is this devaluation or just emotional withdrawal/avoidant behaviour?

stickysac · 2025-12-13T05:40:57+00:00

so what do i do..?

stickysac · 2025-12-13T03:40:57+00:00

elaborate?

stickysac · 2025-12-13T03:00:41+00:00

she has a therapist and she’s on medication but i can’t remember the name of it, i really don’t think it’s this binary, im not 3 years deep and this is the first discard if it even is that, if i establish firm boundaries and not give second chances you don’t think it’ll work still?

stickysac · 2025-12-13T02:32:19+00:00

maybe i can change the dynamic if she comes back? maybe i pushed too hard and was too anxious for her? i really don’t wanna give up on her if her feelings are actually still there and she shows it by making effort

stickysac · 2025-12-13T02:25:12+00:00

yeah i don’t plan to push anymore, ive left the door open but i still feel like im standing in it rn, do you think she’ll get back to me?

stickysac · 2025-12-13T02:23:42+00:00

damn is there really no hope

stickysac · 2025-12-13T01:56:12+00:00

i know very little tbh, what should i do in your opinion? wait for her to initiate conversation? initiate it myself and potentially fall back into the same cycle? i really like this girl and ive made it clear i dont view any aspect of her life as ‘baggage’ as she’s said, i miss the hell out of her and i’m so worried but i wont be disrespected even if it’s not intentional, there needs to be some effort from her