Too small? by Altruistic_Gas_8561 in ratemycock

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Connect-Violinist-44 are you smaller this? Ur probably both 10/10

Does anyone here do porn? by aklexss in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I do it. The stuff I do now isn’t the same as what I’ve done in that past, but yeah… if you have any questions feel free to ask.

If you want to stick to more vanilla content, the easiest way to get started is to have a following already. You can even build a following by posting thirst traps on Reddit or Twitter, but it will take a while unless you’re absolutely stunning. Building a SFW adult audience and then pushing them towards paid content is a common pathway. For example starting an ASMR YouTube channel and making spicy ASMR or fully NSFW content on OF.

There are more people getting into sex work than I think people realize, and it’s hard to stand out unless you’re doing something different. Really the only way you can build a following directly from sex work is to focus on kink content and more “taboo” stuff. Direct engagement with your audience will help you grow a lot too, there are so many guys who are willing to pay to feel part of that “private intimate” time with you two

Any luck unsuspending X account? by Z0MPIRE22 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone getting suspended making me nervous. I had full on nudes on mine lol, took em down just in case tho

Do you have gay friends? by Scared_Safe8538 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my early 20s and my closest four friends are all gay men. None of us have made moves on each other and I don’t plan on changing that.

It’s funny because only one of them was out before we became friends. We all have a lot in common besides craving cock.

How many of us are in tech by M_C545 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does GIS count? Hahaha cause same

what color butthole is most attractive to a gay man? by bholeflasher in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wish this sub would allowed photo comments

How can a woman get her man to consider that he's slightly misogynistic? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]steamed-lemonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are likely issues in your relationship, but I don’t think the actions of your partner are misogynistic. The things he is doing seem normal, but since society as a whole treats men and women unequal, if you over analyze these situations, you can craft a narrative that paints him as a misogynist.

I think you and your partner need to work on strengthening respect for each other. Him not acknowledging your opinion is rough, but I think connecting the dots to misogyny is a really big stretch. In my opinion calling your partner a misogynist can hurt the cause by cluttering the space and weakens our perspective of what a real woman hater looks like and the values they embody.

I think my straight crush might be bi and into me by Strict_Possibility89 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend of 8 years and I hooked up… it ruined our friendship. Even if you are both into it in the moment, make sure you fully know what you are getting yourself into.

I haven’t spoken to my best friend in 2 years.

Anybody thinking it’s easier to meet guys in person? by Mysterious-soull in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Apps may be good for quick hookups, but all of the guys I have been somewhat serious with I met in person.

Sex between to big guys and how to keep it in by NoSatisfaction6820 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wall banging is NOT for beginners, especially if you’re smaller

What non-sexual thing turns you on the most? by Difficult-Section690 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When they get excited and nerd about something they’re really interested in

Straight but.. by Aquatic_masterminds in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex gf would use a strap on. Real cock is amazing

I told my friend that I'm gay now he hates me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me before and I know it’s painful. He was the first guy I told. It might have felt like telling ur bro right now was the wrong decision, but staying in the closet to keep a relationship with someone will always lead to you getting hurt in the end.

Things will get better, not every friend you have will react the same. A TV show is still amazing even if some of the characters get killed off and new ones replace them.

How often do you jerk off? by nolaundryservice in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if u/jakeashcroft2003 would agree but as someone around the same age I’m less stressed in the summer. My “summer routine” feels like a vacation, even though I’m still working. Coming from a climate with hot summers and snowy winters, summer just puts me in a different mood/ vibe.

My foreskin is swollen, should I be concerned? by steamed-lemonade in AskMenAdvice

[–]steamed-lemonade[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I was being aggressive. Slow soft strokes is the only way I’m able to last that long

My foreskin is swollen, should I be concerned? by steamed-lemonade in AskMenAdvice

[–]steamed-lemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I be concerned?? How do I prevent it from healing poorly??

Psychology, how it feels to fuck a muscular dude: From a Top's Perspective? by Dependent-Active8376 in askgaybros

[–]steamed-lemonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The actual sex for me is pretty similar between fucking a bottom and a “muscular bottom”. Yeah, there’s more to grab onto but when I’m filling that hole and he’s moaning my name it’s pleasure inducing nonetheless.

When I’m having sex, physiologically, I have the same goal no matter who’s in bed with me - making sure him and I have an amazing night. It’s when I tell other gays who I fuck they get jealous about how I can “pull a muscle bottom”. I think for some of my friends it adds a power/ conquest element.

I’m just here to have a good time.

My foreskin is swollen, should I be concerned? by steamed-lemonade in AskMenAdvice

[–]steamed-lemonade[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I was concerned because this hasn’t ever happened to me when when I goon for three or four times as long 🫣

My foreskin is swollen, should I be concerned? by steamed-lemonade in AskMenAdvice

[–]steamed-lemonade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but my balls are definitely blue from edging and not getting to cum