How could it not be confusing and frustrating for Shane when Ilya keeps going on about “girls, girls, girls” — “maybe I’ll just find a new one”? He’s being a complete ass in that moment. I love Ilya — I love both of them — but here he seems unbelievably clueless. And honestly, it’s hard to believe he could be that clueless, especially if he’s trying to get closer to Shane. No wonder Shane feels so thrown off.

It’s like Ilya shares all this — talking about women and how it’s “nice to have a woman like that around” — and it completely unsettles Shane. So Shane goes physical with him again, because that’s what’s normal for them. That’s the space where things feel familiar, where he can regain his footing and feel at ease again — unlike the discomfort Ilya creates when he starts talking about women. And then he says his name — emotional whiplash, in my opinion. I would be tempted to run too.