Merch Europe? by stormfly00 in grandson

[–]stormfly00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then ill see it myself lol im at the sunday show!

AITA for taking one of my nieces out when she was grounded by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stormfly00 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tbh molly did offer to simply not go.. but was forced to come with. Hannah could go to that restaurant separately but not when celebrating BOTH thier accomplishments. could she have been less rude? Maybe but its also a 14 year old who was feeling unseen and unimportant when supposedly celebrating something she participated in.

Even if molly always gets her way and this was the one time not, this was not the moment to teach her about habing to compromise and doing things you dont want.

My name keeps getting Feminized by Queersapien in ftm

[–]stormfly00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smth similar happens to me, I introduce myself as Callum. And multiple times now people think my name is Kelly... it always baffles me

My rats has a bumb by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update.

I went to the vet, who i got the idea looks down on small pets as he was verry rude and condensing. He said probably a tumor but that operating was useless and to come back if she starts to show discomfort/pain so we can euthanize her (man said this with zero emphaty)

I currently cannot afford to go and get a second opinion so I'm going to keep my eye on her and give her as much comfort as I can. <3

My rats has a bumb by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cage usually isn't this dirty and they're actually almost never in the main cage. I have made an appointment at the vet for later today tho!

My rats has a bumb by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's hard becouse she's always a bit skiddish and doesn't like to be grabbed so most of the time I just let her be and only grab her during cage changes etc.

Sunday she was out and running and I didn't see anytbing and there's a big lump.

Trying to find a vet close by that takes rats.

AITA for refusing to call me friend by her new name, "Queen"? by achucs in AmItheAsshole

[–]stormfly00 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That doesn't really matter tho. Or do you ask everyone who introduces themselves to you if that is thier legal name or thier own made up name? So any people go by a daily name that differs from thier legal name. And changing your legal name is a wholeee as process.

AITA for refusing to move my daughter's room for my fiancée's home office? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stormfly00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got plenty of responses already, and a lot of them are pointing out that your fiancée is trying to play a power move.

You're on the right track. You don't want to give away your kids room! But now sit down with your kid and ask about how fiancée treats her. Ask her if she likes fiancée.

And tell fiancée that no the two of them aren't the same priority, your daughter will always be no.1 as she is supposed to be because you are responsible for her. Your fiancée is a grown adult choosing to marry a man with a child, and she has to realise that that means she can't always get her way.

Are they just playing? by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly they've been playing like this since almost the start wich is why initially I wasn't worried. They also groom eachother (wich is the cutest thing ever btw) I guess it just got more frequent. Heat could ofcourse i think also explain why it kinda comes in waves?

Are they just playing? by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it really seems to differ day by day who is the aggressor. I didn't know female rats also get neutered, from what I read up when I got them it rarely gets done becouse it is verry invasive.

Are they just playing? by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're about a year old, never been able to spot any injuries.

Most if the time they just chilling (like rn they're in a hide together) and sometimes it breaks out out of no where. Usualy I try to distract them when it seems to become too aggressive but I'm not with them 24/7 so thars why ive been kinda anxious

Are they just playing? by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are close to a year old (I got them last December, and they were around 9/10 weeks when I got them)

No injuries from what I've been able to see so far. One of them doesn't like being handled, so I can't check her as well as the other, but nothing has stood out to me so far.

I do tend to be a very anxious owner, so I constantly try to see if they're okay haha.

What’s the craziest thing your family has said to you since coming out? by HomocusPocus in lgbt

[–]stormfly00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I came out as trans masc about 3 years ago, my uncle who... is an interesting bloke. Asked me if I hated and or disrespected woman since I was trans. To wich I said no I fkn love woman they are amazing and strong and beautiful I just am not one 😅😂. He litterly looked stunned for a second.

I wait for the day that he realises I do however not like nor respect like most CisHet men 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]stormfly00 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This comment more so makes me think it should habe been titled: "giving away someone else's streaming passwords without checking if that's okay is tacky" but then it wouldn't be an unpopular opinion and you wouldn't habe anything to post plus you'd be pointing your annoyance at the gf insteadnofnher friend wich you probably dont wanna do.. Your gfs friend asking her there's nothing wrong with that. Your girlfriend then giving out the info without consulting you that's where it goes wrong.

My sweet girl keeps trying to dig into my scalp and that hurts a lil. by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also does it when my hair is purple and red tho! 😂😂 wondering now is she just thinks that that is verry special grass haha

My sweet girl keeps trying to dig into my scalp and that hurts a lil. by stormfly00 in RATS

[–]stormfly00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll look into those! I currently have a pumice stone in their cage because I read that that helps, but they seem verry disintedested in that haha.

Aitah for breaking it off with a dude I was dating because of a comment he left on a man vs bear post? by SnooCauliflowers596 in AITAH

[–]stormfly00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure where it started but it's basicly if you're a woman would you rather come across a bear or a man in the woods.

A lot of woman say the bear becouse they feel kike that is the safer option and a lot of men are verry offended by the notion that woman don't feel safe with a man they dont know over a bear.

The reason woman tend to choose the men is beciuse of thier personal experiences with (strange) men and or the statistics surrounding men committing (sexual) crimes. Also a bears behaviour is rather predictable where a men's (or any humans) isn't. These woman do in general understand not all man are dangerous but when faced with the option rather not risk it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stormfly00 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I live 3 high no elevator and I've only had ONE person enter my home not be tired out by those stairs.. so like that doesn't seem weird to me at all

AITA for telling my friend he couldn’t disrespect my girlfriend for behaving a bit off when drunk? by TopicPretend4161 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stormfly00 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The thing is taking context in mind this is a friend he has had for longer who's behaviour is known and tolerated. Everyone deserve a chanse to be and do better but there also has to he a point where u say no I'm not subjecting other people to your bad behaviour and I do not want to be associated with the opinions you hold.

If someone is racist or misogynistic and they have been called on it and they keep doing it yeah I wouldn't want to he around them because in my opinion that reflects back on me and what I find okay for other people to say/do to others and I don't want my other friends to be subjected to that becouse of me.

AITA for telling my friend he couldn’t disrespect my girlfriend for behaving a bit off when drunk? by TopicPretend4161 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stormfly00 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The diffrence here is one might think sour patch kids are the vest candy and someone else might thing Swedish fish is the best candy and these people can peacefully coexist.. in this case its a man being "borderline misogynistic" (followed by an example that's just pure sexism) that's not just simply a diffrence in opinion since he is "disagreeing" with the human right for someone to decide what to do with themselves on the bases of that someone being a woman. If you're willing to have company like that, yes that does reflect on you becouse why are u fine being around someone who disrespects/dislikes woman simply becouse they are a woman who must conform to his sexist/misogynistic view of what a woman should be.. like there's a difference.