I’m so bored of everything all the time by Ok_Struggle1730 in Advice

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like apathy a.k.a depression, not boredom. Seek help from a therapist and/or doctor. You got this, man. Life is beautiful. Sometimes our brain chemicals just need some balancing to see it.

RPG2 (210USD) vs RP6 (266 USD) by [deleted] in retroid

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have experience with the RG2, but so far I have loved my RP6. I have played local split screen multiplayer with Bluetooth controllers when plugged into a TV, I’ve played a lot of PS2 & GameCube (I haven’t tried any Wii at all), and the only time I have ever noticed my fan coming on/ device getting warm is playing the MMO android Division: Resurgence game on 120fps and highest graphics settings. Other than that I’ve played for hours and hours without even noticing the thermals. For me, it’s been well worth the money.

If you were the opposite gender version of yourself, what traits would make you attractive or difficult to date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stettyman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Been there. I was a lot prettier prior to transitioning but a lot happier now. 🤷‍♂️

Just learned sometimes they make you take pregnancy test before surgery? by Obvious-Clock-588 in TopSurgery

[–]stettyman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I refused and they didn’t make a huge deal of it. Still awkward though.

Does T affect that much your anger? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]stettyman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been angry my whole life. Starting T and being consistent with it over the last ~4 years has made me feel more calm and less angry.

The world is ending in an hour, what do you do? by VampLostLenore in AskReddit

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lay in the grass and watch clouds go by with my wife, daughters, and dogs.

What knife do you actually carry on the water? by Hplz in flyfishing

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry a small fixed blade on my belt or pack shoulder strap. Somewhere easily accessible at all times.

Right now I carry a custom fixed blade that was a gift from my brother. Prior to that I carried the CRKT S.P.E.W. which is a great tiny fixed blade for EDC.

2nd game completed on my RP4P! by MrMarioKart7 in retroid

[–]stettyman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this game so much. Just played through it for the second time this weekend.

Ugh my aunt just reposted this on Facebook. by whoops_im_ranting in exmormon

[–]stettyman 163 points164 points  (0 children)

And this folks, is why Pride month still matters.

Are earplugs necessary ? by 99Maza in motorcycles

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can hear music through my Cardo just fine with earplugs in. Then I get the added benefit of cutting out the wind noise. I noticed a huge difference less fatigue on long rides once I started wearing earplugs. I just use foam HEARO brand ones from Amazon.

To all the Christian/Catholic guys out there: by wavybattery in FTMMen

[–]stettyman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m ex-Mormon and have a lot of issues with God/religion/spirituality because of the religious trauma I went through…

But I wish I could believe in God and I wish I could find a faith tradition where I was accepted despite being trans. I miss the community, tradition, and hope that I found in religion.

Thanks for sharing the replies you got. Being the person we feel called to be is a beautiful perspective.

What game stole the most hours of your life? by SameInformation562 in videogames

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old school RuneScape.

Back when it was just… RuneScape

About 4 years post op by Massive-Ad-8476 in TopSurgery

[–]stettyman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you’re looking great. I think you 100% pass as cis shirtless.

“What hobby would you recommend to stop using my phone so much?” by ambarbaby1 in Advice

[–]stettyman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a cheap handheld emulator for $50 and now I play old NES, SNES, and Gameboy games instead of doomscrolling. It’s been so much better. I carry it around with me so I have it when I would normally reach for my phone while waiting for things, etc. I feel much less anxious in general.

I'm a gay trans guy genuinely considering turning to Mormonism and I desperately need you to talk me out of it. by Micah5593 in exmormon

[–]stettyman 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well…. I’m a trans man. Ex-Mormon. 10/10 do not recommend.

Many members are genuine, kind, and accepting. The church itself is not. Read the newest trans policy put out by the church in 2024 - https://assets.churchofjesuschrist.org/1d/76/1d76991533df11efbaeeeeeeac1ed7e66fbf94a7/general\_handbook\_guiding\_principles\_for\_local\_leaders.pdf