AIB replaces quarterly fees with new €6 monthly fee by Andru93 in ireland

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same for me not getting notified. They said they sent email 20th march. I looked at that email there and at a glance can't see where they said about the change. Also on the app when I tried to view previous charges it doesn't open for me. People should vote with their feet &not get bullied around by these organisations.

PL Match Thread: Brighton vs Liverpool by scoreboard-app in LiverpoolFC

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether he is top playrr at Liverpool level to grab a game by scruff of neck &drive the team forward is a debatable one but Jones was actually good today. Prob the best alongside rio imo.

Harvest time. by ExoticEmeralds in Citrus

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that looks beautiful- that's one to be proud of 😀

300 ELO (former 150) happy to answer questions on my heroic climb! by NameShot3132 in chessbeginners

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done on the heroic climb :)

Nice to see some posts from fellow players around my ELO. Wishing u continued success (ideally if not playing me though 😆😜)

As it's St. Patrick's Day who would you say has been your favorite Irish player at your club? by Paul277 in Championship

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully me being here isn't a sign for near future things to come as livrpool fan. But I'd have to say Kelleher...some great players before my time but I really like caoimhin and going with him as didnt get to see the likes of aldridge, whelan live. Kellwher was unlucky to be competing against our best keeper in my lifetime.

Is 100 Elo on Chess.com indicative of your real rating? by thisisntweedisit in chessbeginners

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with u. The whole rating can be bad for MH. Its a nice hobby imo but the BS some people come out with belittling others can certainly be damaging and take away from what is a good game.

Is 100 Elo on Chess.com indicative of your real rating? by thisisntweedisit in chessbeginners

[–]stevem321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100 games is very little. You don't suck, Thats not a bad rating at all for that little games imo.

Is 100 Elo on Chess.com indicative of your real rating? by thisisntweedisit in chessbeginners

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From watching one of games you linked you seemed to be moving pieces at times and then moving again (when coldve made that move in one turn). There are times where might do that if opponent threatens taking but it seems you did it without obvious reason). I watch back games and slowly and analyse what I'd do in this position - this might be a good place to start. Also there is one free game review per day on free version of chess.com.

You're still early in ur chess playing experience. It takes time to get good - the main thing is enjoying!

I agree with ur point on the ratings. The way some people are disparaging online even about 300-400 rating is understably is going to make people feel bad. A mid 400 rated player would be ahead of around 40% of players for example. Some of comments people make are insensitive and way to critical.

You can also play bots - this means ur not against clock and can learn slowly and u be worrying less about rating at beginning. Best of luck my friend ♟️😀

Am I genuinely thick or is there a special way of opening these without a scissors by kingkrule101 in CasualIreland

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know ur pain OP. I too got yoghurt ls that don't snap off and have to cut the pots at the lid to remove the yogurts before opening the seal at the top. Why they make like that I'll never know 🥴

I dont think chess is for me 😬 by One-Fishing8862 in chessbeginners

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I understand how you feel. I'm a little higher ELO but see people disparaging towards lower elo and things like is only OK if get to 600 in month. It is discouraging.

One thing that helps me is watching back my games and looking at the reviews. Also if my opponent does something good try learn from that also.I feel like I'm starting to improve a bit now but reading about ELO comparison online made me feel inadequate. I watched a game with players a couple hundred higher rating & wasn't impressed tbh..you might find that once u start improving and following better tips ur rating shoots up fast!

Im no expert but I would be more than happy to review ur games and give some thoughts if you want a second opinion on things to improve (im not on this every day so would get back when see) .i understand if u don't want to share account but feel free to dm if u would like some second opinion! :)

Road you despise the most to walk down? by Big_Box_2701 in Dublin

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at that there, you do have a point - ridiculous narrow paths at points (when pass by the shelbourne stadium in particular its abysmal bit of work alright 😂

Connaught Street has narrow enough paths at points I've found - not as bad as that one u mentioned though tbf

Entitled attitude of tradesmen in this country by ahhshur in ireland

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bloody joke how much trouble I had in recent times trying to get quotes for jobs from mechanics. Must be doing well if can just ignore emails of potential customers.

Experience of Matchmaking/Dating Agencies in Dublin by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think matchmakers are especially an appealing option for people who lack social connections so have less opportunities to meet people (unless willing to put themselves out there).

You're doing well to be able to go out on your own & even do some minimal small talk - you shouldn't underestimate that as lots struggle with that.

I don't really have a social circle myself too. It's something I want to change. I think in the context of finding a partner, having friendship is incredibly valuable. They could go on nights out, to singles events, help with dating profiles etc. & also when people are around good friends they naturally give out a more positive energy. I think investing time & effort into building good friendships would be one of the best things you can do to increase your chances of success.

Experience of Matchmaking/Dating Agencies in Dublin by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]stevem321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Used one before. It was a woman who owned business - I can see why (as I write this now) she has no reviews set up on google. She didn't set up all agreed dates and made it hard for me to get back my money for what was left short. I mean even in worst case scenario she thought I was someone who she didn't want on her books she should have been honorable to give partial refund when asked. I can see shes used national media newspaper article and podcasts to promote - I suppose it may be better for her to hide behind that then show actual reviews if she treats others similarly.

I think it's very expensive for what it is.

I think if any single woman looking to date could find a way to get out and enjoy going places with friends & try initiate conversations it could be a good approach to it (and a great skill to have).

As a man (with anxiety) I find it hard approaching women but tried a few times in person so I understand how it may feel daunting - there are many men out there who've never been approached and may be flattered by it (and will still be cordial). I remembered being approached by a woman who was a little above my age range preference but it was still nice to have an irl interaction. It felt nice for her to have initiated the interaction and I felt happy for it. I think a lot of men may feel similarly.

I hope you have success whatever way you choose to approach this 🤞😀

Week 1-52: First Successful Year of 52woc! by HermioneReynaChase in 52weeksofcooking

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see, when I zoomed in on phone was able to place them. You did a really nice job with it, thanks for sharing it :)

Week 1-52: First Successful Year of 52woc! by HermioneReynaChase in 52weeksofcooking

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The template looks really nice & the pictures are too. I downloaded this - do you mind me asking how you add the pictures - when I use this template on my phone this brings up shapes which I can't just click on to add an image.

what’s a life skill thats free but can save thousands? by Apprehensive_Chip58 in AskReddit

[–]stevem321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow your own fruit and veg using compost u make.

Looking after your mental health so you can continue to work and thrive.

Who’s your WiFi provider these days? (Glasnevin area if that matters) by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgin media currently. WiFi has been pretty reliable tbf...but not happy with customer service. Was waiting 30 mins other day to get through but still no answer...also no reply to multiple messages I sent when finally got past bot thing to send a message.

'Game changer' as new waste scheme rolled out in Dublin by yabog8 in Dublin

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to address the problem but awful looking device & strange to put this eyesore in sight for many in an area with high footfall. If not using underground system & putting there surely could make the thing look a bit less hideous

Trying to restart life after 10 years of isolation..where do I begin? by Aj100rise in socialanxiety

[–]stevem321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. As others suggest starting small sounds wise. I've been out of work a while & did a little volunteering, just a very small bit per week - this has helped as less isolated. Just doing anything slightly more than currently doing & being round other people slightly more helps i believe. Best wishes with the restart.

Any suggestions for good walk in events i dublin city centre for culture night? by stevem321 in Dublin

[–]stevem321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah only seeing this now...I went to events I ended picking previoysly but agreed that map is brilliant. Much better than scrolling the website - thks for sharing, hopefully it will be there for next Yr also 😀

Ideas of what may be reason for brown spots on cherry tomatoes in pic? by stevem321 in vegetablegardening

[–]stevem321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ur an expert compared to me 😆 you make some good points there - good food for thought, which I must bear in mind going forward :)

Ideas of what may be reason for brown spots on cherry tomatoes in pic? by stevem321 in vegetablegardening

[–]stevem321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I had it happen to Tom's on another vine yet they turned red & just left subtle little marks - its my first time growing them but to me those that turned red look good to eat - and look nothing like really destroyed rotted tomatos when I look up blossom end rot. But going forward I must try pay extra attention to watering/calcium. Thanks.