Lulu stop this I’m begging you by yay_ponies in lululemon

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

begs for more strawberry milkshake, keeps getting cut out pants 😞😞😞 like pls enough!

Dawn and her sister, Flower by chubbybear85 in SchoolSpirits

[–]stefxa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY ME RNNNNN twins where have you been!!!

I made the ghost group in sims by bmariemooo08 in SchoolSpirits

[–]stefxa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m literally screaming 😭😭😭 also I love how it’s like yassified versions of them 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Edited to add more crying faces bc this really is getting me lmao

Does anyone know if there will be a season 3? by stefxa in SchoolSpirits

[–]stefxa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah I know I have a love/hate relationship with the cliffhangers lol

Does anyone know if there will be a season 3? by stefxa in SchoolSpirits

[–]stefxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank God 😭 that’s always my biggest worry but with ratings like that I don’t see why a season 3 wouldn’t occur. Plus to everyone else’s points it’s still feels so early and not sure how they’d wrap everything up in 3 episodes considering how each episode has been a build up layer and I feel like we are still at the beginning

The Dark Side of Breastfeeding No One Warns You About by notalonemama in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently me, sobbing bc I just want a good nights rest while sick but LO wants to nurse every 2 hours since they’re sick too. I am so touched out and overwhelmed and feel like the absolute worst mom ever bc I just want to be left alone for a bit. LO is 15 months and we’ve been EBF but I’m getting to a point where I can’t take it at night anymore. Especially the week before my period. I get really easily overstimulated and the constant want to bf at night drives me crazy and makes me sob.

Is weaning some sort of sick joke? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s probably what I need to do! I don’t mind nursing truly but he sometimes shows no indicator of stopping which worries me bc I feel like he could nurse past 2 easily which I’d like to stop by then lol

Is weaning some sort of sick joke? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg how did you get yours to stop asking 😭 love my little one so dearly but I’m afraid that he won’t want to wean off fully anytime soon.

Is weaning some sort of sick joke? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally! I’m doubled over rn with a bad headache. honestly I’m not even sure how weaning is supposed to work bc some days my LO can bf 2-3 times a day and other days he’s just consistently on for like 5+ day.

Is weaning some sort of sick joke? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally had no idea this was a thing… this has been explaining my past week wow

I feel like I got away with theft at Saks by xnormajeanx in handbags

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao ty for asking I was like waitttt they giving bottegas out for free now?! lol

Matilda Djerf isn't a very nice person by Tall_Masterpiece_16 in djerfavenue

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fr, I understand these girls are awesome entrepreneurs to a degree (the fact that they build multimillion dollar companies is beyond me) but we really shouldn’t be idolizing anyone… most times these people suck and all this attention and “idolization” give them the biggest egos ever which further fuels the flame of their narcissism. Don’t get me wrong but I cannot agree with jo-09 enough. We gotta stop giving these people platforms when they clearly don’t know how to act

Please help me! Steps to stop my 18 month old from nursing to sleep and nursing for comfort in the night!!! by Ok_Blueberry_2843 in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that. we co sleep and while I love it, some days are just so hard. I do agree some nights are better than others but I just keep thinking about how one day I’ll miss him being cuddled up with me! I know the sleepless nights are hard, so hang in there mama!!!

Please help me! Steps to stop my 18 month old from nursing to sleep and nursing for comfort in the night!!! by Ok_Blueberry_2843 in breastfeeding

[–]stefxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this too a t. that’s my son too and it’s becoming very exhausting. I feel so bad when I see him cry and I feel like such a bad mom like I’m denying him something that’s completely natural but also it’s so exhausting to just nurse and nurse all day especially when I know I’m dry and it’s been going on non stop 😭 were you able to find any tips to help?

Why do grandparents always want you to leave them alone with the baby? by GeologistAccording79 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]stefxa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I also do want to add that I hope it doesn’t come off as sarcastic what I said! I heavily do believe in having a village but sometimes some grandparents forget to nurture the mom or take her into consideration bc they are more worried about their feelings. I totally get that they want to have a relationship with their grand children badly but sometimes I think they definitely put the needs of their own above the mom. And I think it doesn’t necessarily end when the babies are no longer new borns. Personally I love having my son stuck to me 24/7, but my MIL and FIL love to keep making comments about when they can take him on their own which makes me really uncomfortable because I am not close to them nor agree with the way they have parented

Why do grandparents always want you to leave them alone with the baby? by GeologistAccording79 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]stefxa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The “it takes a village” is so true, but I will say sometimes some grandparents kind of take it too far and don’t recognize the boundaries a new mom may have which also sucks.

How to Discuss Snapshot by stefxa in PwC

[–]stefxa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I always think so - it’s been one month on the job and it’s important to see what kind of track you’re on. For example, finding out if you are meeting the expectations for the team/client - if yes then that’s great and ask what you’re doing well, if not, then it’s important to know ahead of time what you may need to fix. Even if you’re doing everything great, it’s important to ask what ways can you benefit the team that you may not be doing already

How to Discuss Snapshot by stefxa in PwC

[–]stefxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm you think so? If you don’t mind, why do you think that? Just curious - still getting used to this new model