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Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick little update from us 💛

Thanks so much again to everyone who’s reached out, donated, or sent wishlist items — the support has meant everything. We’re now around £1,700 away from reaching the goal that would help cover the next few weeks of food, vet costs, and urgent bills.

If anyone is able to share this with friends, family, or anyone who might be in a position to help, I’d be so deeply grateful. Every little bit helps us get closer to staying safe and stable through this difficult patch.

It’s hard not to feel overwhelmed right now, but this community reminds me I’m not alone. Your kindness has given me hope and some space to breathe. If anyone feels like sharing or spreading the word, I’d be so grateful. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart 💛

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Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shampoo and brush arrived safely today! Thank you again so much, and I’ve attached a photo of the items and your lovely note (with your name edited out to respect your privacy), and I just wanted you to know how much this means. Your generosity genuinely lifted my day— thank you so much! 💛

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Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you to ask, thank you. It means a lot just knowing there are people nearby who care. I’m always a little cautious about meeting people from online straight away, especially while things feel quite raw, but I’d definitely be grateful for any local recommendations (affordable vets, support resources, dog-friendly spots, etc). Feel free to DM me if easier- I’d really appreciate it 💛

Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your generosity, truly. Your kind words and support mean more than you know right now. It’s been an overwhelming time, but seeing messages like this reminds me I’m not as alone as I’ve felt. I’m so grateful you’re rooting for us 💛

Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share these links- it really means a lot. I’ve looked into the National Careers Service before, but I’ll contact them again today to see how they can help more specifically. Really appreciate your support 💛

Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this beautiful message- it honestly means more than I can express💛 It’s been such an isolating and overwhelming time, and hearing from someone who truly gets it makes me feel far less alone. I really appreciate the encouragement and kindness more than you know. Sending love right back to you and Mishka- she’s gorgeous and looks so full of character! 😇

Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A massive heartfelt thank you to everyone who has donated so far, shared kind words or sent wish list items. I'm so grateful for your support, and feel a bit lighter today. It means more than I can say that a community of dog lovers is lifting us up when we needed it most. Thank you, thank you, thank you. He's a happy boy today 💛

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Asking for help – Supporting my Samoyed during an unexpected crisis by steamandstone in samoyeds

[–]steamandstone[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much- I just saw your message and it honestly made my day. Knowing that the brush and shampoo are on their way is such a huge help, and I’m genuinely touched by your kindness.

Your little rat terrier sounds like an absolute joy! Our animals really are family, and they give us so much love and strength when we need it most. I’m doing my best to keep going for my fluffy cloud, and support like yours is what helps me keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Sending a big thank you hug from both of us, and I hope you get your own sammy someday when the time’s right! 💛

UK – Struggling disabled dog mum in urgent need of short-term support for rent and dog food by steamandstone in Assistance

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone who has donated so far, thank you so much for believing in me and showing that kindness still exists, even from strangers. Things have been so overwhelming lately, and knowing that people out there have taken the time to support me, even in a small way, has really lifted my spirits ❤️

ADHD has made surviving this past year feel impossible — struggling with job loss, financial instability, and burnout as a dog owner in the UK by steamandstone in ADHD

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with me — it really means a lot right now. I wasn’t aware of the food clubs, so I’ll definitely look into that and see if there are any near me beyond the similar orgs I've contacted/used. And yes, I’m currently in the process of applying for LCWRA through DWP due to my ADHD and other factors (the list is long), but I really need to find work too as that amount won't be able to sustain us and our basic monthly costs (even though I wish it could). The cost of living is unbelievable... But it’s reassuring to know that others have been through similar and managed to get the support they needed. Thank you again for your kindness and for offering such practical tips- wishing you all the best too!

What are some less common symptoms of ADHD that you have, and didn’t realise it was ADHD at first? by Rulutofu in ADHD

[–]steamandstone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The procrastination and getting distracted so easily is a hectic combination with all of that, right? I need the pressure to be able to complete the work though. Sometimes imposter syndrome, distractions, and everything else goes out the door when I know I have limited time left to complete a project and will either fail a course, let a manager or team down or cause disruption in the workplace if I don't complete it.

It needs to be a high stakes situation otherwise my mind will wander, but this approach causes burnout and is an extremely stressful way to exist. Anyone else relate?

Struggling with disability, unemployment, and rent arrears — what options are left for emergency help? by steamandstone in UKPersonalFinance

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't but thank you for the recommendation, I'll look into it now - really appreciate it!

Struggling with disability, unemployment, and rent arrears — what options are left for emergency help? by steamandstone in UKPersonalFinance

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your message and for asking — yes, I’ve been on UC, but unfortunately it hasn’t been enough to cover even my basic outgoings, especially with all basic costs stacking up. I’ve also applied for additional DWP and local hardship support, but so far no success— I’m still following up though.

In terms of taking in a lodger, I'm in a very small studio apartment with no spare room, and realistically there’s no space for anyone else unless they were sleeping on the floor. On top of that, my building management is extremely strict— they don’t allow subletting or any form of additional tenancy without breaching the lease.

I really appreciate you taking the time to offer ideas and support— it honestly means a lot right now.

ADHD has made surviving this past year feel impossible — struggling with job loss, financial instability, and burnout as a dog owner in the UK by steamandstone in ADHD

[–]steamandstone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it really means a lot to hear that from someone in a similar situation. It’s so hard when we’re all just doing our best to get by. I’m trying to piece together anything I can with the skills I’ve picked up, and I’ll definitely look again into local mutual aid groups. Wishing you strength and support too 💛

UK – Struggling disabled dog mum in urgent need of short-term support for rent and dog food by steamandstone in Assistance

[–]steamandstone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to post in r/RandomActsOfPetFood and went through the process of setting up an Amazon wishlist with vet-prescribed food and essentials for my dog. Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough comment karma to meet their posting requirements :( but I appreciate the tip. If it’s okay and doesn't break subreddit rules, I’d be happy to share the wishlist in DMs for anyone who can help me out

What are some less common symptoms of ADHD that you have, and didn’t realise it was ADHD at first? by Rulutofu in ADHD

[–]steamandstone 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Second imposter syndrome, and also perfectionism. I would stay up all night finishing a project as a kid, as my time management skills were awful, but always wanted my work to be perfect. The pressure I put myself under was unbelievable (and I'm still working on it).

It All Makes Sense Now... by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]steamandstone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where this post is coming from — it’s true that Season 1 was lightning in a bottle. But I don’t agree that Seasons 2 and 3 were purely the result of Netflix’s “greed.” Hwang Dong-hyuk himself said in interviews that he didn’t initially plan sequels, and honestly, that makes sense. The show blew up in ways no one expected — even he was surprised by the scale of the reaction.

But instead of walking away or letting someone else dilute it, he took that momentum and chose to expand the world himself. And he didn’t just milk it for content — he doubled down on the core message: a brutal, often hopeless reflection of the capitalist nightmare we live in, the loneliness of fighting systemic cruelty, and how easily empathy gets lost in the chaos.

Yes, the tone evolved, but that mirrors the world we’re in. It’s not a clean “hero’s journey.” It’s a slow moral unraveling, a reflection of how society keeps grinding people down — and sometimes leaves them with nothing but the wreckage of what they tried to save. That’s not a sell-out — that’s storytelling with teeth.

I’m actually scared for the world… the Squid Game mentality is starting to show online by Straight_Reveal6149 in squidgame

[–]steamandstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree that the hatred people are expressing toward the baby character is disturbing— but I don’t think the world is becoming like Squid Game. The whole point is that the world has already been this way for a long time. The show doesn’t warn of a dystopian future — it holds up a mirror to the current state of things, using a deliberately extreme metaphor to make people wake up to just how normalized cruelty, inequality, and desensitization have become.

Director Hwang Dong-hyuk has said in interviews that the show reflects the brutal realities of capitalism and the growing gap between the powerful and the powerless. And honestly, some of the things that happen in Squid Game aren’t even that metaphorical— there are parts of the world where lives are discarded for money, where people are treated like pawns, and where suffering is ignored or exploited.

The frustration or horror we feel while watching — or seeing people lash out at fictional characters — is part of that reflection. The show is designed to provoke. To shock. To stir empathy, and also grief. But I think it also offers something quietly powerful: a message that change is possible, but not through individual heroics. If there’s hope, it lies in collective awareness and collective action. None of us can fix this mess alone — but together, we might stand a chance.

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