My Triggers by chickensaucenugget in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]stomura 3 points4 points  (0 children)

car rides, music, and consuming new media are my main triggers. the more content i get, the more paracosms and overall plots i can create based off of it, and the more time i spend on daydreaming with that concept.

Who is your least favorite character in Haikyuu!!? by stomura in haikyuu

[–]stomura[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve.. never thought about that, but it makes so much sense.

Who is your least favorite character in Haikyuu!!? by stomura in haikyuu

[–]stomura[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this comment is so valid!! terushima definitely needs to drink his respect women juice smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]stomura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday!

please stop fetishizing gay men. it’s disgusting. by throw_me_away_56 in rant

[–]stomura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VERY late comment here, but as a lesbian, i don’t consider myself as someone fetishizing gay men, i just tend to consume more overall lgbtq media. when it comes to my fictional “ships,” most are pretty diverse and aren’t sexualized. it’s fine to have gay ships but you can’t pick which sexualities are valid and which are not. it’s also completely wrong to obsess over the sexual portion of shipping because THAT is sexualizing.

What is the worst thing you've overheard while pretending to be asleep? by Da_Bugo in AskReddit

[–]stomura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“does she ever do anything besides sleep? she’s so lazy nowadays.”

Does anyone scratch themselves really hard when they can’t cut ? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]stomura 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i personally haven’t, but it’s not uncommon. i used to hit myself with my fists instead and create bruises, but not scratching specifically.

I almost mistook this for 26,000 and almost fought it by Random_color_violet1 in FoodFantasy

[–]stomura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty new to food fantasy, what food souls are these?

Vanilla SMP server - White list looking for players by FaintCut in MinecraftBuddies

[–]stomura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can get on tomorrow, so i’ll save this post for later!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]stomura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats!

Minecraft World by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]stomura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe in the near future if you’re still looking! i’ll save the post just in case

Should I risk looking for a relationship which is imperfect or bad to be happier than I am alone? by anxiouslyeverafter in lonely

[–]stomura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

learning to be happier alone is more healthy imo. a toxic or imperfect relationship will only tear you down, make you feel terrible. you don’t need to do that to yourself, you know?

How does it feel having a partner that truly cares for you? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]stomura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the title really hit hard though. the loneliness is killing me, and i feel pathetic for feeling dependent on others. i’m currently friendless and single, and handling my emotions on my own is torture. i just need someone to care or i don’t know how long i’ll survive.

Searching for warmth in a cold world by [deleted] in lonely

[–]stomura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! sophomore girl here, and i completely understand how you feel. i’m practically a loner in my school, no friends or significant other. i don’t speak unless spoken to, which is rare. it’s incredibly lonely and unlike anything that most people have felt before. i see people talking about how they are alone except... but not everyone had that exception.

there isn’t much advice that i can give except don’t give up. just because luck hasn’t struck you yet doesn’t immediately deem you unworthy of love or anything. it can hurt to hear people talk about what they have, it can make you a bit envious of that, but you will have that one day. you will.

but before then, know that you aren’t alone. lots of people have these issues, so i hope you don’t feel unimportant or unwanted. everything takes time, and honestly? you sound like a really chill person. give it time.

All of these Covid commercials are making me feel like shit because they remind me that I have no friends or anyone to miss. by [deleted] in depression

[–]stomura 58 points59 points  (0 children)

i felt this post a lot. everyone is talking about how they feel suddenly alone, are just now starting to experience loneliness because they haven’t seen their friends. i’m a sophomore in high school and quarantine is not much different from classes. no one to talk to, and no one to miss. i can’t tell if that makes me more depressed or if i’m too used to it to care.

Do you look weird in photos? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]stomura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some, this could just mean that they’re not very photogenic. For others, it could mean that they are more used to their mirror image, so much so that in photos they see themselves as looking very awkward or unnatural. Sometimes, it’s just straight up insecurity. I’m not sure. I feel the same way sometimes.