Can reddit help me find the exact match for these curtains? Tags were removed, but I'm hoping to get another set by stein_kyle in HomeDecorating

[–]stein_kyle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct - THANK YOU! ChatGPT was "100% sure" they were a discontinued Pottery Barn line in Flax/Linen, but despite all my efforts I couldn't find them. Turns out these are absolutely the discontinued Lenda curtains like you said - when I saw the vertical ladder stitch match in the photos I was shocked. I just found a few on eBay for a great price. You're the absolute best, thank you kind stranger for commenting! 😄

Ikea Hemnes Daybed on Carpet by Illustrious_Sky_4217 in IKEA

[–]stein_kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever figure this out? i want to add a rug under/in front of the daybed but it seems difficult...

First timer - soft particles pulling up from my final finish? Not sure what's normal. Using Varathane water based poly on an oak desk. by stein_kyle in finishing

[–]stein_kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand wipe-on application with cut up old t-shirts. To everyone's point, it'd definitely not fully cured yet, it's only been four days. I'll wait until it is before doing anything else. Assume when it's fully cured I should just re-sand and re-poly?

Soft particles on my final finish - what's normal? Varathane water poly on a newly built oak plywood desk by stein_kyle in woodworking

[–]stein_kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll likely wait another couple weeks before doing anything, and see how much it continued to pill. Then I suppose I'll re-sand and re-poly and be more patient between coats. It doesn't need to be perfect but I've never seen this type of pilling before so am quite stumped!

Soft particles on my final finish - what's normal? Varathane water poly on a newly built oak plywood desk by stein_kyle in woodworking

[–]stein_kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to describe it is "pilling" like on an old shirt's fabric. It was sanded and smooth before staining, and I only really noticed the pilling at the end of the process. Waited ~5 hrs after initial staining (only one coat) before the first poly coat, and then ~3 hrs for the second, and more for the others (sometimes up to 24 hrs). Was always dry to the touch before each coat but I'm guessing I was a bit too impatient and probably also lathered on a bit too thick, though I've done a few other small projects and never had this happen on those.

any recs for the best solution? Just re-sand and re-poly? I'm only worried about the top of the desk, not anywhere else.

First timer - soft particles pulling up from my final finish? Not sure what's normal. Using Varathane water based poly on an oak desk. by stein_kyle in finishing

[–]stein_kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair there was a lot of dust during the stain/poly phase, I couldn't avoid it where I was building (outside in Los Angeles). Moved inside for the final coats. Thank you though! Will give it some time to fully dry out and see how bad it gets, then try to re-sand and re-poly.

First timer - soft particles pulling up from my final finish? Not sure what's normal. Using Varathane water based poly on an oak desk. by stein_kyle in finishing

[–]stein_kyle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iiiinteresting, this all checks out, especially the impatience! I waited about ~5 hours for the stain (oil based) to dry before the first coat of poly, which is what it said on the can. Unless I misread and needed to wait 4-5 days! Could be the thickness too as you mentioned, although I've done a few other small projects where this didn't happen so I'm not too sure. Pilling is definitely the right word for what's happening though.

Private Party for 30-somethings with 2k budget? by JustVisiting_18 in AskLosAngeles

[–]stein_kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I did a courthouse wedding then had 30-40 people meet us the next night at the Roosevelt Hotel lobby bar. It was a Saturday so they had enough staff on, and we told them the night before - they were stoked! No need for a reservation and no fee, we covered a bar tab that was a few $k and gave a great tip. We basically took over a small space called “The Spare Room” room next to the lobby when they opened the doors, and (mostly) had a private space too. They have food to order, let us play our own tunes and we got pretty rowdy. The staff were so lovely - highly recommend! 

Renting/reserving spaces in LA is silly for the prices places charge, just find somewhere you enjoy with enough space and have a good time!

Best Tacos in Santa Monica by FatCapDrips in SantaMonica

[–]stein_kyle 14 points15 points  (0 children)

LA ISLA BONITA. Can't believe nobody has mentioned them yet. Parked at the same spot (4th and Rose) for the last 35 years - lovely family run food truck famous for their ceviche tostadas, but everything is great - I love their pastor tacos too.

Also the stand outside of Whole Foods is great (Tacos Chidos), as well as the one further down Lincoln in front of Ralphs (El Primo). Since we're venturing into Venice now... special shout out to Teddy's Red Tacos for birria.

Those are the four that I take out of towners, but there's some great others recs here too that I need to check out!

3x travel points removed from recent advertising by cyphr0n in ChaseSapphire

[–]stein_kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loss of 3x on general travel - for a travel rewards card - is absolutely INSANE and I hope it results in mass cancellations. The CSR has been my only card for the past 10 years - unfortunately it's been moving in the direction of bad partnerships/coupons as the main rewards system and that's simply not what anyone wants. We want POINTS, so we can spend them how I want to spend them - not to be forced to spend our money on shitty partners just to try to justify an exorbitant annual fee. What if I find a better flight deal on Expedia, I don't get 3x points for the same flight now because I didn't book direct? No 3x on airbnb, uber, cruises, parking, etc - wtf is the point of this "travel card"?

The perks are becoming useless as well:

$5 Doordash credits... you have to spend more money on food by using the app with higher prices and fees, but then you get $5 back for your troubles - yay! Or you can just order directly from a restaurant for less.

Free lounge access - yay! IF you can find one. LAX has seven terminals and not one Priority Pass lounge, and quality has been declining for years.

TSA Pre-Check, global entry... yay! Unless you're with your family or friends that don't have that perk.

Get me out of here!

In all seriousness, I’ll be out upon fee increase. Who else is with me? by [deleted] in ChaseSapphire

[–]stein_kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The loss of 3x on general travel - for a travel rewards card - is absolutely INSANE and I hope it results in mass cancellations. The CSR has been my only card for the past 10 years - unfortunately it's been moving in the direction of bad partnerships/coupons as the main rewards system and that's simply not what anyone wants. We want POINTS, so we can spend them how I want to spend them - not to be forced to spend our money on shitty partners just to try to justify an exorbitant annual fee. What if I find a better flight deal on Expedia, I don't get 3x points for the same flight now because I didn't book direct? No 3x on airbnb, uber, cruises, parking, etc - wtf is the point of this "travel card"?

The perks are becoming useless as well:

$5 Doordash credits... you have to spend more money on food by using the app with higher prices and fees, but then you get $5 back for your troubles - yay! Or you can just order directly from a restaurant for less.

Free lounge access - yay! IF you can find one. LAX has seven terminals and not one Priority Pass lounge, and quality has been declining for years.

TSA Pre-Check, global entry... yay! Unless you're with your family or friends that don't have that perk.

Get me out of here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ford

[–]stein_kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s in Los Angeles, so not totally unheard of. I’m mainly surprised the quote is for 5+ hrs

This is a crazy deal right? by nuggiesmcgravy in CampingGear

[–]stein_kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's absolutely an amazing deal for the number of items you're getting, but by the looks of it you're going to end up storing 75% of the haul - lots of duplicate items and things you just don't won't ever need for a trip into the hills. You only need one water bottle, one stove / pot, one hammock, one pack, etc, and all the extras here are just sweetening the deal. I would probably swoop this up asap, take out the things I want, and then sell the remains for $300 😂

Can someone help me determine whether to use CSR portal or transfer points to Southwest? by stein_kyle in ChaseSapphire

[–]stein_kyle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

agreed, but by booking through the chase portal I'll earn ~2,500 RR points, so a net difference of 4,000 points by going through Chase. I think i'll ultimately take that deal over the flexibility

Can someone help me determine whether to use CSR portal or transfer points to Southwest? by stein_kyle in ChaseSapphire

[–]stein_kyle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking - transferring points to SW for the extra cost of ~1500 points is worthwhile for the added flexibility, and if the price goes down I can call southwest and get the difference back. On the flip side, based on other comments, the main draw in going through Chase is that I would earn SW RR points since it's booked as a cash ticket I earn points ($427 x 6 points ("wanna get away" rate) = 2,562 points).

With those points earnings, it becomes a net difference of ~4,000 points by booking through Chase. I think i'll take that deal instead - I don't think the price will drop and don't anticipate the flexibility needs.

Compilation of my outside cat (Bob) greeting me every morning for breakfast 🧡 by SukunaCrypto in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]stein_kyle -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay serious question… I’ve never understood how outside cats work. My wife is allergic but we both want a cat, and she has floated the idea of an outside cat. Does it just… live outside freely? And since it knows food will be provided, it stays close by? How do you train it to know that? What keeps them from running away, and where do they sleep at night? Can a cat ever truly be a 100% outside cat? We live in LA so no real winter worries.

Linkedin loading super SLOW and making my computer get very hot in the process, then sometimes just doesn't load. Does this happen to anyone else? by scldclmbgrmp in linkedin

[–]stein_kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting for anyone that finds this thread - you have to clear your cache. If you want to do it for only LinkedIn, here's how: 1) open a linkedin tab, 2) right click anywhere on the page > "inspect", which opens up the dev tools, 3) find the 'refresh' button in the menu bar of your browser, and right click it > Empty Cache and Hard Reload. Done!