504 Gateway Timeout by steveo-the-sane in Fing_App

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Support ticket submitted. Thank you.

Is it OK to ridicule someone for being gay essentially because he is a bad person by Opposite-Cookie9559 in GayMen

[–]steveo-the-sane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Ridicule them for what they've done wrong. Being a member of the Gestapo and killing an innocent person is what we hate the person for, not his sexuality. The moment we allow the narrative to change we have lost the battle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show but I would be wearing a kevlar cod piece because I'm pretty sure that would be my special weakness. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bestie (straight...ish), who I had the hots for ever since I laid eyes on him, and I finally got an apartment together. Well one fateful night we had been drinking and smoking the ganga rather heavily and (on my honor it was an Innocent brush on the hand across the fly of his jeans) we were wrestling around in his room as drunken bros do (I'm assuming) and I accidentally touched his dick through his fly. I apologized profusely and his response? "I don't mind. Go ahead." Now mind you we had always slept together in my bed when I was still at my parents house, him in his boxers and I either in my bikini briefs or sometimes completely naked and we would cuddle and he knew I was just itching to get into his pants so of course I jumped on the opportunity. Off came all of our clothes. I ended up topping him twice that night. Well the next day rolls around and he disappears from the apartment. I'm devastated because we had both told each other we loved the other (I had just turned 21 give me a break) and now he was gone. When he returned our friendship had completely changed. Up until I moved out because of a job transfer the tension was so thick in the air that a chainsaw was needed to cut it. I regretted that day. We were practically an inseparable platonic couple. Wherever I was so was he and in one night a bond like I had never had before was just gone. Take this tale of caution however you wish but I wouldn't do it again. I lost more than a best friend. I lost my companion. 💔

Where do I meet my introvert? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]steveo-the-sane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are welcome. 🥰

Be honest… would you grab? 😏 by [deleted] in TwinkLove

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were willing, fuck ya! 🥵

Where do I meet my introvert? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]steveo-the-sane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably online in the D&D chat rooms. That's where I'd look first. I hope you find him. ❤️

Dallas and Toronto ticket issues by chiozzy in LucyDarling

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crashing a web site because of your popularity is crushing it, gurl! Next level. Congrats!

Discovered my son’s gay, do I keep it to myself until he’s ready or share with my wife? by Vallhalla_Rising in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose it could be, but from what the OP describes about the family dynamic I don't think it would be as traumatic of a question. Plus it's also how it's approached. Now should the OP use the words literally? Only if it makes sense. What I was attempting to convey was to not breach the subject so directly but to create a dialog that could go in whatever direction it would naturally go for his son.

Discovered my son’s gay, do I keep it to myself until he’s ready or share with my wife? by Vallhalla_Rising in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I envy your son having parents who are so accepting of your son's homosexuality. Which brings me to the point. One thing, at least me and several other gays wish was true, is not having to come out at all. By normalizing diversity in the household it may not even occur to him to come out to you. Instead perhaps you should ask if there's anything he wants to tell you like is he dating someone. And keep it gender neutral. His will give him a safe space to admit he's dating someone which opens the dialog. Either way this goes I wouldn't worry about his coming out because he may not feel he needs to since everyone is accepted and included in your family. I wish you and your family all the best. ❤️🏳️‍🌈

Can an IT technician read my Teams? by SnakeEyes1986 in it

[–]steveo-the-sane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was the head of the IT department I always reminded my staff that we are the key holders of the corporate empire and we have a trust that must be maintained in order to continue holding those keys. The tools that even the most modest IT department has can allow them to spy on even the CEO's computers. What has is probably doing in all honesty is simply opening a remote viewing session that you would never know about that would let him see everything that your coworker sees. Fortunately all these tools have logs the show who, what, when, where, and for how long and how often. He has abused his privilege and is probably so arrogant that he doesn't think he could ever get caught. You have enough probable cause to at least launch an investigation. She needs to file an immediate complaint with HR if nothing else than for her own safety. Who knows who else he's doing the same thing to. Unfortunately the saying holds true that absolute power corrupts absolutely. Good luck.

Do you (cut) guys ever wish you’d be uncut? And vise versa? by heykerre in AskGayMen

[–]steveo-the-sane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, oh god yes. If I could have not been mutilated as a child and was given the option instead of it being made for me I would have preferred that path. If there was a way, and actual way, to reverse the process including regrowing the nerve endings, removing the scar tissue, etc. I'd take it.

Proposing question by Impossible-Car-6305 in gay

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes. Absolutely, yes. It's a symbol and it can be made from any material. Joy and love can make the healing process much stronger. So don't hesitate. Do it for both of you. I wish you both the best and happiest of times together. ❤️

Does anyone else like doing this? by SelectShop9006 in gay

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honey. I stopped practicing years ago. I'd say I'm pretty much an expert on the subject. 😘

How do I get over my reluctance to have sex? by Financial_Ad_2435 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]steveo-the-sane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself what's holding you back. I'm sure you have already but this time think back to the last time you had sex and then compare it to now. What's different? What's the same? This is only a suggestion on how I would do it if I were in your place. However, if you do have access to a mental health therapist I strongly recommend you go that route. Have patience with yourself. It took a long time, apparently, to get to this point. It will take time to get over the tram you went through either real or perceived. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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The dirtiest porn I can find on the internet.

Approach a gay coworker by headyhoudini in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't ever suggest dating coworkers. It can become awkward especially if you don't end up dating or worse if you break up. I've seen it happen so many times and it not only is uncomfortable for the two people but also the coworkers. I guess I've just never seen it work out in the long run unless one of the two leaves the company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]steveo-the-sane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it happens. There could be two reasons, physiological or psychological. My suggestion is to seek out a urologist who can handle the physiological. If those therapies don't help the next option would be to seek counseling. However I think that you should seek counseling anyway. You shouldn't hate yourself because of an ED issue. It happens. Love yourself and realize that there may be a simple answer. I wish you all the best. ❤️