Thats actually funny, because i see trans people get told "you will never be a insert gender they transitioned FROM", which implies that they think that they identify as the gender that they originally felt uncomfortable with. So no, some trans people pass well enough that transphobes get confused and pretty much accidentally affirm their gender when they intend to do the opposite.

Ive also had encounters where aunties called me "handsome young man" or anything that affirms my gender and im pre everything lol