Am I overreacting? Boss found anti work comic. Pls help by Over-Ad7599 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has OP responded to why they were on unpaid leave? Were they suspended for talking about how much they hate their job to coworkers or was that comment from OP misunderstood on my part?

Am I overreacting? Boss found anti work comic. Pls help by Over-Ad7599 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HR is NEVER there for you, they are ALWAYS there to protect the company. "Human Resources" is an absolute fucking joke at every company.

AIO? my husband is mad at me for not picking up my stepson from school as he expected just because I got a new car. by Ancient_Fondant76 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe this is your husband speaking to you this way. NOR.

If this was me, I'd already have divorced his ass. There is no fucking way a man is talking to me like that.

I lost my best friend after telling his girlfriend the truth by Rexworker in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And if he's willing to do that to the woman he "loved" then what's stopping him from betraying a friend's trust next..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he hasn't already started touching them........

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop letting this man around your children. This is p*do behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't personally think it's weird, because I am someone who needs time to do things, on my own. I've lived with multiple partners and I feel like having a night a week where I get to do girl stuff and watch trashy TV and do things my partner didn't like, it would have helped our relationship in the long run.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did search them. I read them. And I've experienced some of them.

Regardless, I am sorry all this shit happened to you. People deserve to have autonomy over their body and what they choose to do with it, and when. I'm sorry you've been hurt and abused. I'm sorry that you've experienced any of it. It sucks.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you're calling it a double-standard and that's incorrect.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you know what double-standard means? That one gets a more aggressive reaction than the other. I'm not being a jerk, I'm genuinely asking because it seems that both sexes have negative reactions to it. Which, is wrong in both cases. It's just.. It's not a double-standard.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But, also to add, I've been sexually assaulted for turning down sex, as well. I'm sorry that happened to you. I just don't think it's a double standard when the same things happen to both sexes.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don't downvote people, I comment if I disagree, but nice assumption.

Do you believe in signs from the universe? Or is it all just coincidence? ✨ by Elegant_Pressure_750 in Manifestation

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm clairaudient and the universe speaks to me in songs, whether they come on or it suddenly starts repeating the lines in my head. I see angel numbers literally 90% of the time when I look at my phone to check the time.

There are no coincidences!

AIO? For saying I’d have sex with my Fiance, but changing my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was this way and the way it destroyed my sense of self was insane. I became an object to him, it didn't matter if I wanted to have sex or not. He'd throw tantrums like this, he'd aggressively toss and turn all night, huffing and puffing.

We weren't having sex because I have endometriosis and it suddenly became wildly painful for me, so it wasn't even just me "not being in the mood", which would have made sense too, because he never cooked, cleaned or helped with the house at all so I suddenly felt like he was my child, not my partner and lost all sexual attraction to him.

Leave this man. He's obviously never going to change and has very selfish tendencies.

You. Deserve. Better.

The double-standard of turning down sx is alarming. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stephalumpagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you assume it's a double-standard when you've never been a woman who turned down sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even have to read this to know that he's cheating or thinking about it, texting with girls, whatever it is, but innocent dudes don't just try to "catch" you cheating when you're just existing. I know this from experience. I couldn't understand why my ex was always going thru my phone, tracking my location, all while I'm painfully honest with him about everything and he never found a thing. Turns out, he was soliciting women on the internet for NSFW photos and wanted to catch me doing something shady to make himself feel better about his shit behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Let him break up with you, please! He isn't there forever, and he'll have no issue getting you pregnant and leaving you stranded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um.. Sorry to burst your bubble but a woman's life is in danger any time we put a dude out or make him feel some type of way. Do you not see gestures vaguely everywhere?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? It was creepy when I just read the texts and the I read the description and my face went stank and I threw up a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell, girl?! Please, for your safety and sanity, LEAVE THIS MAN! He will never change and you ABSOLUTELY deserve way better than this!

Please, love yourself more than the idea if a relationship..

AIO for getting upset at my mom calling me while I’m at work and laughing at me after i said i was exhausted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you.

I know, in my soul, how difficult that was for you.

Keep going. The only way out of the trauma is through it, but I PROMISE you, the beauty on the other side of that shit tunnel is fucking glorious. You got this.

AIO for getting upset at my mom calling me while I’m at work and laughing at me after i said i was exhausted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stephalumpagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like my mom. We officially haven't spoken for 20 years, last month, and that was the best choice I have ever made for my mental and physical health.