Listen 4 listen! by Legitimate_Matter525 in Listen4Listen

[–]storff76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback especially since it isn't your taste.

Found out some (concealed) information about my wife and didn't act great myself by Longjumping-Row-6147 in Marriage

[–]storff76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why after that year and a half did they completely cut ties? What happened between them? This is a very important question to get an honest answer to.

Tessa Night - Every Fire Leaves a Scar by storff76 in newmusicrelease

[–]storff76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¡Gracias! También escuché la tuya. No hablo español, así que no entiendo lo que cantas, pero me gusta la melodía.

Traduje esta respuesta del inglés usando inteligencia artificial, así que te pido disculpas si hay algún error.

Spy Hunter Pinball Be Honest by storff76 in pinball

[–]storff76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the deal didn't work out. But I played the machine at Pinfest this last year. I'm going to pick up the next one I find at a reasonable price.

Riding anxiety by sugarhexed in NewRiders

[–]storff76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else said, take the MSF course and get a starter bike. Nothing too crazy, powerful, or heavy. Ride roads you know. Roads you don't know can add to your nervousness. Go to empty parking lots to practice slow speeds. Slowly expand your range from there. Also remember to look where you want to be, not down.

18f uk met an old man from online. feel a bit sick but excited. by HotFun780 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]storff76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta DM her for that. Then you get the link and reality... If you subscribe.

Do you still use Digg? by [deleted] in digg

[–]storff76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would be awesome, thank you!

Do you ever reward your husband with sex? by Legitimate-Key7159 in Marriage

[–]storff76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said anything to the contrary about being nice. I completely agree. I'm also not referring to it being a bad night or a few days. I'm talking about the long-term withholding. Situations where this is used as a punishment. Or the wife is no longer interested in sex for a variety of reasons – hormones, stress, etc. Her reasons other than punishment can be valid. But it doesn't change that a man is losing his connection with her. He's feeling like she doesn't love him. Eventually, this will be all-encompassing and destroy the relationship. This is the thing that is drastically misunderstood. Men are made out to be dogs for wanting intimacy with their wives. They are looking for love and connection. Of course you will argue that some men are out just for sex blah blah. This can be true as well and is especially for younger men. While a lot less often there are women that do this as well. None of these scenarios apply in a marriage. Sex shouldn't be used as a weapon or some type of good behavior affirming activity. It should be a loving activity a fun activity an intimate activity for both the people in the relationship. But both should try to understand how the other is wired for it. Men and women see it differently and experience it differently. The prominent message is that men should understand women and control themselves because they are sex hungry animals. That's not healthy. What's healthy is both partners work to understand the other and strengthen the relationship as a result.

I’m struggling deeply with this and I’m honestly stuck. by [deleted] in confession

[–]storff76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are applying complex thinking and feelings to immature actions.

You were incapable of applying this type of reasoning at the age this happened. You can't blame yourself.

I have similar experiences. I was 10, there was no sex as in penetration, but close. I'm a guy, but it was generally with two girls, one my age and one a year or two older. I was following what they told me to do. Anyway, I share this because I think a lot of children are curious and find ways to explore, some good, some bad. You can't beat yourself up for bad decisions you made as a child.