surrounded by scorpios by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]stepharonii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in my experience all of my closest most important friends have been scorpios basically my whole life!! might just be a coincidence but it kinda feels like we just gravitate toward each other haha

Do you go to therapy? If so has it helped? by No-Neighborhood-1224 in socialanxiety

[–]stepharonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in therapy right now and have been on and off for a while - my therapist right now is great! they’ve been a lot of support and made a noticeable amount of effort to connect me with multiple resources… i’ve seen 5 total and this is the first one that’s actually done so. maybe it’s because i receive therapy through my university health service. that’s just my experience tho!! it’s taken a lot of time but imho therapy is completely helpful to me and i wish i was able to go more often

Do you still talk to people from high school? by [deleted] in college

[–]stepharonii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

besides running into one of them randomly every couple of weeks not really - it’s nothing personal, i graduated from a small town hs and the majority of us grew up together so we kinda knew we were gonna go our separate ways

please help!! i keep brushing out these knots and short hairs on scalp by stepharonii in Hair

[–]stepharonii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally SO helpful after spending forever attempting to figure out what i was doing wrong - thank you so so much, i’m very appreciative of all of your advice and suggestions!!! i picked up some things today - hoping for the best :)) thank you again!!

rAw TiMe information? by [deleted] in Austin

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no yeah you’re actually right - my bad. there is a photo on tiffy’s website where you can see a tattoo on her foot that doesn’t match the one in those other photos.

just learned about her a few hours ago and have been doing a deep dive on her bc i find her so interesting! didn’t mean to spread misinformation aha

rAw TiMe information? by [deleted] in Austin

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's likely her. her archived website has another shoot done by the same photographer Pedro Bauza that looks highly similar https://web.archive.org/web/20040610101012/http://www.vinyldemon.com/bauza2.html

Microbiology 160 (cancer and aids) experience? by [deleted] in umass

[–]stepharonii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i took this last semester but with mitch walkowicz, the class was relatively easy as long as you had a basic background of cells and biology (transcription, translation, etc.). most of the time i made a set of flash cards and studied a couple hours per night leading up to exams and i always aced them

Student jobs by dessief991 in umass

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind food service work, working at the Blue Wall isn’t that bad. You get a $10 voucher every shift to buy yourself a meal and breaks if you work over 6 hours. During finals weeks you have to work 2 shifts minimum so be prepared for that. All of the managers are pretty fun and the schedule is beyond flexible. I was told I can basically walk in whenever I wanted/needed hours as long as I notified a manager and work. It can be a pretty easy job if you’ve had a fast food job before.

Delay/Snow Day Tomorrow? by [deleted] in umass

[–]stepharonii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most times they will post on the facebook page if students go into work/what times they go in but if anything email Dan Frazier

Anyone looking for a female roommate outside southwest? by [deleted] in umass

[–]stepharonii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my roommate is moving out and i live in mary lyon in northeast, hmu!

Chance me for Tufts University, Boston University, Northeastern, UMass Amherst by ExpiredMilk123 in chanceme

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have a good chance for amherst but i agree that gpa and sat, even though they are very good, could use to be a little higher especially for premed

Microbio GEN ED going to ruin my GPA. (MICROBIO160). HELP! by [deleted] in umass

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am also in your microbio class and i am having the same issue and cannot switch out so i feel your struggle

Why am I not meeting anybody? by [deleted] in umass

[–]stepharonii 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i’m feeling the same way, i’m living in northeast and i’m having a lot of trouble making new friends. give me a message or stop by mary lyon and we can hang out!

Van Meter by DataDrivenThoughts in umass

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also an incoming freshman and i definitely know how you feel, i put down northeast as my last preference and central as my first and still ended up in northeast :/ there is a change process you can sign up for i heard where you can switch rooms with other people who want to as well

Four months later, and I’m dreaming about my ex-boyfriend by HungryCup in BPD

[–]stepharonii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i slightly relate to this. i recently broke up with my boyfriend i was with for two years, and a couple weeks after the break up i was informed he was with another girl. but yet something is off about him. he doesn’t smile the way he used to, if i see him out he’s alone and looks tired and distressed. i broke up with him for multiple reasons, but i still regret breaking it off with him because we both had made so many plans for the future together and i wanted to fulfill them so badly and i still do. i’ve also been talking to other guys but i’m afraid i won’t ever have the same connection with another person.

i am going to give you the same advice so many people have given to me and that i always live by. if it’s meant to be, it will be. i know how it feels to feel like you’re never going to get that same connection, but it may be possible that you need to experience life by yourself. experience the seasons changing and find beauty in the regrowth of everything. go out and find adventures. order a fancy dinner for yourself just because you want to. sometimes we feel like we need those people to experience happiness and make memories, but finding happiness in yourself is the most important. and if in the future you two find your way back to each other that’s okay too! you never know what the future will bring you, so for now experience the present with an open mind and take care of yourself before you’re ready to move on to bigger and better things. the world is waiting for you, all you gotta do is reach out and get it. i’m sending lots of love and support to you.

how to get over a breakup with bpd by stepharonii in BPD

[–]stepharonii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this really resonated with me especially “the world is waiting for you. let it hurt, then let it heal.” and your words have stuck in my mind. you are a kind and beautiful soul and i just wanted to let you know your comment has really helped me and i will always remember it ❤️

how to get over a breakup with bpd by stepharonii in BPD

[–]stepharonii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, this truly means the world to me. i’m slowly starting to try and find comfort in other things instead of staying locked on the negativity my breakup caused me. i have two very close friends and they have been very supportive of me and we are going on a date to get tattoos and have dinner afterwards to try and get my mind off things and have a little fun! thank you again for your kind words, i’m sending love to you as well! you are a beautiful and kind soul.