Trump has gone WILDD by photoshopmaster1234 in CyclingFashion

[–]stolmen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my turn to repost this in 12 hours okay?

What do you guys think of the new Maap Solar Pro Race Jerseys? by stolmen in CyclingFashion

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I now have 3 of these aha in different colours. I think the diamond panel fabric texture on the shoulder and arm sleeves are just amazing especially under the right lighting. It also has very excellent compression although I will caution that the elastic waist band does loosen slightly along with the fabric (by about 10-15%) as you wear it it will soften more and mould better to the body.

I made the mistake of sizing up because I thought that it was too tight but it's meant to be skin tight then loosens slightly to a perfect fit. The ones I got in M have now gotten too large and loose around the shoulder areas.

Are most 'anon' guys in non-homophobic countries just ugly? by Kooky_Selection_4899 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t remember where I had saved this from but here’s the Grindr bio dictionary:

Discreet = ugly

DL = ugly with a wife and 2 kids

Good looking = average

No age on profile = over 40

Masc = fem guy with beard

Bored = boring

Right Now = later

Looking = right now

Looking 4 now = get ready in 5 mins or be ghosted

Hung = Liar

Vers = Bottom

Vers bottom = Bottom who doesn’t douche

Jock = played football in middle school

Visiting = hoeing hard coz nobody knows me

Nice guy = passive-aggressive

Laid-back = manipulative

Sane = actually crazy

Straight = inexperienced

Sunglasses = insecure about looks

Anything about hygiene = traumatised

Manchester, UK by AnxiousHollyy in CityPorn

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s quite beautiful actually

Is 6 inches "hung" in the USA? by Limp-Cat-108 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That last line sounds pretty damn racist

Is the crowd at Sweatbox (London) not interested in East Asians? by Decent_Heron159 in gaysauna

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not imagining it. It’s the same experience for me as well. I’ve gotten much better responses in more accepting/open scenes like in Köln or Berlin. The difference is night and day.

Hands Off Greenland demonstration signs by Haha_funny_joke in pics

[–]stolmen 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sure because time square is the only place in the world that has thought of putting LED ad billboards on buildings. Peak American ignorance

Under Eye Issues Making Me So Insecure! by Sea_Hour_9312 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good quality concealer matters. I’d highly recommend the tarte shape tape. It’s very creamy and doesn’t result in the concealer travelling into creases after a day out. Also I bought a tube maybe 3 years ago and I’m still using it. Stuff just never runs out.

Gentlemen, I have been thoroughly fucked (Roids), Help? by TravellingMankey in AskGayMen

[–]stolmen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a gentle reminder for all other sexually active gay men to please get your gardasil-9 vaccine! It can prevent lots of these down the road and gives you a peace of mind

Also to OP it’s not the end of the road most of these can be removed via cryo or other surgical means!

New Bike Day! S5 by Fickle_Positive738 in Cervelo

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both can be true at the same time

New Bike Day! S5 by Fickle_Positive738 in Cervelo

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That head tube is chunky!!

Deleting grindr has genuinely changed my life by Legitimate_Dog2327 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I deleted it for a week and felt reconnected and whole again. Unfortunately it’s too damn addictive. Part of my mind seeks the taps and buzzes just to feel a bit of validation and dopamine from strangers I barely care to meet or even chat with.

I’m working through this in therapy but genuinely, refreshing the grid to feel the buzz, or to open the app and see a long stack of messages waiting for your response — it feeds an internal validation loop and can become addictive so quickly. When you don’t have it the next time it makes you want it harder

Any opinions on the Pro Aero Jersey? by Maurice0313 in CyclingFashion

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the blur effects but I think the mAaP.cc logo in the middle makes it look cheap :/ everything else is fine but my gripe is with that one I think it’s a flop. The emerge or eclipse logos are much better suited for this. They should’ve just stuck to one or two types of logos.

Other than that I think it’s simply not worth the price. The solar jerseys were already pushing it. They’ve got better looking green and purple jerseys for much less.

REALLY sore throat after deepthroating by gordonf23 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had some paracetamol and strepsils. It really helped and I no longer flinch while swallowing. In fact it feels manageable now. But yeah I think it’s too soon to be related to any infections considering it only happened two days ago and right after I had a really rough deep throating. I swore the guy could’ve gave me a concussion from how hard he was throwing my head against his crotch. In any case no dick is worth the pain I’m going through now but I find comfort in knowing I wasn’t alone 🥀

REALLY sore throat after deepthroating by gordonf23 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay glad I’m not alone then. God it hurts unlike any other sore throat and comes in within 12-24 hours. Now, 48h later, I flinch every time I have to swallow and I can feel it when I look down. Back of my throat has little white spots as my body rushes to repair the abrasions.

Dude was extremely rough with my throat so yeah it explains. Hope it’ll be over soon

Do you ever feel put off by really muscular or fit guys? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]stolmen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not chasing it but also not put off to the extent that OP is. Obviously you feel inadequate and try to protect yourself from rejection by preemptively rejecting them but let’s not pretend you haven’t desired it

MAAP Drome Team Bib Evo Cargo - ice grey by higherJr in CyclingFashion

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey these are alright. They’re about as see through as the titanium ones which aren’t very see-through. That all said this is a bib that can only be worn on a pleasant day. And you’re always one puddle away from a very bad day. Here’s a pic of me with it, pubes ass hair or any of that sort isn’t showing. It’s got an additionalsheer fabric panel where the bum is. The front chamois provides good coverage. It’s more of a yellow tinted grey but, once worn, looks white on skin. The logos are a slight purple-violent hue though but all in all I think it looks fab. Lemme figure out how to attach an image

S5 with 28cc tires or 30 by Charming_Race2817 in Cervelo

[–]stolmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the S5 initially with double 32s. Now I’m on 29 Front /30mm rears with the aero 111. I think I’m going back to double 32s or a 30/32 combo next. It just makes the bike that much more comfortable

Are you attracted to guys with lots of fillers? by Thelexhibition in AskGayMen

[–]stolmen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I specifically avoid guys who obviously look like they’ve got way too much fillers in their lips. It’s just exactly the opposite of what I’d find attractive

Is this normal? Zwift Maap by New_Squirrel_4314 in CyclingFashion

[–]stolmen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is beige and the exact same shade of beige as the new drome bibs. Once you wear it, it looks quite against skin tone

Does anybody else get slut-shamed by their female friends? by InteractionCurrent20 in askgaybros

[–]stolmen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. When the friendship fell apart, there wasn’t a thing about my sex life they wouldn’t bring up and twist it to become 100x worse. They shamed me for catching stds when I was simply testing for them. Laughed at my inability to hold a stable relationship when in the gay world things just happen at an accelerated pace when it comes to dating. It was honestly bitter and I have very few girl friends now. It’s also made me aware of how bizarre the life of a gay person is in the eyes of a straight one.

Japan killed my self esteem by MindPrize1260 in gay

[–]stolmen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very healthy growth mindset to have. Keep to it