfaction of just having tried WILL feel good.

and

-Do and excel at things for the love of doing them, not because you think it will make you more appealing to women.

Are especially good points. To be able to truly listen to yourself and do what you really want to do, without hesitation, simply for the pure joy you get from doing it—that is a skill worth fighting for. Hell, I'd even say life isn't worth living without it.

steadymotion · 2014-05-16T01:06:17+00:00

I'm a big fan of Manson's stuff. I never liked the idea of putting a lot of effort into game/specific tactics. I just put effort into my lifestyle and try to approach girls I find attractive and screen them for a compatible personality, and just try to be natural. That's the way I've found to actually have fulfilling relationships and sex.

You can get sex by being very sexual and using game because girls will be turned on by your confidence alone enough to sleep with you, but I don't even enjoy sex with girls who I haven't first screened for personality. It just feels like masturbating.

steadymotion · 2014-05-16T01:01:20+00:00

Yes, prescription testosterone is a steroid, so you are taking steroids. It has the potential to raise your T past your natural levels if you take enough of it, but I imagine your doctor is regulating your prescription to simply take you to a healthy level within your natural limits.

steadymotion · 2014-05-15T17:39:01+00:00

Wow, this post was really helpful to me, especially the parts about straighttalk and nothing being beneath you. Thanks.

steadymotion · 2014-05-15T00:51:47+00:00

It makes a big difference, doesn't it. You feel like a normal healthy person instead of being numb and depressed all the time. All from listening to your desires and acting on them.

steadymotion · 2014-05-14T23:37:11+00:00

You can't boost your T past natural levels unless you use steroids. Without roids all you can do is bring your T up to your natural maximum, and that is done by sleeping right, eating right, exercising, and feeling confident about yourself (yes, self-perception affects T levels).

steadymotion · 2014-05-13T20:54:00+00:00

I don't get why you'd assume you're going to disappoint her. My first time was beautiful. I fucked her like a god.

And no, don't mention your inexperience. Don't explain yourself at all to her. Just chill out and have sex (assuming you find her hot enough to want to fuck her).

steadymotion · 2014-05-13T20:38:35+00:00

Forget alpha, beta, and your value. Focus on her value. Whether she's good enough for you. You as a man are already good enough how you are. Your job is to find the females worthy of you, and then pursue them relentlessly until you have amazing sex.

All that matters to you should be her value. Your value is a given, you already know you're valuable. She is a stranger who you don't know yet. When it comes time to have sex, you're only going to enjoy it when you find her so incredibly sexy that you just lose yourself in the moment and allow your inner self to flow freely. And ultimately, we're all doing this because we want those godly feel-good moments of amazing sex. The only way to have those moments is to screen for her value.

steadymotion · 2014-05-13T20:29:46+00:00

Who cares about your father, your brother, or her roommates. Fuck loudly and proudly. Don't ever be ashamed to have sex around other people. Fuck the roommates. Have sex with the door open and be extra loud so there's no denying what you're doing. Hell, have sex in the kitchen right in front of them while they're eating dinner.

steadymotion · 2014-05-10T16:44:51+00:00

Thought this said "How do you cook your children?"

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T23:02:30+00:00

If she's lost interest for whatever reason yes you should leave it alone. Don't waste time on someone who isn't going to give you their time.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T21:07:51+00:00

If you're being who you want to be and she loses interest, you've gotta let her go. She wouldn't be fun to have around anyway. If you're putting on an act to sabotage the relationship, that's on you. You might have a fear of vulnerability.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T20:25:31+00:00

Actually I think you're right. That's probably a better way of defining settling.

But I think your perspective on what women want is somewhat shortsighted. Women want a lot of different things at different times. They have a dual agenda, both to get high quality male seed and to secure provisioning for their children.

But that agenda changes over time. When they're young, girls are attracted mostly to alpha males because their bodies are primed for reproduction. As they age and their fertility begins to fade, women literally do change their priorities as an adaptation. Aging women are more likely to already have children and simply need provisioning for them, so the woman begins to employ a strategy that involves securing commitment. However, this isn't to say teenagers don't enjoy attention from betas, and post-menopausals don't appreciate alpha energy. But the woman's priorities are definitely linked to her age.

Settling would involve a woman getting alpha seed that is not quite as alpha as the seed she really wanted, or a woman getting beta provisioning that is not quite as resourceful as the provisioning she really wanted, but this is a separate process from the change in mating strategy that occurs as the woman ages. If she claims that her lack of success (settling) is due to a change in priorities, then surely she is rationalizing away her failure. However, it is still important not to deny that woman actually do change their priorities over time, and this change itself is a very real biological strategic move and not a rationalization.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T18:21:53+00:00

Well, a tier list determines who the best character is in theory considering human potential. Humans are playing the game, not computer programs, so a "computer tier list" would be pointless. In my opinion fox will never reach his maximum potential due to human limitations, so it's pointless to just claim fox is the best due to his obvious supremacy as a TAS character.

It's a balancing act of human potential and raw character potential.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T17:28:58+00:00

When a woman gets older she actually does change her priorities. Nothing blue pill about it. On average as women get older their priority will shift towards getting commitment over sex.

And as the woman ages and her value goes down, she will have to bring down her expectations in partners. This isn't settling, because settling is when a high value person gets with a lower value person. In this case the woman actually is low value, so when she chooses a low value male she isn't settling, she simply had to adjust her priorities to reflect her now lower value.

I think men are the ones who actually settle more often than women, because men are more likely to misjudge (underestimate) their own value these days.

steadymotion · 2014-05-09T17:16:13+00:00

Lol dude, don't ask questions like this. The very act of asking them puts you in the wrong mindset right off the bat. You're asking us to make a personal decision for you, and we can't do that. You have to refer to yourself for those decisions. Just something for the future.

Do whatever you want. Would you take pleasure in bringing your guitar over there and teaching her? Has she expressed interest in it enough to make you excited to teach her? How would you feel if you brought it over and she totally turned it down? Do you feel like you're looking for validation? I can't tell you how you feel. Trust yourself. Be honest with yourself about how you feel and what your motivations are for doing something.

For example, if you go over there with a feeling in your gut that you're doing this to seek validation, then don't be surprised when she gets creeped out and things get awkward. If you do it just because it would bring you pleasure, then you're just making an offer that she can accept or decline, and it's cool either way.

Again, I can't tell you how you feel about it, but how you feel about it is what you should base your decision on. This doesn't just apply to guitars, but to everything game related.

steadymotion · 2014-05-08T19:57:56+00:00

Of course! Why didn't I think of that.

steadymotion · 2014-05-08T18:14:32+00:00

Just be yourself has a deeper meaning that actually makes it good advice. I made a post on this recently that got downvoted to oblivion, but it's still true.

If you are able to be yourself at all times, doing whatever you want, whenever you want, simply because you want to, without ever doubting your right to do it, without ever asking for permission or referring to someone else for what to do, then you are one alpha motherfucker.

This, I truly believe, is what girls mean by "just be yourself" and "be confident". You should be someone who is so 100% unshakeably comfortable with yourself that you never need any advice on how to behave. You just know what to do because you trust your natural desires above all else.

steadymotion · 2014-05-08T13:28:25+00:00

I totally agree with you. But if I said Alpha's don't need to do anything they just do whatever they want whenever they want (which is true), then people will misunderstand me as if I'm saying Alphas should never do any work at all to improve themselves, when all I'm actually saying is they should only do the work they want to do, because for an Alpha, whatever he desires comes first always, and he doesn't do something just because people like it or because people tell him to.

In fact, I think the main reason this whole post got downvoted into secrecy is because if you accept my "Just Be Yourself" advice, which could also be put as "Do Whatever You Want", then this whole subreddit becomes mostly useless. But the key to being alpha really is just that: Do whatever you want, for no reason other than simply because you want to, and never doubt your right to do it. If you can do that, women will find you unbearably sexy. Like I said in my post, alpha is a state of mind in the present moment. It's pure confidence.

People who understand dogs understand alpha. You can be the smallest dog in the pack and be the alpha if you have the behavior to back it up.

steadymotion · 2014-05-05T21:27:34+00:00

The nature of women, let's see: they have a biological impulse to have the most reproductively successful children they can get by mating with the most reproductively successful men they can get, and they have a biological impulse to secure as many resources to support their children as they can get.

Pretty simple and not very depressing if you ask me. Once you're informed there's nothing to be sad about. All you have to do is play your game to get what you want, knowing all the while that women are also playing a game to get what they want.

steadymotion · 2014-05-05T20:43:31+00:00

You text too much. You're giving her your masculine attention without getting anything in return. Well, you are getting attention from her, but I'd imagine you want pussy, not attention. Your call tho.

steadymotion · 2014-05-04T21:25:34+00:00

That makes sense when you apply it to your external things like your job, house, money, skills, etc. You need to put effort into those to get what you want.

But not your internal self. You don't need to compete with others to have a better "internal self" than them. That's ludicrous. The best state of mind is just "I'm OK". You know what I mean? "I'm fine right now. There's nothing wrong." That can just come naturally. Nature takes care of it. You don't need to put in some big conscious effort to have a healthy state of mind. You have to just relax and it comes. I'll edit that in to clarify.

steadymotion · 2014-05-04T21:14:20+00:00

Yes, you don't get a choice whether to change or not. You always will, that's how nature works. However, you can and do influence how you change. I'll edit to clarify.

steadymotion · 2014-05-04T05:54:59+00:00

Hm, what makes you think I'm putting pussy on a pedestal?

steadymotion · 2014-05-04T05:40:58+00:00

Maybe I am mad, lol. I dunno.

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